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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who DON'T use stealth mode to view profiles?

What happens when you look at someone's profile? Do they notice? Do you use it as a way of attracting attention?

Nothing nefarious, just curious

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Who DON'T use stealth mode to view profiles?

What happens when you look at someone's profile? Do they notice? Do you use it as a way of attracting attention?

Nothing nefarious, just curious "

It appears there are

And yes ...we notice

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Yes. I like people to know how creepy I am and how many times I look at their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who DON'T use stealth mode to view profiles?

What happens when you look at someone's profile? Do they notice? Do you use it as a way of attracting attention?

Nothing nefarious, just curious "

It seems they’re all in stealth mode right now

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

I dont use it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I like people to know how creepy I am and how many times I look at their profile "

I just fab their pics….over & over… & over

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

There are! I don’t message off the back of a view but I can imagine others do and it must be annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most do otherwise I'd obvs be on like 10k views a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I like people to know how creepy I am and how many times I look at their profile "
you can stalk me all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares if anyone looks. I actually don’t get that feature.

Wink? Yes.

Dm? Yes.

Looked? So what?

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I've never switched it off! I might do it for a day and see what happens...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares if anyone looks. I actually don’t get that feature.

Wink? Yes.

Dm? Yes.

Looked? So what? "

Exactly… Avoids disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares if anyone looks. I actually don’t get that feature.

Wink? Yes.

Dm? Yes.

Looked? So what?

Exactly… Avoids disappointment "

I know right? Someone looked at you today………………….

……………

…………….

And?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are! I don’t message off the back of a view but I can imagine others do and it must be annoying"

This is the only reason why I turned mine off, but just turned it on - will see how my experience differs (or if it even does)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares if anyone looks. I actually don’t get that feature.

Wink? Yes.

Dm? Yes.

Looked? So what?

Exactly… Avoids disappointment

I know right? Someone looked at you today………………….

……………

…………….

And? "

Haha.. none today I’m Afraid!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who cares if anyone looks. I actually don’t get that feature.

Wink? Yes.

Dm? Yes.

Looked? So what? "

I often see people look a number of times within the space of a few hours. Sometimes I message them to "piss or get off the pot" and then swiftly get blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never switched it off! I might do it for a day and see what happens... "

Do itttt. Join the unsheathed side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two do. Not on my profile though, obviously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. I like people to know how creepy I am and how many times I look at their profile "

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Stealth usually but sometimes I turn it off just to see what happens

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right i'm turning our stealth mode off for xmas, i'm in a perving kind of mood, watch out fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I'm feeling mischievous and WANT them to see me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares if anyone looks. I actually don’t get that feature.

Wink? Yes.

Dm? Yes.

Looked? So what?

I often see people look a number of times within the space of a few hours. Sometimes I message them to "piss or get off the pot" and then swiftly get blocked "

Haha. “Oí, I’m watching you!”

And this is why I don’t have it on.

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

I never use stealth mode. I’m totally happy that guys can see I’ve checked them out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only if I'm feeling mischievous and WANT them to see me "

Why not just wink/message?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"There are! I don’t message off the back of a view but I can imagine others do and it must be annoying

This is the only reason why I turned mine off, but just turned it on - will see how my experience differs (or if it even does) "

I’m intrigued. Let us know how you get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did for a long time until I started reporting fakes. You've reminded me to remove stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But yes, a few noticed and would message.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Yes. I like people to know how creepy I am and how many times I look at their profile "

I might start taking mine off especially for you when I drop by

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I might take mine off and repeatedly view everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never found anyone interesting enough to view over and over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who DON'T use stealth mode to view profiles?

What happens when you look at someone's profile? Do they notice? Do you use it as a way of attracting attention?

Nothing nefarious, just curious "

Nope! Either that, or my view counter is broken..

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I've left the ninja crew for now, wonder how many blocks I'll get

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Couple here rather than single woman. Never felt the need to use stealth mode or filters. I can't think of any messages that started out with 'you looked at me'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never switched it off! I might do it for a day and see what happens... "

Shall we do an experiment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I like people to know how creepy I am and how many times I look at their profile "

Man/woman thing. I would be flattered if a woman regularly viewed my profile, as well as frankly astounded. I think most women would be creeped out when I keep looking at their profile.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it on stealth mode...usually just because Mr is a nosey bastard and I know there are certain profiles he's always pervin!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

There are quite a few. It’s always nice to see. I never message them though, unless they wink or message me first.

When you block guys, you only get a rolling count of who has looked at you that match your preferences which is cool.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are quite a few. It’s always nice to see. I never message them though, unless they wink or message me first.

When you block guys, you only get a rolling count of who has looked at you that match your preferences which is cool. "

Really? I block people outside my age range/with no public pics but can still see they've viewed me?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Proud to be a perv ... no stealth mode required

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"Proud to be a perv ... no stealth mode required "

Only fair if we can perve you in return

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I don't use it but it does "annoy" me when just cus I've looked they message. If I'd have wanted to take things further I'd have winked

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there


"I've never switched it off! I might do it for a day and see what happens...

Shall we do an experiment?"

Do it! I'm going to switch off stealth over Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My GF does.

10 views will

Lead to around 7 messages and at least 5 cock pictures she reckons.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"There are! I don’t message off the back of a view but I can imagine others do and it must be annoying"

This is why we went into stealth mode. You'd accidentally click on a profile while scrolling and then the profile owner would bombard with messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this stealth mode you speak of ? Lol

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Proud to be a perv ... no stealth mode required

Only fair if we can perve you in return "

Haha ...equal objectification for all

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've never used stealth. If I'm looking, I'm looking

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"There are quite a few. It’s always nice to see. I never message them though, unless they wink or message me first.

When you block guys, you only get a rolling count of who has looked at you that match your preferences which is cool.

Really? I block people outside my age range/with no public pics but can still see they've viewed me? "

I think this only works with blocking one of the groupings like men/women/couple/TV. I.e. what are you looking for? Either that or men have never looked at me

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Perhaps if everyone turned it off at once each person would not stand out as much. X

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"Proud to be a perv ... no stealth mode required

Only fair if we can perve you in return

Haha ...equal objectification for all "

Only fair to share the perving!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Stealth mode?

This is news to me

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I do use it but when I don’t I find my inbox gets full if I start delving in the depths of fab, which is why I remain in stealth mode

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Not me

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never look at the who's looked at me feature....I am in stealth mode though

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By *aughtiness69Couple
over a year ago

Kinmel bay

What's stealth mode ? Just curious

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't use stealth. Sometimes I get "thanks for looking at my profile", but not often. It certainly doesn't feel like something that's a huge issue for me.

If I've liked something in a profile I will message. If I've found something really off-putting that makes me think I'd never want to chat with that person I will pre-emptively block (that doesn't happen often though).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth mode is for people who think they are better then the people they view x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who think they are better then the people they view x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who think they are better then the people they view x"

What tosh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me...."

Women will message if they're interested. You can see them saying so all the way through the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me...."

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so happy when I finally discovered it! Prior to that, all the ‘thanks for looking at my profile’ messages were too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Women will message if they're interested. You can see them saying so all the way through the thread. "

Message from stealth mode? Lol

Okay x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Women will message if they're interested. You can see them saying so all the way through the thread.

Message from stealth mode? Lol

Okay x"

You can absolutely still message from stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Women will message if they're interested. You can see them saying so all the way through the thread.

Message from stealth mode? Lol

Okay x"

You can still message from stealth mode…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity. "

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity. "

Yes I wondered this. I actually use stealth mode mostly to perv those who are never likely to be interested in me - seems perfectly reasonable to me.

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

I like to let them know ive looked ,and would like to know if ive been viewed

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

It's reasonable to say that there's a healthy number of women who don't employ the "stealth mode".

It doesn't serve as a stimulus for me: when they look at my profile I just let it be and mind my own business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Yes I wondered this. I actually use stealth mode mostly to perv those who are never likely to be interested in me - seems perfectly reasonable to me."

Sorry thats a bs reply because as a female on this site you are very much of interest to 99% of males here...if you think people won't really be interested in you than what have you to lose by having that person know your looking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking"

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

As explained above, we're in stealth mode because of the constant messages coming off the back of profile views, including those clicked in error etc. Also, while on this theme, if someone DOES choose to send a "thanks for viewing my profile" message or similar wording, and don't get a reply, there's no need to follow it up with a multitude of extra messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue "

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person"

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't this site be shit if everyone was in stealth mode?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode. "

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode. "

In other news (trying to avoid the conflict brewing ) …. Is it not gay for horses ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Yes I wondered this. I actually use stealth mode mostly to perv those who are never likely to be interested in me - seems perfectly reasonable to me.

Sorry thats a bs reply because as a female on this site you are very much of interest to 99% of males here...if you think people won't really be interested in you than what have you to lose by having that person know your looking?"

You can call my reason BS all you like, but I can use the site any damn way I want to without your say-so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?"

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Yes I wondered this. I actually use stealth mode mostly to perv those who are never likely to be interested in me - seems perfectly reasonable to me.

Sorry thats a bs reply because as a female on this site you are very much of interest to 99% of males here...if you think people won't really be interested in you than what have you to lose by having that person know your looking?

You can call my reason BS all you like, but I can use the site any damn way I want to without your say-so."

My bs comment was you saying people not interested in you and nothing to do with how you use the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?"

... Did I say that?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?"

Anyone can engage with anyone they wish. Stealth mode helps keep the messages to a minimum. I may look at a profile because of an update or something that they have posted...doesn't mean I'm interested in them nor want the "hey thanks for looking message".

It certainly doesn't mean I think I'm better than anyone else!

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Wouldn't this site be shit if everyone was in stealth mode?"

Thats a good point

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over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you? "

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Yes I wondered this. I actually use stealth mode mostly to perv those who are never likely to be interested in me - seems perfectly reasonable to me.

Sorry thats a bs reply because as a female on this site you are very much of interest to 99% of males here...if you think people won't really be interested in you than what have you to lose by having that person know your looking?

You can call my reason BS all you like, but I can use the site any damn way I want to without your say-so.

My bs comment was you saying people not interested in you and nothing to do with how you use the site"

That's not what I said. I said "perv those who are unlikely to be interested in me". I stand by that.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wouldn't this site be shit if everyone was in stealth mode?

Thats a good point "

Why would it be shit?? People can still message!

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over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

Anyone can engage with anyone they wish. Stealth mode helps keep the messages to a minimum. I may look at a profile because of an update or something that they have posted...doesn't mean I'm interested in them nor want the "hey thanks for looking message".

It certainly doesn't mean I think I'm better than anyone else! "

Cool...so im not allowed to express my opinion on a thread? Unless its in agreement with everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice a few people that view regularly. Maybe they are just curious, I don't message purely because someone views my profile. Also 90% of the time I'm out of their age range.

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over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x"

You've said women who use stealth mode think they're better than the men they perv on? That was not a great thing to say.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

Anyone can engage with anyone they wish. Stealth mode helps keep the messages to a minimum. I may look at a profile because of an update or something that they have posted...doesn't mean I'm interested in them nor want the "hey thanks for looking message".

It certainly doesn't mean I think I'm better than anyone else!

Cool...so im not allowed to express my opinion on a thread? Unless its in agreement with everyone? "

Who said you weren't allowed too?

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

In stealth mode and hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who think they are better then the people they view x"
what a load of shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x

You've said women who use stealth mode think they're better than the men they perv on? That was not a great thing to say."

Didn't say women or men so don't try to make me out as something im not please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In stealth mode and hidden "

Why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x

You've said women who use stealth mode think they're better than the men they perv on? That was not a great thing to say.

Didn't say women or men so don't try to make me out as something im not please"

OK but you're the one who started throwing around random accusations about women's perceived behaviour on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x

You've said women who use stealth mode think they're better than the men they perv on? That was not a great thing to say.

Didn't say women or men so don't try to make me out as something im not please

OK but you're the one who started throwing around random accusations about women's perceived behaviour on here "

Can you show me where I said anything about women? I said people.....

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm on stealth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x

You've said women who use stealth mode think they're better than the men they perv on? That was not a great thing to say.

Didn't say women or men so don't try to make me out as something im not please

OK but you're the one who started throwing around random accusations about women's perceived behaviour on here

Can you show me where I said anything about women? I said people....."

It's a thread which is all about women using stealth mode.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x

You've said women who use stealth mode think they're better than the men they perv on? That was not a great thing to say.

Didn't say women or men so don't try to make me out as something im not please

OK but you're the one who started throwing around random accusations about women's perceived behaviour on here

Can you show me where I said anything about women? I said people....."

Whoever you were talking about, either way it was a wild accusation to make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x

You've said women who use stealth mode think they're better than the men they perv on? That was not a great thing to say.

Didn't say women or men so don't try to make me out as something im not please

OK but you're the one who started throwing around random accusations about women's perceived behaviour on here

Can you show me where I said anything about women? I said people.....

It's a thread which is all about women using stealth mode. "

Oh right....so was only woman allowed to join in? I guessed it was an open forum where I could express my opinion along with the valid opinions of others....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine’s always on but I fab pics…kinda defeats the purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x

You've said women who use stealth mode think they're better than the men they perv on? That was not a great thing to say.

Didn't say women or men so don't try to make me out as something im not please

OK but you're the one who started throwing around random accusations about women's perceived behaviour on here

Can you show me where I said anything about women? I said people.....

It's a thread which is all about women using stealth mode.

Oh right....so was only woman allowed to join in? I guessed it was an open forum where I could express my opinion along with the valid opinions of others...."

The question was asked of women. It's in the OP. You made a comment which could be assumed to be about women as we are the subject of the thread. Could we end this now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x

You've said women who use stealth mode think they're better than the men they perv on? That was not a great thing to say.

Didn't say women or men so don't try to make me out as something im not please

OK but you're the one who started throwing around random accusations about women's perceived behaviour on here

Can you show me where I said anything about women? I said people.....

It's a thread which is all about women using stealth mode.

Oh right....so was only woman allowed to join in? I guessed it was an open forum where I could express my opinion along with the valid opinions of others....

The question was asked of women. It's in the OP. You made a comment which could be assumed to be about women as we are the subject of the thread. Could we end this now? "

Of course we can end it....shake hands and I will wish you a merry Christmas x

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over a year ago


"Stealth mode is for people who look from behind there curtains....I can see you but your not allowed to see me in case it encourages you to message me....

Why does someone not wanting a message from you mean that they think they're better than you? Out of curiosity.

Because your saying....im allowed to look at you but your not allowed to know im looking

From the answers on this thread, a lot of people seem to think a view = a sign of interest. Which is not the case. You can't tell whether you're interested in someone from a tiny thumbnail and username. You usually have to read their profile and check out the rest of their pics before deciding whether they're for you. Yet they might take the fact you viewed them as an opening.

The fact that the site even offers this feature should indicate that it's a non-issue

Like I said....stealth is because you want to look but you dont want to engage with that person

I've engaged with plenty of men I've viewed while in stealth mode.

Good,but they're not allowed to engage with you?

You just don't like women doing what they want, do you?

Please dont start silly accusations like that...this was a conversation about stealth mode x

You've said women who use stealth mode think they're better than the men they perv on? That was not a great thing to say.

Didn't say women or men so don't try to make me out as something im not please

OK but you're the one who started throwing around random accusations about women's perceived behaviour on here

Can you show me where I said anything about women? I said people.....

It's a thread which is all about women using stealth mode.

Oh right....so was only woman allowed to join in? I guessed it was an open forum where I could express my opinion along with the valid opinions of others....

The question was asked of women. It's in the OP. You made a comment which could be assumed to be about women as we are the subject of the thread. Could we end this now?

Of course we can end it....shake hands and I will wish you a merry Christmas x"

Virtual shake and a merry Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mode is the mutts nutts

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