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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The context: A social media request or follow from someone you know of but don’t know them personally, you’ve seen them in person over the years but never really spoke.

How do you gauge interest and subtly show you’re interested (as a female) without straight up asking them out. I don’t want to be the person that initiates a meeting of any kind. I want it to come from the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playful messaging is key i think, always how I’ve gauged it I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And no sending boob pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And no sending boob pics?"

I mean that’s bound to get attention, personally I don’t have the boobs to do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And no sending boob pics?

I mean that’s bound to get attention, personally I don’t have the boobs to do that

Yeah but it puts you in a non dateable category I think. I’d be just a fuck category then if I did that. I wanna be wholesome and normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And no sending boob pics?

I mean that’s bound to get attention, personally I don’t have the boobs to do that

Yeah but it puts you in a non dateable category I think. I’d be just a fuck category then if I did that. I wanna be wholesome and normal. "

That’s why I say go by playful messaging

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