FabSwingers.com forum: How far

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How far are you willing to travel for a meet?

How long do you need to be chatting before the trust is there so that you travel to them?

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Prefer 30-40 if I’m the only one travelling and going to their place.

I did an hour once and the sex was shit so I refuse to go that far again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I few to the west of Ireland for 5 days, what an experience that was.

We had been chatting for well over a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a person I can truly connect with, as far as necessary. My thought is that for long distances, I can make a weekend out if it, and see somewhere new at the same time as meeting that person. I like to visit new places.

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By *ldergent2021Man
over a year ago

Retford

"For a person I can truly connect with, as far as necessary. My thought is that for long distances, I can make a weekend out if it, and see somewhere new at the same time as meeting that person. I like to visit new places. "

Similar here i travelled to Newport and we have been good friends ever since

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I won’t travel too far for a social bit for a fwb maybe

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

When it takes from home a minimum of 1 1/2 to get to the mainland ports and a minimum of £60 you can see why most of our meets are in parties or clubs, expect IoW ones obviously.

Though we have made this journey for adorable couples we've meet and stayed overnight, usually with more costs, but they are the type who REALLY tickle our pickle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not far at all. Same city or Glasgow at the furthest.

Just being honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am regular visitor to Scotland anyway. Furthest I have travelled is to Dundee for a meet.

Though no distance is off limits for the right one

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Prefer 30-40 if I’m the only one travelling and going to their place.

I did an hour once and the sex was shit so I refuse to go that far again.

I can't find anyone I'm interested in withing 45 mins

Would love to have some closer friends.

For the right person, and the right meet I'm happy to travel anywhere. I like seeing new places and so make the longer journeys into day trips away, so really doesn't matter so much if they drop out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not far, I keep it localish.. I've gone the distance, so to speak, and the experience was pants. So lesson learnt

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

As far as I think a person is worth.

Which, being a generous sod means I will generally cover vast swathes of our green and pleasant land.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As far as I think a person is worth.

Which, being a generous sod means I will generally cover vast swathes of our green and pleasant land. "

Bless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never put a limit on distance. The further away the harder it is to stand and you have to be more certain you both want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have kids and can't travel much. So as much as I would like to follow a connection, I can't. So far haven't found anyone local I like and think I could trust.

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By *eaderMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

If the right person is at the other end then distance isn't an issue. Obviously it easier closer to home but easier doesn't mean better does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never put a limit on distance. The further away the harder it is to stand and you have to be more certain you both want to meet"

Yes

Although I wouldn’t travel, I’d never let someone down when a plan had been agreed for them to come to me. Doing that to someone would be the height of shite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy to travel if the vibe is right. This island isn't too big either and there is always an adventure round the corner to explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right guy, anywhere.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’d travel as far as was practicable to meet someone I was on the same page with. In the past I’ve done round trips to London from the Pole and over to Dublin and Belfast and back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never put a limit on distance. The further away the harder it is to stand and you have to be more certain you both want to meet

Yes

Although I wouldn’t travel, I’d never let someone down when a plan had been agreed for them to come to me. Doing that to someone would be the height of shite!"

I’ve always looked a distance the same regardless of who was travelling. And yes that would be a shit thing to do but you hear of it so often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sticking locally these days. It's not that I'd never travel but they would need to be really close and consistent for me to decide to go to them. Someone from approx. 2 hours away wants to come to see me in new year. I made sure he has other reasons to visit here because if things don't work out I won't feel bad. We spoke on the video chat though so that reduce the likeness of things not working out

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

I don’t mind travelling at all. I do so a lot for work in any case and it’s a good way of breaking the monotony! Sometimes a social sometimes more sometimes combined x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

About as long as it takes to get from the bedroom to the living room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About as long as it takes to get from the bedroom to the living room"

Stealth boast!!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Distance is not an issue if I really like someone, you can always meet halfway if need be. I don’t ‘do’ local anyway I prefer there to be at least 30 miles distance.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"About as long as it takes to get from the bedroom to the living room

Stealth boast!!"

No, more like I’m lazy and expect them to come to me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've flown to England over a period of a few years but I don't have either the time or inclination to travel more than an hour each way now. If I'm meeting someone from further away I expect then to make the same effort and meet halfway.

Previous experience has taught me that the level of expectation is increased with distance.It's not always the person travelling who feels the journey has to have a particular outcome.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

For someone I know well and trust, I can travel. i went to NYC in 2019… well, we went, but he was at the front of the plane.

If I am really interested, I invest time and effort and travel. But for a first social I tend to keep it fairly local, or go to London as it is close, anonymous and fun…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am regular visitor to Scotland anyway. Furthest I have travelled is to Dundee for a meet.

Though no distance is off limits for the right one

This

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Living in a holiday resort I tend to get people who away from home want some fun away from the risk of gossip or complications.

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

No distance is off limits really, if we are interested and we trust the person/people then why not? It's just the logistics and time due to family and work commitments that may cause the issue.

As for building the trust, as long as we are comfortable and the person/people can verify themselves that's a good base to start from.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

For the right person I’d travel anywhere tbh. Sometimes a flight to Scotland or Ireland is easier than driving somewhere closer… for the wrong person I wouldn’t walk to the end of my drive

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

About an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to travel 330 miles few times a year to see a lady but always made it a holiday at same time but usually a hour is enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not an issue for the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind driving, mainly Glasgow /Edinburgh / Stirling way for ease

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Flew up to Edinburgh for a weekend once... but was a good few months of chatting first...

Maybe some new years resolutions ahead to be more spontaneous?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half an hour each way but if we meet in a club we’d be happy to travel anywhere in the UK and make a weekend of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About as long as it takes to get from the bedroom to the living room

Stealth boast!!

No, more like I’m lazy and expect them to come to me

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We've travelled 150 miles for a lady who has travelled the same for us.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Not far… not here for casual one offs so local suits me better. I’d travel for social events to see friends but that’s it.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Not far… not here for casual one offs so local suits me better. I’d travel for social events to see friends but that’s it. "

That wasn’t thunder,that was my heart breaking

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Not far… not here for casual one offs so local suits me better. I’d travel for social events to see friends but that’s it.

That wasn’t thunder,that was my heart breaking

you goon!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha that's funny

And goon wow that's a blast from the past hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travel time is simply never going to turn me on.

So, 30 mins or under would be about right.

But that’s never set in stone, everything can change is something feels right.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Before I used to travel all over london, but nowadays I dont really have time to do it, so the best distance would be just locally, within just few miles

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By *uietlycheekyMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

I’m Scottish…. I would walk 500 miles …. Then I would walk 500 more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To Leeds, either Pandora or Quest after a social in either Wakefield or Meadow Hall.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I normally tie it in with a weekend away so I have all bases covered in a long journey

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Prefer 30-40 if I’m the only one travelling and going to their place.

I did an hour once and the sex was shit so I refuse to go that far again.

I can't find anyone I'm interested in withing 45 mins

Would love to have some closer friends.

For the right person, and the right meet I'm happy to travel anywhere. I like seeing new places and so make the longer journeys into day trips away, so really doesn't matter so much if they drop out. "

Are you that far from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple profiles I've seen on here that I would travel to timbuktu for a chance to kiss their cheek.

But realistically probably no more than an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going as far as kirkby in January to meet someone

but also visiting family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't get much free time so rule of thumb an hour max. That being said if you really hit it off with someone further then you'll make time for the meet somewhere

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I travelled 1h 10 yesterday that's as far as I would go really.

I am planning to go to Wales at some point to see a previous fwb

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I did go to Manchester just for a group social, but have travelled a lot further in the past to meet a certain lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am travelling to Manchester for MLS but that's a one-off. I wouldn't think a FWB would work if I could only see them once a month if that. And that's what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm feeling energetic, maybe 15 metres

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our work hours are all over the place, so would rather upto an hour preferably! Would love to go to MLS, but 4 hours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel just over a hour once never again they never showed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our work hours are all over the place, so would rather upto an hour preferably! Would love to go to MLS, but 4 hours...

I know someone who drove 9 hours - said it was worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right person or people to the moon and back

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I would travel to meet someone.

Lots of chat beforehand if I was going to travel quite a distance. But i do enjoy a road trip to new places

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Our work hours are all over the place, so would rather upto an hour preferably! Would love to go to MLS, but 4 hours...

But you'd get to meet me.

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By *ronson.Man
over a year ago

hiding in your wardrobe

About half an hour to be honest. I’ve travelled far before and the people were quite rude and obnoxious.

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By *rPeachyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

About an hour - but it depends if it's a first meet or something more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our work hours are all over the place, so would rather upto an hour preferably! Would love to go to MLS, but 4 hours...

I know someone who drove 9 hours - said it was worth it!"

oh wow! Ok I'm not the furthest away then haha! Hmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our work hours are all over the place, so would rather upto an hour preferably! Would love to go to MLS, but 4 hours...

But you'd get to meet me.

Now this is very true

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Our work hours are all over the place, so would rather upto an hour preferably! Would love to go to MLS, but 4 hours...

But you'd get to meet me.

Now this is very true

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Wont travel x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

40 mins tops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you click with someone then I'd travel the length and breath of the country ...as long as I get to stay the weekend lol

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I would say maximum two hours. And a good conversation for A few months. If we’re lucky a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our work hours are all over the place, so would rather upto an hour preferably! Would love to go to MLS, but 4 hours...

It's worth it. Especially if you make a weekend of it and stay two nights

come!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Our work hours are all over the place, so would rather upto an hour preferably! Would love to go to MLS, but 4 hours...

I know someone who drove 9 hours - said it was worth it!

oh wow! Ok I'm not the furthest away then haha! Hmm. "

Someone was planning on flying in from America till Covid got in the way. I believe she's coming to the April one though

It was a great couple of nights, you should come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I traveled 32 miles went quiet on me when i arrived. Gutted as it was the first time I've traveled out for fun

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Distance isn't an issue for me

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I won't travel more than 5-10 mins drive as I just don't have the time

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Depends who it's for. The trust thing is massive for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would all depend on how well we got on and how good the chemistry was for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled 3 hours. The sex was good but fucking hell he was boring as a person.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We love a weekend away so will happily travel a few hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing more than an 1/2 hour away, probably 45 minutes but that isn't exception to the rule.

With me the more I chat to someone the more I go off them. So anything more than 5/6 message in and you are not on your way the chance are it's not going to happen. X

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