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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i need suggestions why people ignoring me i send message with face pics still no reply yes or no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody owes you a reply.

Perhaps they’re just avoiding the inevitable “but why not” or some such similar response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you're vastly outnumbered by men on here

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA


"Nobody owes you a reply.

Perhaps they’re just avoiding the inevitable “but why not” or some such similar response."

This

What did your message contain? If it was a simple ‘hi’ then it’s really not surprising.. you have to think, ladies on here get a lot of mail, half the time too much to even read them all.

Also try adding some more to your profile, might help.. 4 pics, 3 include your penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i need suggestions why people ignoring me i send message with face pics still no reply yes or no "

Your status won’t help !!

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I would say everyone on here is looking for what they want. If you don’t match with what they want they won’t waste time getting into a conversation with you.

You just need to make an impression on the people who are looking for what you can offer. Keep at it and don’t be disheartened.

All the best in your journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete your sent Mail contents and forget about them.

Any reply is a nice surprise then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep to forums op..thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say your status and your profile reads as though you're married.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Everything you do in here has to be consistent or you'll never make any progress.

Your pics, bio, messages and forum interactions are all pieces of the puzzle that is you but they are no good if they don't fit together to give the best image.

The slightest hint of negativity in statuses or forum posts will only prolong the frustration because people take note of all those things and avoid.

Consistent effort and patience will be more productive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks mate

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"i need suggestions why people ignoring me i send message with face pics still no reply yes or no "

No idea but what makes you think everybody you send a message to has to rey to you?

Have you replied to every comment on this thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What can I do sir??

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"What can I do sir??"

If you use the reply and quote option it makes it easier for others to know who you are replying to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't a place for guaranteed sex.

If you aren't someone's type, you aren't their type. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks change my face pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes depends on luck

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes"

When you type a message here in reply to someone, look down to the right and you'll see reply+quote.

Tap that then we know who you are replying to.

At the moment we have no idea.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Your profile tells me you go to the gym, you specialise in 'licking pussy' (how old are you ?),if you don't like someone you will say so, say hi I won't bite (really ?), have face pics on request.

Would you as a single female reading that, message you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't read past your status,so you really aren't helping yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I will try thanks for suggestions xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be your approach nobody owes you a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't a place for guaranteed sex.

If you aren't someone's type, you aren't their type. Simple."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your too hairy down below

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Haha,

Yeah if I get a response I’m usually caught be surprise.

Actually prefer receiving random messages these days.

Don’t even care who from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just being on here doesn’t guarantee you anything. It takes work, patience and understanding that no one on here owes anyone else anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s like a 600:1 bloke to lady ratio dude..

enjoy the forums and if you get a random message consider yourself extremely lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haaaa"

Op-please use reply+quote as advised above.

I wouldn’t reply to you, your profile reads as though you’re married, and doesn’t draw me in at all.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Consider redoing the whole profile from the scratch. It read a as being very "needy" tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of luck involved. Usually the ones who talk about this place in a scientific way like there's a magical formula to it are the ones who actually don't meet regularly. Don't over think it. It's supposed to be fun. If you take this place seriously something is seriously lacking.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Married

Boring profile

Status is vile

Pics have no effort.

Attitude.

Next....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some tape measure markings on your penis.

Apparently, it’s all the rage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married

Boring profile

Status is vile

Pics have no effort.

Attitude.

Next.... "

Good for you.

What about the OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete my account best way xx"

Why? you will still be the same person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete my thread"

You can't.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"i need suggestions why people ignoring me i send message with face pics still no reply yes or no "

Sorry, they're all too busy messaging me

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Your profile is blank why would anyone want to reply not knowing anything about you, or what you look like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I delete my thread

You can't. "
thanks ruby for helping me Ur so kind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is blank why would anyone want to reply not knowing anything about you, or what you look like?"
I'm updating my profile xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bravo that you’ve taken the suggestions on board. With the right approach, Fab can be a wonderful place to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bravo that you’ve taken the suggestions on board. With the right approach, Fab can be a wonderful place to be. "
you right mate

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