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"You could never come on too strong its not in your nature. " I just meant that by asking her out for a coffee would be coming on too strong as I may have the wrong impression and she doesn’t see it as anything more than 2 people chatting and has no intention of it ever being anything more. If I ask her out then she may stop talking to me altogether. | |||
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"You could never come on too strong its not in your nature. I just meant that by asking her out for a coffee would be coming on too strong as I may have the wrong impression and she doesn’t see it as anything more than 2 people chatting and has no intention of it ever being anything more. If I ask her out then she may stop talking to me altogether. " Its a risk only you can decide to take, what's more important to you. Her friendship or her interest in you... | |||
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"I think you're overthinking It's a coffee (and hopefully cake) Friends meet for coffee It's an ice breaker " what kind of cake Bussy ? | |||
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"I’ve been chatting with a woman on social media, I friend requested her and it’s gone on from there. It’s just been casual chat so far but I really like her and would love to take her out for a coffee but I don’t want to scare her off by coming on too strong and I’m also scared that she’ll say no. How do I gauge if she likes me enough to want to go on a date with me?" I see what you are doing and it really isn't healthy. | |||
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"I think you're overthinking It's a coffee (and hopefully cake) Friends meet for coffee It's an ice breaker what kind of cake Bussy ?" Do I look like I'm fussy about cake Granny? Although coffee & walnut is the divisive one | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. " Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this " I don’t know. It’s pretty obvious. | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this I don’t know. It’s pretty obvious. " Really? If you’ve bothered to read the relevant thread, then maybe. | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this I don’t know. It’s pretty obvious. " I wasn't aware of the other thread until it read mentioned here. I thought it was a genuine post and was about to reply. | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this I don’t know. It’s pretty obvious. Really? If you’ve bothered to read the relevant thread, then maybe." I had read the other thread, and it was obvious what this one was. | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. " • Huh?? | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this I don’t know. It’s pretty obvious. I wasn't aware of the other thread until it read mentioned here. I thought it was a genuine post and was about to reply." Same. I’d never knowingly reply on a post that was deliberately intended to antagonise. | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this I don’t know. It’s pretty obvious. I wasn't aware of the other thread until it read mentioned here. I thought it was a genuine post and was about to reply. Same. I’d never knowingly reply on a post that was deliberately intended to antagonise." Same, but I don't tend to read entire threads before posting. And I know I certainly don't read all the threads running either just in case. | |||
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"I’ve been chatting with a woman on social media, I friend requested her and it’s gone on from there. It’s just been casual chat so far but I really like her and would love to take her out for a coffee but I don’t want to scare her off by coming on too strong and I’m also scared that she’ll say no. How do I gauge if she likes me enough to want to go on a date with me?" Genuine advice for the health and safety if the woman in question. I would point her at this thread and other than you’ve been heavily engaged in last nigh and then she can decide if a social would be a wise move. Wishing you all the best with meeting in the real world. | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this I don’t know. It’s pretty obvious. I wasn't aware of the other thread until it read mentioned here. I thought it was a genuine post and was about to reply. Same. I’d never knowingly reply on a post that was deliberately intended to antagonise. Same, but I don't tend to read entire threads before posting. And I know I certainly don't read all the threads running either just in case. " I’m not saying others should have known, but having read the other thread, it was obvious to me. | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this I don’t know. It’s pretty obvious. I wasn't aware of the other thread until it read mentioned here. I thought it was a genuine post and was about to reply. Same. I’d never knowingly reply on a post that was deliberately intended to antagonise. Same, but I don't tend to read entire threads before posting. And I know I certainly don't read all the threads running either just in case. I’m not saying others should have known, but having read the other thread, it was obvious to me. " Oh that wasn't criticism of you lovely. Just I personally find it confusing when things like this happen because I then feel bad for something totally innocent I've done. And then have to go and find what on earth is going on. | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this I don’t know. It’s pretty obvious. I wasn't aware of the other thread until it read mentioned here. I thought it was a genuine post and was about to reply. Same. I’d never knowingly reply on a post that was deliberately intended to antagonise. Same, but I don't tend to read entire threads before posting. And I know I certainly don't read all the threads running either just in case. I’m not saying others should have known, but having read the other thread, it was obvious to me. Oh that wasn't criticism of you lovely. Just I personally find it confusing when things like this happen because I then feel bad for something totally innocent I've done. And then have to go and find what on earth is going on. " Taken in isolation and in good faith the the intent behind the thread could not have been determined. And wince the other thread’s content came amour in the small hours it is quite understandable that most forum readers might have missed it. | |||
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"Can people not pay attention or waste your advice on this thread, it’s purely done to take the piss out of me gf or my thread if you read what the op was saying lastnight on my thread you’ll know this is fine just to antagonise me. Not all of us would have been remotely aware of this I don’t know. It’s pretty obvious. I wasn't aware of the other thread until it read mentioned here. I thought it was a genuine post and was about to reply. Same. I’d never knowingly reply on a post that was deliberately intended to antagonise. Same, but I don't tend to read entire threads before posting. And I know I certainly don't read all the threads running either just in case. I’m not saying others should have known, but having read the other thread, it was obvious to me. Oh that wasn't criticism of you lovely. Just I personally find it confusing when things like this happen because I then feel bad for something totally innocent I've done. And then have to go and find what on earth is going on. " I know lovely | |||
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