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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So , just wondering … Whenever I message a male friend of mine, he says he always gets hard when he sees it’s from me, before he’s even read the message, like Pavlovian reaction, is this common amongst men who get messages from women they fancy, or is he weird ??

Is message arousal real?

Fess up, men

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Depends on how much we've spoken before, and what the content of those past messages have been been But yes, it happens

LvM

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m sure it’s possible! I get fanny flutters when I get messages from men I want.

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Think id get pretty excited if i received a private massage from any hot babe on here to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get aroused reading a sexy message from someone I like

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Before I've read it probably not, but from reading the message some definitely give me a lob on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a one eyed one legged female hunchback gimpy troglodyte got in touch I'd get semi as it's that rare an event.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Only when we are sexting. Chatting about day to day stuff doesn't provoke that reaction from him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure it’s possible! I get fanny flutters when I get messages from men I want. "

I admit I do get some flutters from certain men x especially if the convo gets a bit heated

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

If we have been chatting and have met previously then yes, the arousal can sometimes happen with the expectation of what the message says x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on how much we've spoken before, and what the content of those past messages have been been But yes, it happens

LvM"

Dirt buuuurrrrrrdddd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It, for me, is about intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say it's happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So , just wondering … Whenever I message a male friend of mine, he says he always gets hard when he sees it’s from me, before he’s even read the message, like Pavlovian reaction, is this common amongst men who get messages from women they fancy, or is he weird ??

Is message arousal real?

Fess up, men "

If I were getting messaged by you, I'd be hard to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. If her avatar/pic on my phone is sexy…yes, unless the message follows along the lines of ‘did you see the news about covid’? then I’m not so hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who the messages are from, lets just say there are a couple of (F) friends that i get aroused from before i have read read the messages. Probably because I know what will be part of the message content

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So , just wondering … Whenever I message a male friend of mine, he says he always gets hard when he sees it’s from me, before he’s even read the message, like Pavlovian reaction, is this common amongst men who get messages from women they fancy, or is he weird ??

Is message arousal real?

Fess up, men "

I’m not sure, send me a direct message and I’ll feed back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So , just wondering … Whenever I message a male friend of mine, he says he always gets hard when he sees it’s from me, before he’s even read the message, like Pavlovian reaction, is this common amongst men who get messages from women they fancy, or is he weird ??

Is message arousal real?

Fess up, men

I’m not sure, send me a direct message and I’ll feed back! "

Cheeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So , just wondering … Whenever I message a male friend of mine, he says he always gets hard when he sees it’s from me, before he’s even read the message, like Pavlovian reaction, is this common amongst men who get messages from women they fancy, or is he weird ??

Is message arousal real?

Fess up, men

I’m not sure, send me a direct message and I’ll feed back!

Cheeky x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely happens , but it does depend on the content of previous messages haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get an excited feeling when I get a message off a guy I’m interested in. It’s why I give people their own WhatsApp alert whenever I’m messaging a new guy

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Depends on how much we've spoken before, and what the content of those past messages have been been But yes, it happens

LvM

Dirt buuuurrrrrrdddd "

Us? We're perfectly angelic, it's everyone else who can't help sending us smut

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get an excited feeling when I get a message off a guy I’m interested in. It’s why I give people their own WhatsApp alert whenever I’m messaging a new guy "

Didn’t know you could do that , every days a school day

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

All depends on how much interaction I have had beforehand with the person

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"So , just wondering … Whenever I message a male friend of mine, he says he always gets hard when he sees it’s from me, before he’s even read the message, like Pavlovian reaction, is this common amongst men who get messages from women they fancy, or is he weird ??

Is message arousal real?

Fess up, men "

Pretty sure I could cut glass with my cock if I was getting messages from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to go against the grain and say that I wouldn’t appreciate being told this. Any guy over the age of 16 should be able to keep that to himself!

I’m an old-fashioned kinda lass though.

Different if you’re having sexy chat, as it would turn me on then. But I’d be like if they told me that on sending them a random text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't enjoy receiving 'arousing' messages

I find them very cliché

Likewise, I don't send them

I am the worst at flirting / written arousal, so my approaches tend to be direct / matter of fact without being crude or coarse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't enjoy receiving 'arousing' messages

I find them very cliché

Likewise, I don't send them

I am the worst at flirting / written arousal, so my approaches tend to be direct / matter of fact without being crude or coarse"

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By *apperMystiqueMan
over a year ago

east Glasgow

As others said it Infancy the lady and the conversation has been heated I can be aroused before opening the message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally no, but if a woman I fancy makes a sexy comment in conversation, which is out of character for her, it can result in a twitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message arousal is very real for me.

Not all the time but it's happened a few times today already after receiving a few DMs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's from certain ladies then yes I get very aroused before reading it

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Will let you know when I get a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get excited when I see a message for my female friend. It does depend on the topic at the time as to how horny I get though

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I make a little sex wee every time I have a message,even if it’s fab saying I need to renew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It didn’t occur to me that a man might get turned on, on hearing from me. Maybe I’m too modest or too naive.

Wish I was still in ignorant bliss

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