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By *inding Myself OP   Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

How can a wink be anything BUT unsolicited? Surely that is the point of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said they weren't?

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By *inding Myself OP   Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people say that they ignore winks winks are handy if you get winks you can then check out the profile that winked sure that’s the whole idea anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

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Curious. How does one solicit a wink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

Curious. How does one solicit a wink? "

Sends a message saying is it ok to wink at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

Curious. How does one solicit a wink?

Sends a message saying is it ok to wink at you "

Though would have to ask via skywriting or a double page spread in The Times! Or maybe that’s just to ask permission to fab their photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just mass delete winks we dont view the profiles justa daily mass delete ... why ?? because we can and there 100s of messages to sort out too .... for many winks are lazy

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By *fternoondelightsCouple
over a year ago

Rainham

We do like a nice wink

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

Curious. How does one solicit a wink?

Sends a message saying is it ok to wink at you

Though would have to ask via skywriting or a double page spread in The Times! Or maybe that’s just to ask permission to fab their photos! "

Lol ha ha

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By *inding Myself OP   Man
over a year ago

Shinfield

My thoughts exactly. They also say they're notooking for single guys but looked at my profile without me saying they could.... Lol

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

Curious. How does one solicit a wink? "

One puts in ones profile or status that one welcomes winks and messages I guess

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

Curious. How does one solicit a wink?

One puts in ones profile or status that one welcomes winks and messages I guess "

I'll give it a try...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

Curious. How does one solicit a wink?

One puts in ones profile or status that one welcomes winks and messages I guess "

Who the hell reads profiles or status messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

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I’d say that member is taking themselves a bit to seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

I’d say that member is taking themselves a bit to seriously

V"

Agree with this.

Personally I have a look at who winked and if someone looks good, happy to send a cheeky wink back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s ridiculous to have to message to check if it’s ok to wink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dieu that’s right I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

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I see that and I just think they are full of themselves, OK so they don't respond to winks, fine but why the need to announce it and have to let the world know they're too good for that. Just do it n shut up, no one actually cares.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

People are free to wink or not and the recipients are free to ignore or not.

I choose to ignore most of those I receive because we don't tick each others boxes and they obviously haven't read my profile. I don't delete winks though and that prevents them from doing it again.

It's the "I've posted a new pic and need all the fabs I can get to appear in hotpics" winks accompanied by an unsolicited friends request that is more eyerolling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the poster had spell check on and was annoyed by an unsolicited wank?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you gonna do about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the poster had spell check on and was annoyed by an unsolicited wank? "

Oh my goodness! I’ve just finished a night shift and that’s made me laugh so much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

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Haha people are crazy! Let ‘em, we’ll have all the fun instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

I’d say that member is taking themselves a bit to seriously

V

Agree with this.

Personally I have a look at who winked and if someone looks good, happy to send a cheeky wink back. "

Exactly. It’s an ice breaker and hardly a block able offence.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

A Wink is just a "I like you" sometimes two people who like each other will mutually wink and then the dance can commence

Its exactly the same as the majority of the dating sites

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Winks never hurt anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F’kin winkers! How very dare they!

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Ffs some people on this site are dicks. If you're that precious over someone sending you a wink. Please fuck off and block me. I'm sure neither of us will lose sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

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Who are they and I'll proactively block myself haha. I don't need that kind of negativity in my life, I whinge enough for my entire area code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a bit of a “winker” , messages hardly get read anyway

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By *anchester_subMan
over a year ago

Manchester

If they wink, I go perve and wink back or if I really like them send a message

Alway good to be winked

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

I love a good wink!

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

In response to any winks I receive I reply with a polite thank you message, common courtesy costs nothing.

They often turn out to be good ice breakers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

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The block in this case says more about the person doing the blocking than the person who sent the wink. It's says their a fuckin idiot.

Think I was blocked the other day by someone for logging in. It's gone that bad with the blocking. And these are the same people who complain they had a quiet year on here this year. What do they expect? Goons.

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By *uietlycheekyMan
over a year ago

aberdeen


"A member is saying if they receive unsolicited winks you get an instant block.

The block in this case says more about the person doing the blocking than the person who sent the wink. It's says their a fuckin idiot.

Think I was blocked the other day by someone for logging in. It's gone that bad with the blocking. And these are the same people who complain they had a quiet year on here this year. What do they expect? Goons. "

I’ve been winking like I’ve got Tourette’s since I joined !

I tend to agree with the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a wink that is reciprocated is the green light into a cheeky little message! A must!!!

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