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By *uckitboi OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them "

I have let guys suck me through a glory hole, where I haven't seen their face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean good for you

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Had a couple blow jobs during swing times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think they are straight guys if you are sucking them

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I don't think they are straight guys if you are sucking them "

Sure they can be. If any hole is a goal it's just like using a sex toy. If the person doing it is happy to oblige then why not

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them "

You've never sucked a straight man's cock (not with consent anyway)

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them "

I have an irrational fear of letting a man suck me off. My fear being; I end up having to admit men suck cock better than women……

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By *uckitboi OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

We do

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By *vvenloMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them

I have an irrational fear of letting a man suck me off. My fear being; I end up having to admit men suck cock better than women…… "

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them

I have an irrational fear of letting a man suck me off. My fear being; I end up having to admit men suck cock better than women…… "

I can suck a golf ball through a garden hose !! X

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

A guy sucking a straight guy, what you meant was you suck guys who claim to be straight but aren't

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I like sucking straight guys.

Actually, I'm not that fussed if they're straight or bi.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

If a so called straight guy let's another guy suck his cock.

Im sorry but they aren't straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a so called straight guy let's another guy suck his cock.

Im sorry but they aren't straight.

"

I used to struggle with that definition too, but I've come to accept that there are people that can disengage from the person that's doing the sucking and just enjoy being sucked.

It may be a controversial notion, but maybe the straight guys that can allow another guy to suck them off aren't 'not-straight' but in fact are just not homophobic (meaning they're not entirely repulsed by the idea of being sucked off by another man).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a so called straight guy let's another guy suck his cock.

Im sorry but they aren't straight.

"

They are whatever they choose to call themselves. Let people define their orientation how they feel comfortable

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

I think there is a big difference between someone’s orientation and their conduct. I also think the sexuality is fluid and the people need to be more comfortable with the idea that as you get older or you experience new things that the label you have can change and it is perfectly okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the sucking of my cock as long as it is good and I don't care who is doing it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I like sucking “so callled” straight women, any bit of their body apart from eyeballs and smelly toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them "

Is your self esteem that low that you're happy to be a receptacle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy sucking guy. Neither is straight. Embrace it, carry, nothing to see here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them

Is your self esteem that low that you're happy to be a receptacle? "

Would you say that to a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you go through the veri rabbit hole

You see a lot of straight men meeting eachother and having fun

Why not just put bi curious on your profile? That's what you are obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them

Is your self esteem that low that you're happy to be a receptacle?

Would you say that to a woman? "

I sure would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them

Is your self esteem that low that you're happy to be a receptacle?

Would you say that to a woman?

I sure would "

If she was fucking a guy who was with her cos 'nothing better' was available, which is what the OP alludes to

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them

Is your self esteem that low that you're happy to be a receptacle?

Would you say that to a woman?

I sure would

If she was fucking a guy who was with her cos 'nothing better' was available, which is what the OP alludes to "

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them

Is your self esteem that low that you're happy to be a receptacle?

Would you say that to a woman?

I sure would

If she was fucking a guy who was with her cos 'nothing better' was available, which is what the OP alludes to "

I thought we were past shaming sexual things as long as all parties were happy and consenting

Guess not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utter nonsense as a guy getting a blow job from a man is bi curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could have a blow Job every day for the rest of my life based on fab offers from guys

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I have a penis, I love it when a guy sucks it.

Actually I have 3 different penis to choose from because I’m greedy

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them "

Some see oral sex as just that, oral.

They are straight as in will only fuck a woman.

I kinda get that.

I suppose it depends on the exact definition of bisexual.

Vic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could do a glory hole if I was super horny, or a really sexy feminine TV (not like me)

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By *adbod7519Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Nearly all of my mail/meets from here are from straight guys. The more the merrier

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"Utter nonsense as a guy getting a blow job from a man is bi curious."

Apparently not my dear fellow.

A straight man on fab who likes to dabble with cock is straight.

If that's what his profile says, who are we to judge? Lol

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them "

The definition:

"Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females, or to more than one gender. It may also be defined to include romantic or sexual attraction to people regardless of their sex or gender identity, which is also known as pansexuality."

Quite frankly, I don't really give a dame!

Vic

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

So many comments re labels.... A blow job is a blow job haha x

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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I could have a blow Job every day for the rest of my life based on fab offers from guys "

Ha ha.... I'm the same.

I don't think I've had an unsolicited message from a female, but I've had loads from guys.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I could have a blow Job every day for the rest of my life based on fab offers from guys

Ha ha.... I'm the same.

I don't think I've had an unsolicited message from a female, but I've had loads from guys."

I could as well and think most could as guys are more thirsty but I'm straight so guys are blocked.

I've had vag pics randomly sent, was actually shocked it had happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them

Is your self esteem that low that you're happy to be a receptacle?

Would you say that to a woman?

I sure would

If she was fucking a guy who was with her cos 'nothing better' was available, which is what the OP alludes to "

Really? I read his original post as he enjoys sucking cock and is happy to take advantage of straight men who are open to other guys giving them a blowjob. I don't think he's looking particularly for respect and romance, but I'll leave it to the OP to comment on his level of self-esteem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here , some on a regular basis , but it dose make me smile that the later it’s is the more messages come through . I think there’s no chance of pussy so I get a call lol How many of you straight guys will Amit to getting a man to suck them

Is your self esteem that low that you're happy to be a receptacle?

Would you say that to a woman?

I sure would

If she was fucking a guy who was with her cos 'nothing better' was available, which is what the OP alludes to

I thought we were past shaming sexual things as long as all parties were happy and consenting

Guess not "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to the person how they define their sexuality, why should we be telling someone else about THEIR sexuality. What next, asking for video footage saying no that's not how you do a BJ , you do it like this. People can have sexual encounters with who they want. Never known why people are so hyped up and have the audacity to tell someone else about who they should be sucking kissing or fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's up to the person how they define their sexuality, why should we be telling someone else about THEIR sexuality. What next, asking for video footage saying no that's not how you do a BJ , you do it like this. People can have sexual encounters with who they want. Never known why people are so hyped up and have the audacity to tell someone else about who they should be sucking kissing or fucking. "

TBH, its about time Fab updated their sexuality and gender categories. They just don't reflect the times we live in.

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

Thame Area

I’m open to a bj for m and f lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it need a label?

Straight bi or gay or whatever else, it’s called doing what you want to enjoy yourself and I’m one of them guys.

Just go with the flow.

The wife is happy with it too and I don’t need to hide anything so why label it.

Imagine a world where we were all brought up in same sex relationships and then viewing a man and a women together the same as some view men and men together or FF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like sucking straight men, or bi men. Just hot men basically.

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By *readsOfValhallaCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"I don't think they are straight guys if you are sucking them "
I've tossed off shemales had cock in my face, been sucked off by men, and kissed my partner after she's given a blowjobs hundreds of times. I have no issues being around a man, or his penis, I have one too I see it everyday... but I would never kiss, date or be intimate with a man because I'm not emotionally or physically attracted to them. I can admit when a man is good looking as I can a woman. That's why on our profile it says I'm bicurious because I know I'm not gay and I know I wouldn't actively seek a man to form a relationship or meet for sex alone, but I have no problems being around them. We just love getting lost in the moment and do not take anything serious. As long as it feels good, and no one is getting hurt were game. Were not here to fall in love.

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

The detail in this thread is just mystifying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look, i xd, i love it, i will suck cock n have mine sucked, but kissing and anything around my bum, licking aside, is a no from me. I just love wearing lingerie n stretchy dresses n guys who like to touch n grope me, its acting out what is a sexy role for me, but keep ur penis from my bum as i will yours.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"I don't think they are straight guys if you are sucking them "

Why the rush to categorise people? What good does there actually do?

Here’s my thoughts. I see myself as straight, I don’t get aroused looking at men, I don’t find them physically attractive. But I definitely get aroused if my cock is in skilled hands or a skilled mouth, and yes, I have had many blowjobs from men.

As for t-girls, I find some convincing ones physically attractive, but not all. But some of the best blowjobs I have ever had have been from t-girls.

Does that make me straight in your books? Or bi? Or gay? I couldn’t care less .

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Sounds like a thread full of people drowning in an Egyptian river to me.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"If a so called straight guy let's another guy suck his cock.

Im sorry but they aren't straight.

I used to struggle with that definition too, but I've come to accept that there are people that can disengage from the person that's doing the sucking and just enjoy being sucked.

It may be a controversial notion, but maybe the straight guys that can allow another guy to suck them off aren't 'not-straight' but in fact are just not homophobic (meaning they're not entirely repulsed by the idea of being sucked off by another man). "

I struggle with that definition of homophobia, I’m repulsed at the idea of being sucked off by a man. I have no problem with other consenting adults sucking each other off. Ergo, I’m pretty sure I’m not homophobic.

Just, you know, straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a so called straight guy let's another guy suck his cock.

Im sorry but they aren't straight.

I used to struggle with that definition too, but I've come to accept that there are people that can disengage from the person that's doing the sucking and just enjoy being sucked.

It may be a controversial notion, but maybe the straight guys that can allow another guy to suck them off aren't 'not-straight' but in fact are just not homophobic (meaning they're not entirely repulsed by the idea of being sucked off by another man).

I struggle with that definition of homophobia, I’m repulsed at the idea of being sucked off by a man. I have no problem with other consenting adults sucking each other off. Ergo, I’m pretty sure I’m not homophobic.

Just, you know, straight! "

I think the guys who identify as straight but fuck guys are the homophobes

I think gay guys that only look to fuck straight guys are also homophobes

Infact, I'd go as far to say that gay men are amongst some of most homophobic men I've ever met

Their actions in keeping their sexuality under the radar is not helpful - neither is encouraging such behaviour

I totally understand why some guys do it, but...

The sooner more stand up and be counted, the sooner bi-sexuality becomes normalised

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"If a so called straight guy let's another guy suck his cock.

Im sorry but they aren't straight.

I used to struggle with that definition too, but I've come to accept that there are people that can disengage from the person that's doing the sucking and just enjoy being sucked.

It may be a controversial notion, but maybe the straight guys that can allow another guy to suck them off aren't 'not-straight' but in fact are just not homophobic (meaning they're not entirely repulsed by the idea of being sucked off by another man).

I struggle with that definition of homophobia, I’m repulsed at the idea of being sucked off by a man. I have no problem with other consenting adults sucking each other off. Ergo, I’m pretty sure I’m not homophobic.

Just, you know, straight!

I think the guys who identify as straight but fuck guys are the homophobes

I think gay guys that only look to fuck straight guys are also homophobes

Infact, I'd go as far to say that gay men are amongst some of most homophobic men I've ever met

Their actions in keeping their sexuality under the radar is not helpful - neither is encouraging such behaviour

I totally understand why some guys do it, but...

The sooner more stand up and be counted, the sooner bi-sexuality becomes normalised

"

So gay men who suck straight me are homophobic?

And straight men who fuck gay men are homophobic?

Wow. The definition has changed a lot since I first came across it. It used to describe discrimination and violence.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"If a so called straight guy let's another guy suck his cock.

Im sorry but they aren't straight.

I used to struggle with that definition too, but I've come to accept that there are people that can disengage from the person that's doing the sucking and just enjoy being sucked.

It may be a controversial notion, but maybe the straight guys that can allow another guy to suck them off aren't 'not-straight' but in fact are just not homophobic (meaning they're not entirely repulsed by the idea of being sucked off by another man).

I struggle with that definition of homophobia, I’m repulsed at the idea of being sucked off by a man. I have no problem with other consenting adults sucking each other off. Ergo, I’m pretty sure I’m not homophobic.

Just, you know, straight! "

I can understand a man not being interested or curious or attracted to the idea of being sucked by another man. But repulsed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a so called straight guy let's another guy suck his cock.

Im sorry but they aren't straight.

I used to struggle with that definition too, but I've come to accept that there are people that can disengage from the person that's doing the sucking and just enjoy being sucked.

It may be a controversial notion, but maybe the straight guys that can allow another guy to suck them off aren't 'not-straight' but in fact are just not homophobic (meaning they're not entirely repulsed by the idea of being sucked off by another man).

I struggle with that definition of homophobia, I’m repulsed at the idea of being sucked off by a man. I have no problem with other consenting adults sucking each other off. Ergo, I’m pretty sure I’m not homophobic.

Just, you know, straight!

I think the guys who identify as straight but fuck guys are the homophobes

I think gay guys that only look to fuck straight guys are also homophobes

Infact, I'd go as far to say that gay men are amongst some of most homophobic men I've ever met

Their actions in keeping their sexuality under the radar is not helpful - neither is encouraging such behaviour

I totally understand why some guys do it, but...

The sooner more stand up and be counted, the sooner bi-sexuality becomes normalised

"

I think there’s this pinnacle idea that femininity is the lowest of the low, and straight men are idolised as this big prize, because ( in theory ) there’s no sign of femininity in them.

It sort of boils down to this idea of ultra masculinity, the more someone looks less feminine or gay, the more it is worthy of a high prize.

Hence why words like “Str8 acting only” etc

I heard/read more unpleasant comments from gay men , about trans women, than from heterosexual men……. just saying

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"So I suck a lot of Straight guys on here "

No you don't.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

It don’t matter what you label yourself as, as long as your happy who cares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see alot of TV girls saying they live sucking straight men and guys saying they have the best bjs from them,

I don't think I could but if its your thing and you enjoy it go get one

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back"

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"If a so called straight guy let's another guy suck his cock.

Im sorry but they aren't straight.

I used to struggle with that definition too, but I've come to accept that there are people that can disengage from the person that's doing the sucking and just enjoy being sucked.

It may be a controversial notion, but maybe the straight guys that can allow another guy to suck them off aren't 'not-straight' but in fact are just not homophobic (meaning they're not entirely repulsed by the idea of being sucked off by another man).

I struggle with that definition of homophobia, I’m repulsed at the idea of being sucked off by a man. I have no problem with other consenting adults sucking each other off. Ergo, I’m pretty sure I’m not homophobic.

Just, you know, straight!

I think the guys who identify as straight but fuck guys are the homophobes

I think gay guys that only look to fuck straight guys are also homophobes

Infact, I'd go as far to say that gay men are amongst some of most homophobic men I've ever met

Their actions in keeping their sexuality under the radar is not helpful - neither is encouraging such behaviour

I totally understand why some guys do it, but...

The sooner more stand up and be counted, the sooner bi-sexuality becomes normalised

I think there’s this pinnacle idea that femininity is the lowest of the low, and straight men are idolised as this big prize, because ( in theory ) there’s no sign of femininity in them.

It sort of boils down to this idea of ultra masculinity, the more someone looks less feminine or gay, the more it is worthy of a high prize.

Hence why words like “Str8 acting only” etc

I heard/read more unpleasant comments from gay men , about trans women, than from heterosexual men……. just saying

"

Can’t speak for everyone but your way off from my perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think they are straight guys if you are sucking them

Why the rush to categorise people? What good does there actually do?

Here’s my thoughts. I see myself as straight, I don’t get aroused looking at men, I don’t find them physically attractive. But I definitely get aroused if my cock is in skilled hands or a skilled mouth, and yes, I have had many blowjobs from men.

As for t-girls, I find some convincing ones physically attractive, but not all. But some of the best blowjobs I have ever had have been from t-girls.

Does that make me straight in your books? Or bi? Or gay? I couldn’t care less . "

bi at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think they are straight guys if you are sucking them

Sure they can be. If any hole is a goal it's just like using a sex toy. If the person doing it is happy to oblige then why not"

definitely not straight as is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a so called straight guy let's another guy suck his cock.

Im sorry but they aren't straight.

I used to struggle with that definition too, but I've come to accept that there are people that can disengage from the person that's doing the sucking and just enjoy being sucked.

It may be a controversial notion, but maybe the straight guys that can allow another guy to suck them off aren't 'not-straight' but in fact are just not homophobic (meaning they're not entirely repulsed by the idea of being sucked off by another man).

I struggle with that definition of homophobia, I’m repulsed at the idea of being sucked off by a man. I have no problem with other consenting adults sucking each other off. Ergo, I’m pretty sure I’m not homophobic.

Just, you know, straight!

I think the guys who identify as straight but fuck guys are the homophobes

I think gay guys that only look to fuck straight guys are also homophobes

Infact, I'd go as far to say that gay men are amongst some of most homophobic men I've ever met

Their actions in keeping their sexuality under the radar is not helpful - neither is encouraging such behaviour

I totally understand why some guys do it, but...

The sooner more stand up and be counted, the sooner bi-sexuality becomes normalised

I think there’s this pinnacle idea that femininity is the lowest of the low, and straight men are idolised as this big prize, because ( in theory ) there’s no sign of femininity in them.

It sort of boils down to this idea of ultra masculinity, the more someone looks less feminine or gay, the more it is worthy of a high prize.

Hence why words like “Str8 acting only” etc

I heard/read more unpleasant comments from gay men , about trans women, than from heterosexual men……. just saying

Can’t speak for everyone but your way off from my perspective "

Am I off in what way?? Which statement don’t you agree with?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight. "

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight. "

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify "

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify "

I think in that case it’s complicated, and if he’s watching straight porn imagining it’s a lady on the other side (unaware who might be), then it becomes sort of a case like going for a massage??

I think the glory hole and watching some porn can make people detach and it becomes strictly about body parts and sensations.

Maybe?? Does it make any sense?

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Am I the only one who—due to the development of threads like this—feels that it would be a good idea for the site developers to create an app whereby we could drag our sexuality with a cursor? If you’re either extreme you are straight or gay. If you are bang in the middle (pun intended) you are bi. I’m sure somebody has suggested it in the past before me

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian. "

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back"

Exactly. Never had a straight guy not come back for seconds and thirds.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Am I the only one who—due to the development of threads like this—feels that it would be a good idea for the site developers to create an app whereby we could drag our sexuality with a cursor? If you’re either extreme you are straight or gay. If you are bang in the middle (pun intended) you are bi. I’m sure somebody has suggested it in the past before me "

Like a slider for people who can't make their mind up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

I think in that case it’s complicated, and if he’s watching straight porn imagining it’s a lady on the other side (unaware who might be), then it becomes sort of a case like going for a massage??

I think the glory hole and watching some porn can make people detach and it becomes strictly about body parts and sensations.

Maybe?? Does it make any sense?"

My only question mark, can someone tell who’s on the other side?

Like surely if it’s a guy on the other side, the receiver might feel stubble or beard. Also, what about the lips? They not might be as soft or big as a lady’s?

I have no idea how much can someone feel and notice that stuff, on their penises ?

Can someone shine some light on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another thread that reaffirms the idea that if you're a guy who has touched another guy in the cock area your sexuality has immediately and irrevocably changed and that's that. You're basically half gay. You fuck / are fucked by men up the arse. Deal with it.

I call bullshit. When a woman says she copped off with a couple of mates at her all girls school nobody ever insists she's bisexual.

You're not allowed to define other people for them. Let them be who they are. If they're a straight bloke who let a bloke suck them off you don't get to tell them they're not allowed to be straight anymore.

Rant over

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

I think in that case it’s complicated, and if he’s watching straight porn imagining it’s a lady on the other side (unaware who might be), then it becomes sort of a case like going for a massage??

I think the glory hole and watching some porn can make people detach and it becomes strictly about body parts and sensations.

Maybe?? Does it make any sense?

My only question mark, can someone tell who’s on the other side?

Like surely if it’s a guy on the other side, the receiver might feel stubble or beard. Also, what about the lips? They not might be as soft or big as a lady’s?

I have no idea how much can someone feel and notice that stuff, on their penises ?

Can someone shine some light on this? "

Can only men have stubble? Can only women have soft big lips? I feel you’ve answered your own question.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Am I the only one who—due to the development of threads like this—feels that it would be a good idea for the site developers to create an app whereby we could drag our sexuality with a cursor? If you’re either extreme you are straight or gay. If you are bang in the middle (pun intended) you are bi. I’m sure somebody has suggested it in the past before me

Like a slider for people who can't make their mind up "

Yep. That way you can drag the pointer to whichever direction you want based on your mood of the day

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it "

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Am I the only one who—due to the development of threads like this—feels that it would be a good idea for the site developers to create an app whereby we could drag our sexuality with a cursor? If you’re either extreme you are straight or gay. If you are bang in the middle (pun intended) you are bi. I’m sure somebody has suggested it in the past before me

Like a slider for people who can't make their mind up

Yep. That way you can drag the pointer to whichever direction you want based on your mood of the day "

I think it would probably cause more confusion than is already present

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

I think in that case it’s complicated, and if he’s watching straight porn imagining it’s a lady on the other side (unaware who might be), then it becomes sort of a case like going for a massage??

I think the glory hole and watching some porn can make people detach and it becomes strictly about body parts and sensations.

Maybe?? Does it make any sense?

My only question mark, can someone tell who’s on the other side?

Like surely if it’s a guy on the other side, the receiver might feel stubble or beard. Also, what about the lips? They not might be as soft or big as a lady’s?

I have no idea how much can someone feel and notice that stuff, on their penises ?

Can someone shine some light on this?

Can only men have stubble? Can only women have soft big lips? I feel you’ve answered your own question. "

In general , men tend to have stubble or a beard and ladies have softer skin and no beard. GENERALLY speaking ofc

You just love arguing don’t you

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight. "

What a sad view

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

I think in that case it’s complicated, and if he’s watching straight porn imagining it’s a lady on the other side (unaware who might be), then it becomes sort of a case like going for a massage??

I think the glory hole and watching some porn can make people detach and it becomes strictly about body parts and sensations.

Maybe?? Does it make any sense?

My only question mark, can someone tell who’s on the other side?

Like surely if it’s a guy on the other side, the receiver might feel stubble or beard. Also, what about the lips? They not might be as soft or big as a lady’s?

I have no idea how much can someone feel and notice that stuff, on their penises ?

Can someone shine some light on this? "

I'd have to poke them in the neck first to check for the apple

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

I think in that case it’s complicated, and if he’s watching straight porn imagining it’s a lady on the other side (unaware who might be), then it becomes sort of a case like going for a massage??

I think the glory hole and watching some porn can make people detach and it becomes strictly about body parts and sensations.

Maybe?? Does it make any sense?

My only question mark, can someone tell who’s on the other side?

Like surely if it’s a guy on the other side, the receiver might feel stubble or beard. Also, what about the lips? They not might be as soft or big as a lady’s?

I have no idea how much can someone feel and notice that stuff, on their penises ?

Can someone shine some light on this?

Can only men have stubble? Can only women have soft big lips? I feel you’ve answered your own question.

In general , men tend to have stubble or a beard and ladies have softer skin and no beard. GENERALLY speaking ofc

You just love arguing don’t you "

I just find it odd you’d assign stereotypical physical traits with concrete ideas behind gender.

What gender would someone assign to your lips through a hole? Are they big and soft enough?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

What a sad view "

Why because you don't agree with it? It's my own opinion and doesn't count for anything the same as yours doesn't

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I dont care what you call yourself if you like having your cock sucked let me know, I have a Glory hole set up & you can fantasize about who is on the other side

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"A guy sucking a straight guy, what you meant was you suck guys who claim to be straight but aren't "

Not necessarily. Very simplistic view.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

"

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Another thread that reaffirms the idea that if you're a guy who has touched another guy in the cock area your sexuality has immediately and irrevocably changed and that's that. You're basically half gay. You fuck / are fucked by men up the arse. Deal with it.

I call bullshit. When a woman says she copped off with a couple of mates at her all girls school nobody ever insists she's bisexual.

You're not allowed to define other people for them. Let them be who they are. If they're a straight bloke who let a bloke suck them off you don't get to tell them they're not allowed to be straight anymore.

Rant over"

Well put.

So many posters trying desperately to narrowly define and categorise peoples’ sexuality. Such a pointless exercise. Sad

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

What a sad view

Why because you don't agree with it? It's my own opinion and doesn't count for anything the same as yours doesn't"

It’s sad because instead of trying to understand someone else’s point of view you’ve just made your own ideas and labelled it as law. It’s the Behaviour of the small minded and bigoted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy sucking a straight guy, what you meant was you suck guys who claim to be straight but aren't

Not necessarily. Very simplistic view. "

but correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post is getting mad,

But I agree with people if they are OK with getting sucked at a glory hole because they ca t see anyone would that be the same for sticking you're cock in the ass at a glory hole?

You can't see them so is it still straight or not??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads. "

But we all pick a label on here so yeah they do matter to an extent. and I am with you. To me it's a denial. Often opportunistic one as some women would not meet bi men so they hide that side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

I think in that case it’s complicated, and if he’s watching straight porn imagining it’s a lady on the other side (unaware who might be), then it becomes sort of a case like going for a massage??

I think the glory hole and watching some porn can make people detach and it becomes strictly about body parts and sensations.

Maybe?? Does it make any sense?

My only question mark, can someone tell who’s on the other side?

Like surely if it’s a guy on the other side, the receiver might feel stubble or beard. Also, what about the lips? They not might be as soft or big as a lady’s?

I have no idea how much can someone feel and notice that stuff, on their penises ?

Can someone shine some light on this?

Can only men have stubble? Can only women have soft big lips? I feel you’ve answered your own question.

In general , men tend to have stubble or a beard and ladies have softer skin and no beard. GENERALLY speaking ofc

You just love arguing don’t you

I just find it odd you’d assign stereotypical physical traits with concrete ideas behind gender.

What gender would someone assign to your lips through a hole? Are they big and soft enough? "

I don’t know, that’s why I’m wondering if you can sort of tell from your sensitivity on your penis. I guess if a dick pokes a chin or a cheek, and it’s prickly… well I’d assume you would know who might be on the other side

And yes, My lips are big and soft, thank you very much

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads. "

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

But we all pick a label on here so yeah they do matter to an extent. and I am with you. To me it's a denial. Often opportunistic one as some women would not meet bi men so they hide that side. "

That’s odd too as most women, on here at least, seem to prefer bi men so not sure why they hide it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy sucking a straight guy, what you meant was you suck guys who claim to be straight but aren't

Not necessarily. Very simplistic view. but correct"

Who put you in charge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents? "

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

I think in that case it’s complicated, and if he’s watching straight porn imagining it’s a lady on the other side (unaware who might be), then it becomes sort of a case like going for a massage??

I think the glory hole and watching some porn can make people detach and it becomes strictly about body parts and sensations.

Maybe?? Does it make any sense?

My only question mark, can someone tell who’s on the other side?

Like surely if it’s a guy on the other side, the receiver might feel stubble or beard. Also, what about the lips? They not might be as soft or big as a lady’s?

I have no idea how much can someone feel and notice that stuff, on their penises ?

Can someone shine some light on this?

I'd have to poke them in the neck first to check for the apple "

BRUTAL!!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents? "

I’m not even gonna answer that fucking ridiculous question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents? "

Wow really you're asking this???

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do. "

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

But we all pick a label on here so yeah they do matter to an extent. and I am with you. To me it's a denial. Often opportunistic one as some women would not meet bi men so they hide that side.

That’s odd too as most women, on here at least, seem to prefer bi men so not sure why they hide it! "

Maybe they are not the women whose opinion matters. And ultimately its about their own hang ups.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

I’m not even gonna answer that fucking ridiculous question "

You just said if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight?

Maybe your concrete ideas behind sexuality are the ridiculous thing

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By *ybachMan
over a year ago

widnes

Never been sucked of by a gay man because i would end up fucking him and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?"

According to this lot, yes or at least bi. They are in charge of all your sexuality decisions. Not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?"

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?"

If a guy is sycking you off it's gay,

If your at a glory hole and you know its more then likely a man you're gay

If you go to a glory hole thinking it's a lady and feel stubble and carry on it's gay

The oy way it isn't is if its a women sucking the cock

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads. "

Let’s see if i can explain. “Straight” is the best approximation for my sexuality, although I don’t really care how people wish to define me.

I say that because I am not aroused by men, I am not physically attracted to men, I am not turned on by the sight of a naked man. But if a man is edging me or sucking me, yes I get hard, yes I cum.

Why do I sometimes let men suck me? Because it’s fun, it feels great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

If a guy is sycking you off it's gay,

If your at a glory hole and you know its more then likely a man you're gay

If you go to a glory hole thinking it's a lady and feel stubble and carry on it's gay

The oy way it isn't is if its a women sucking the cock "

Who put you in charge?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

What a sad view

Why because you don't agree with it? It's my own opinion and doesn't count for anything the same as yours doesn't

It’s sad because instead of trying to understand someone else’s point of view you’ve just made your own ideas and labelled it as law. It’s the Behaviour of the small minded and bigoted"

I see it from my point of view, straight guy that doesn't let guys get him off just because he could.

I haven't labelled anything as law at all and the only one being small minded is yourself for expecting me to change my way of thinking.

Oh and I'm in no way bigoted, I happily lived with a gay couple for a few years and guess what, neither of them had a problem with my way of thinking and I had no problem with there's either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been sucked of by a gay man because i would end up fucking him and enjoy it."

that’s escalated quickly

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

I’m not even gonna answer that fucking ridiculous question

You just said if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight?

Maybe your concrete ideas behind sexuality are the ridiculous thing "

If I do anything sexually with a woman I’m not straight. I’ll keep my ridiculous opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

If a guy is sycking you off it's gay,

If your at a glory hole and you know its more then likely a man you're gay

If you go to a glory hole thinking it's a lady and feel stubble and carry on it's gay

The oy way it isn't is if its a women sucking the cock

Who put you in charge?"

No-one is in charge of anything it's just what it is,

If you need to tell everyone somthing we won't judge

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ? "

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?"

What he said ^^

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

Let’s see if i can explain. “Straight” is the best approximation for my sexuality, although I don’t really care how people wish to define me.

I say that because I am not aroused by men, I am not physically attracted to men, I am not turned on by the sight of a naked man. But if a man is edging me or sucking me, yes I get hard, yes I cum.

Why do I sometimes let men suck me? Because it’s fun, it feels great. "

Great. Like I said I don’t like labels but if they’re going to be used, in my opinion, a straight man wouldn’t do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?"

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now all is chilled, who wants to suck my cock

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey. "

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

I think in that case it’s complicated, and if he’s watching straight porn imagining it’s a lady on the other side (unaware who might be), then it becomes sort of a case like going for a massage??

I think the glory hole and watching some porn can make people detach and it becomes strictly about body parts and sensations.

Maybe?? Does it make any sense?

My only question mark, can someone tell who’s on the other side?

Like surely if it’s a guy on the other side, the receiver might feel stubble or beard. Also, what about the lips? They not might be as soft or big as a lady’s?

I have no idea how much can someone feel and notice that stuff, on their penises ?

Can someone shine some light on this?

I'd have to poke them in the neck first to check for the apple

BRUTAL!!! "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me"

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day does it really matter?

Two adults consenting to sexual activities, why must they be labelled, or their sexuality defined?

I'll get back in my corner....

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

Have to say, I’m pretty sad to read some of the stuff on this thread. Some pretty hardline views re what constitutes being “straight”, as if the label matters. I have to wonder why some posters are so aggressive in this point, insisting on narrow, concrete, permanent labels for people. Why do they feel so strongly? Why do they get so preachy and aggressive? I wonder ...

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"At the end of the day does it really matter?

Two adults consenting to sexual activities, why must they be labelled, or their sexuality defined?

I'll get back in my corner....

"

I’m in the same corner ... bemused as to why the “straight means straight” brigade are so incensed about this

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"At the end of the day does it really matter?

Two adults consenting to sexual activities, why must they be labelled, or their sexuality defined?

I'll get back in my corner....

"

Exactly. Never liked labels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

"

But many men on the site are quite happy to do that - you can see it in the statuses and messages. "Need to empty my load" etc. Many don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

Let’s see if i can explain. “Straight” is the best approximation for my sexuality, although I don’t really care how people wish to define me.

I say that because I am not aroused by men, I am not physically attracted to men, I am not turned on by the sight of a naked man. But if a man is edging me or sucking me, yes I get hard, yes I cum.

Why do I sometimes let men suck me? Because it’s fun, it feels great.

Great. Like I said I don’t like labels but if they’re going to be used, in my opinion, a straight man wouldn’t do that.

"

Why? What if he did it to get his wife off? To fulfill her fantasy. What if he did it for a dare? Or out of boredom? He spent the whole time staring at pictures of his ex girlfriend and imagined it was her?

Touch one cock and you're not allowed in this club anymore, sorry. Your straight card has been revoked. What's with all the need for sexual purity? How do you get to choose someone else's sexuality for them?

I mean these questions with no malice. I just don't understand how you get to be known charge.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me. "

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Am I the only one who—due to the development of threads like this—feels that it would be a good idea for the site developers to create an app whereby we could drag our sexuality with a cursor? If you’re either extreme you are straight or gay. If you are bang in the middle (pun intended) you are bi. I’m sure somebody has suggested it in the past before me

Like a slider for people who can't make their mind up

Yep. That way you can drag the pointer to whichever direction you want based on your mood of the day

I think it would probably cause more confusion than is already present "

That is actually painfully true

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

Let’s see if i can explain. “Straight” is the best approximation for my sexuality, although I don’t really care how people wish to define me.

I say that because I am not aroused by men, I am not physically attracted to men, I am not turned on by the sight of a naked man. But if a man is edging me or sucking me, yes I get hard, yes I cum.

Why do I sometimes let men suck me? Because it’s fun, it feels great.

Great. Like I said I don’t like labels but if they’re going to be used, in my opinion, a straight man wouldn’t do that.

Why? What if he did it to get his wife off? To fulfill her fantasy. What if he did it for a dare? Or out of boredom? He spent the whole time staring at pictures of his ex girlfriend and imagined it was her?

Touch one cock and you're not allowed in this club anymore, sorry. Your straight card has been revoked. What's with all the need for sexual purity? How do you get to choose someone else's sexuality for them?

I mean these questions with no malice. I just don't understand how you get to be known charge. "

I fell for the “dropped your gay card” in 1998 and never recovered

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life "

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

But many men on the site are quite happy to do that - you can see it in the statuses and messages. "Need to empty my load" etc. Many don't care. "

I know and that's completely their choice but I have to be physically attracted to someone to want them sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think "

Thank god

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life "

You say that but tell a trans woman’s she’s not a real woman, that’s just your opinion, don’t get upset by labels

See how that pans out

It’s funny how we pick and choose who can be offended or upset about what. What opinions and labels are allowed and what’s off the table. Who we choose to support and who we choose to get over it

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

But many men on the site are quite happy to do that - you can see it in the statuses and messages. "Need to empty my load" etc. Many don't care.

I know and that's completely their choice but I have to be physically attracted to someone to want them sexually. "

Exactly!! Some people really don’t and I suppose I forget that.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think "

You know it's impossible to stay away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think "

Don't you dare. Just because its not on current approved trend how you think it doesn't mean you cannot voice it. Also.. don't remember last secret service I took part in!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think

You know it's impossible to stay away "

Nah I do these days. It’s not the same x.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think

Don't you dare. Just because its not on current approved trend how you think it doesn't mean you cannot voice it. Also.. don't remember last secret service I took part in!"

Oh I know that. I have my opinions and I will voice them. Meant to do one in December just been so busy. I’ll do one soon

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

You say that but tell a trans woman’s she’s not a real woman, that’s just your opinion, don’t get upset by labels

See how that pans out

It’s funny how we pick and choose who can be offended or upset about what. What opinions and labels are allowed and what’s off the table. Who we choose to support and who we choose to get over it "

Life is a lot less stressful when you don't care about what people think or say.

At the end of the day words only hold the weight we give them and someone saying something doesn't change anything physically.

Everyone has an opinion and everyone will feel and think the way they do regardless of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

But many men on the site are quite happy to do that - you can see it in the statuses and messages. "Need to empty my load" etc. Many don't care.

I know and that's completely their choice but I have to be physically attracted to someone to want them sexually. "

I have to be physically and mentally attracted. So maybe this is about sexuality rather than being bi/straight? Some people don't need any attraction - some aren't bothered by sex/gender - some want physical/mental/emotional attraction in order to have sex. Some are more detached than others and I guess men who label themselves as straight but have sex with men are quite detached. At least with that particular activity.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

You say that but tell a trans woman’s she’s not a real woman, that’s just your opinion, don’t get upset by labels

See how that pans out

It’s funny how we pick and choose who can be offended or upset about what. What opinions and labels are allowed and what’s off the table. Who we choose to support and who we choose to get over it

Life is a lot less stressful when you don't care about what people think or say.

At the end of the day words only hold the weight we give them and someone saying something doesn't change anything physically.

Everyone has an opinion and everyone will feel and think the way they do regardless of others. "

People worry too much what strangers think.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think

You know it's impossible to stay away

Nah I do these days. It’s not the same x. "

There's still days the threads are entertaining and I'm usually about, what more could you want

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think

You know it's impossible to stay away

Nah I do these days. It’s not the same x.

There's still days the threads are entertaining and I'm usually about, what more could you want "

Haha unfortunately this is the first one I saw

When I logged on . Not looked at any others haha. I’m going to be more strict with myself

In the new year and only join fun ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think

You know it's impossible to stay away

Nah I do these days. It’s not the same x.

There's still days the threads are entertaining and I'm usually about, what more could you want

Haha unfortunately this is the first one I saw

When I logged on . Not looked at any others haha. I’m going to be more strict with myself

In the new year and only join fun ones. "

Join mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about honesty about your own sexuality and if you feel as if you have to be honest here or anywhere with anyone.

Tough shit if those people don't want to share with you,what it is....

Nothing really much you can do I'm afraid ....

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

But many men on the site are quite happy to do that - you can see it in the statuses and messages. "Need to empty my load" etc. Many don't care.

I know and that's completely their choice but I have to be physically attracted to someone to want them sexually.

I have to be physically and mentally attracted. So maybe this is about sexuality rather than being bi/straight? Some people don't need any attraction - some aren't bothered by sex/gender - some want physical/mental/emotional attraction in order to have sex. Some are more detached than others and I guess men who label themselves as straight but have sex with men are quite detached. At least with that particular activity. "

We're all different, we find attractive what we find attractive and it's just part of who we are.

As long as people are having fun and they have no regrets about it then it doesn't matter.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think

You know it's impossible to stay away

Nah I do these days. It’s not the same x.

There's still days the threads are entertaining and I'm usually about, what more could you want

Haha unfortunately this is the first one I saw

When I logged on . Not looked at any others haha. I’m going to be more strict with myself

In the new year and only join fun ones.

Join mine "

Oooh off to look for it

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

If a bunch of guys held me down in an alley and forced my knob in their mouth am I gay now? Do I have to tell my parents?

Bad example. That's against your will. We are talking about what people are willing to do.

Ok, what about if I watch straight porn while a guy sucks me? Am I gay then?

You can watch whatever. Its about what you do. Who is angry and pedantic now ?

I’m happy to admit a bunch of strangers telling people what they’re sexuality is with concrete rules and regulations doesn’t make me happy

Is that’s something I should be happy about?

Nah. You don't need to be happy or unhappy about anything what does not affect you. As long as you are honest about what makes you happy or unhappy sexually with people you intend to have sex with. Owning it is the key. I don't see it as grey.

Kinda hard to own it when Everyone seems set on making the decision for me

No they’re not. They’re giving their opinion on what straight is. Try not to give a fuck how strangers label you. Works for me.

We aren't allowed to give opinions though because they hold so much weight and importance and change everyones life

Exactly. Not been on here for a week. Think I’ll fuck off again. Not much more I can add to this thread anyway. I shall return to my happy real life I think

You know it's impossible to stay away

Nah I do these days. It’s not the same x.

There's still days the threads are entertaining and I'm usually about, what more could you want

Haha unfortunately this is the first one I saw

When I logged on . Not looked at any others haha. I’m going to be more strict with myself

In the new year and only join fun ones. "

Well it's passed some time at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread confuses me so much, I’m not understanding any more about what the argument is about

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"This thread confuses me so much, I’m not understanding any more about what the argument is about "

The price of spuds, bloody crazy

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

Is it just me or has this thread become a bit overblown?

Some of the views are hard to swallow. And other comments just blow up in your face.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Can I say something slightly serious-er? Lol. Please don’t shoot

Some of you say that labels are bad. Ok, let’s start from that point. Somebody who thinks of themselves “I like having my cock sucked by a mouth, be it female or male who gives a shit? But I’m still STRAIGHT”. That is just as much of a ‘label’ as the label of ‘GAY’ or ‘BI’. Isn’t it? Maybe the un-said feeling is that the only labels that are bad are the ones the others try to put on us and the labels that WE choose for ourselves are good. However, if ALL labels are bad then surely it is also bad to class yourself as straight when you love getting sucked to completion by a baldie with a moustache and beard. Lol No offence intended by the way, just a bit of a daft mood xx

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Can I say something slightly serious-er? Lol. Please don’t shoot

Some of you say that labels are bad. Ok, let’s start from that point. Somebody who thinks of themselves “I like having my cock sucked by a mouth, be it female or male who gives a shit? But I’m still STRAIGHT”. That is just as much of a ‘label’ as the label of ‘GAY’ or ‘BI’. Isn’t it? Maybe the un-said feeling is that the only labels that are bad are the ones the others try to put on us and the labels that WE choose for ourselves are good. However, if ALL labels are bad then surely it is also bad to class yourself as straight when you love getting sucked to completion by a baldie with a moustache and beard. Lol No offence intended by the way, just a bit of a daft mood xx"

If people want to give themselves labels, fine.

As I posted above, “straight” is the best approximation for me. I fancy women. I don’t fancy men. And having a bloke suck me off doesn’t change that fact.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

But many men on the site are quite happy to do that - you can see it in the statuses and messages. "Need to empty my load" etc. Many don't care. "

Exactly this

Sex views on the forums and in fab are different and a fuck is literally just a cum and go never to be seen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why it has to be labelled, I have been in group play with women and men where I've been blown by a man/men while I'm eating pussy. Am I bi curious? I don't know. I have no desire to suck a cock myself but have no issue if a guy wants to suck mine during play.

It says no single guys on my profile and will stay that way but have met with couples where both of them like giving oral and I for one have no issue with that, each to their own. Play is play and if during a meet a guy, his Mrs or both of them want to suck my cock im not about to get up hands in the air all repulsed. I'm comfortable with that, as someone said earlier play is fluid and things happen during a meet. As long as you're all on the same page before you start then crack on and have fun.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Can I say something slightly serious-er? Lol. Please don’t shoot

Some of you say that labels are bad. Ok, let’s start from that point. Somebody who thinks of themselves “I like having my cock sucked by a mouth, be it female or male who gives a shit? But I’m still STRAIGHT”. That is just as much of a ‘label’ as the label of ‘GAY’ or ‘BI’. Isn’t it? Maybe the un-said feeling is that the only labels that are bad are the ones the others try to put on us and the labels that WE choose for ourselves are good. However, if ALL labels are bad then surely it is also bad to class yourself as straight when you love getting sucked to completion by a baldie with a moustache and beard. Lol No offence intended by the way, just a bit of a daft mood xx

If people want to give themselves labels, fine.

As I posted above, “straight” is the best approximation for me. I fancy women. I don’t fancy men. And having a bloke suck me off doesn’t change that fact. "

O. K. So we are perhaps heading somewhere. People want to be defining themselves, like you, but they don’t want to be defined by others. That’s legit. I mean, nobody who doesn’t fancy me would ever be allowed to touch me, just because I have a talented mouth but, from the bottom of my heart I wish people every enjoyment with whomever else they want. To conclude, live and let live!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread. Escalated quickly. Everyone is entitled to an opinion. Its when you try and inflict it onto someone else to think your way when it's not right. Some people label. Others dont. As long as it isn't directly endangering yourself I can't see what the issue is....

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Can I say something slightly serious-er? Lol. Please don’t shoot

Some of you say that labels are bad. Ok, let’s start from that point. Somebody who thinks of themselves “I like having my cock sucked by a mouth, be it female or male who gives a shit? But I’m still STRAIGHT”. That is just as much of a ‘label’ as the label of ‘GAY’ or ‘BI’. Isn’t it? Maybe the un-said feeling is that the only labels that are bad are the ones the others try to put on us and the labels that WE choose for ourselves are good. However, if ALL labels are bad then surely it is also bad to class yourself as straight when you love getting sucked to completion by a baldie with a moustache and beard. Lol No offence intended by the way, just a bit of a daft mood xx

If people want to give themselves labels, fine.

As I posted above, “straight” is the best approximation for me. I fancy women. I don’t fancy men. And having a bloke suck me off doesn’t change that fact. "

... or to look at it another way, labels are useful as an overall steer, but become unhelpful if people get hung up on them. That’s about as simple as I can make it.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I guess it really does come down to opinion

Some people seem to think that if you fall over and your knob lands In another man’s mouth yoir gay forever. Or if you pass out at a party and a guy sucks you off, again, sorry, but your gay.

I personally think it’s more about intent than actions. I think being gay is the desire, either sexually or romantically, to someone the same sex.

So In my mind if you want to watch straight porn and a guy blows you, that’s not a gay intent to me. That’s a straight desire for being turned on by straight porn and an openness that a mouth is gonna be better than your own hand.

Much like if a vegetarian eats a fake burger, they are still a vegetarian because their intent was a non meat food.

And I think it’s easy to say don’t let opinions or labels get you down, but sadly we still live in a world where there’s negatives associated with being gay/bi for men. Hate crimes exist and do Halle . So it’s very easy to throw a label out and say “don’t worry it’s just a label” because you aren’t dealing with the possible outcomes. So I prefer to label no one because not only do I avoid the previously mentioned problem, labelling someone doesn’t actually do anything for me

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Very nice to see so many people comfortable in their own skin. Especially guys who can separate the emotional from the physical. Yes often do go together but also happily exist independently too. A straight guy that was given oral by another guy in the heat of the moment does not necessarily turn into something else suddenly unless it becomes something they seek and enjoy on a regular basis. Just an opinion, not an expert really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still a long way off equality for bi men Vs bi women....but this site is slowly getting there (9 years) later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that escalated lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that’s 15 minutes if my life I won’t get back, and really, who cares. Let everyone be who they want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian. "

So you don't let guys suck your cock in order to retain your straight identity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread confuses me so much, I’m not understanding any more about what the argument is about

The price of spuds, bloody crazy "

I haven’t checked lately but I was blown away by the price of crisps lately x insane

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

... and a happy new year to you!

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"This thread confuses me so much, I’m not understanding any more about what the argument is about

The price of spuds, bloody crazy

I haven’t checked lately but I was blown away by the price of crisps lately x insane "

That made me laugh aloud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

But we all pick a label on here so yeah they do matter to an extent. and I am with you. To me it's a denial. Often opportunistic one as some women would not meet bi men so they hide that side.

That’s odd too as most women, on here at least, seem to prefer bi men so not sure why they hide it! "

That's definitely not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lord... Just suck or be sucked by whoever you desire. As long as you're enjoying yourself

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"This thread confuses me so much, I’m not understanding any more about what the argument is about

The price of spuds, bloody crazy

I haven’t checked lately but I was blown away by the price of crisps lately x insane "

No it's a crazy world we live in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh lord... Just suck or be sucked by whoever you desire. As long as you're enjoying yourself "

O.k

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south


"Oh lord... Just suck or be sucked by whoever you desire. As long as you're enjoying yourself "

Well said x

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By *opbeer2Man
over a year ago

Haverhill

I tend to find a guy gives a better BJ

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

Well if you don't know if it's a male or female doing it then they don't care either way which is their choice and exactly what I was saying about having your cock out the closet and not caring who sucks it.

I don't care about how people choose to identify as that's their choice but as a straight guy I know I don't let guys suck my cock because that's having oral sex with a guy which is not a straight act.

It's like someone that only smokes a few cigarettes a month saying they aren't a smoker or someone that only eats one type of meat saying they're a vegetarian.

You just seem oddly pedantic and angry about it

Not at all, I'm just open and honest about it and can't get my head around how anyone can detach themselves from who they're having sex with just because they're getting a load off.

I agree with Piscean Dream. No it doesn’t matter about labels and people can do and be whatever they want. I don’t actually like labels myself but the op has used a label! No, in my opinion is if a guy sucks you off you aren’t straight! Why not just be honest. I lick pussy but I’m straight. Nope I’m sorry but I’m not!

I’ll never understand these threads.

But we all pick a label on here so yeah they do matter to an extent. and I am with you. To me it's a denial. Often opportunistic one as some women would not meet bi men so they hide that side.

That’s odd too as most women, on here at least, seem to prefer bi men so not sure why they hide it!

That's definitely not true. "

It definitely is true. Look back on threads or do a new one. It’s a big majority. On here it is anyway.

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby


"All guys are straight until they try for the first time. Then it's no turning back

Why because it happened to you?

The thing is a actual straight guy won't let a guy get him off because he gets desperate but a bi or bi curious one will.

Any guy that thinks he's getting straight guys off is definitely not getting straight guys off.

The issue is there's lots of people hiding in closets with their cocks hanging out because they're the any hole is a goal types but apparently still straight.

So if a guy watched straight porn on his phone whike at a glory hole, unaware of the gender of the person behind, he’s still gay to you? Or bi?

It’s sad you have such strict rules and regulations for how other people choose to identify

I think in that case it’s complicated, and if he’s watching straight porn imagining it’s a lady on the other side (unaware who might be), then it becomes sort of a case like going for a massage??

I think the glory hole and watching some porn can make people detach and it becomes strictly about body parts and sensations.

Maybe?? Does it make any sense?

My only question mark, can someone tell who’s on the other side?

Like surely if it’s a guy on the other side, the receiver might feel stubble or beard. Also, what about the lips? They not might be as soft or big as a lady’s?

I have no idea how much can someone feel and notice that stuff, on their penises ?

Can someone shine some light on this?

Can only men have stubble? Can only women have soft big lips? I feel you’ve answered your own question.

In general , men tend to have stubble or a beard and ladies have softer skin and no beard. GENERALLY speaking ofc

You just love arguing don’t you

I just find it odd you’d assign stereotypical physical traits with concrete ideas behind gender.

What gender would someone assign to your lips through a hole? Are they big and soft enough?

I don’t know, that’s why I’m wondering if you can sort of tell from your sensitivity on your penis. I guess if a dick pokes a chin or a cheek, and it’s prickly… well I’d assume you would know who might be on the other side

And yes, My lips are big and soft, thank you very much "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread confuses me so much, I’m not understanding any more about what the argument is about

The price of spuds, bloody crazy

I haven’t checked lately but I was blown away by the price of crisps lately x insane

No it's a crazy world we live in "

So true! X I mean people wear crocs still in 2021!!! THE SHOCK!

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