FabSwingers.com forum: What do you do if someone winks you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you wink them back or send them a message?

And yes, I get there are some people that don't look at winks, care about winks, wish death upon winks etc. etc. etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink back

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

If I likey then I wink back and send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assume they have the wrong profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winky back

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Look at their profile and maybe wink back.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I look at their profile and if I’m interested I wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink back. Or message. Or ignore.

Depends.

(Helpful ?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Wink or message if I like the look of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they picture looks good I look at their profile, if I like them, then after perving at their pics, I wink back. If I remember. Sometimes I don't, I'm fickle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally wink back, or message

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Look at their profile and if I like the profile I’ll message them.

I don’t get many winks though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get excited and wink back

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Guilty of not looking at them most of the time

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By *erlin991Man
over a year ago

wells

Take a look at their profile. Wink back if I am intressted and may be message to say thank you for the wink

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If interested wink back or message. Depends on what time we have when we see the wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasion I get one I always message back thanking them for the wink as they've taken time to look at my profile

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Been lucky enough to have winks returned when I've winked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often send them a vulva shot. That gets rid of them fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often send them a vulva shot. That gets rid of them fast

You’re getting at least 100 winks in the next hour or so

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We look at their profile and if we see something that we both enjoy or they’re just what we’re looking for we wink back.

If they’re a perfect match for us, we’ll message straight away.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Do you wink them back or send them a message?

And yes, I get there are some people that don't look at winks, care about winks, wish death upon winks etc. etc. etc."

Since 99.999% are from men and couples, I ignore them.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Delete it, as it’s usually a man!

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

If either of us are interested we wink back, and hope they take it as an invitation to send us a message.

Likewise if we send the first wink, and get a return we will send a message introducing ourselves

MJ x

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"I often send them a vulva shot. That gets rid of them fast

How often?

Asking for a friend....

Posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's someone I fancy, I hit them with this beaut:

"Is there something in your eye, or did you just wink?"

No, you can't have that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, because I generally don’t check winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they hot? I would wink back if they are hot

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

99% of the time ignore them. If it's from someone who I'm already interested in or someone who catches my eye then I message.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Should check my winks more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's someone I fancy, I hit them with this beaut:

"Is there something in your eye, or did you just wink?"

No, you can't have that one

*surreptitiously takes out notepad and pen*

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"If it's someone I fancy, I hit them with this beaut:

"Is there something in your eye, or did you just wink?"

No, you can't have that one

It’s gold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t got scooby doo !

Never been winked at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's someone I fancy, I hit them with this beaut:

"Is there something in your eye, or did you just wink?"

No, you can't have that one

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Oi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

Send a message thanking them for the wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly ignore because if they winked once and they are serious, they will wink again.

Maybe this is why I'm single.

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I forget that winks are a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm rubbish and never bother to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mostly ignore because if they winked once and they are serious, they will wink again.

Maybe this is why I'm single."

The proactive approach

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn

"I'm rubbish and never bother to look "

Are you Louise cliff?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We wink back if we think they are a good fit and it's clear they've read our profile Otherwise ignore them.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink back and message if they are my type. It’s rare I get a wink nowadays though.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It depends on whether or not we have anything in common. If it's obvious that they have a new pic and are winking randomly in the hope of getting a few extra fabs or that they obviously haven't read my profile I don't respond.

I leave those winks untouched and don't delete them which prevents them winking again.

If I like their profile I may wink back but I don't message. I don't send first contact messages ever.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Masturbate furiously to their pictures... out of respect.

We'd probably take a look at their profile and if we liked the look of them we'd wink back or send a message

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time when someone winks they also friend request. And that's just rude IMO. Plus it's really easy to scan the winks and see 95% are either blank or dick avatars. So what's the point in looking at the profile when I already know they're not for me.

Occasionally I might check out a profile and add them to my hotlist. It is not a good way to get my attention tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perve their profile. If I like it I wink and message.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

If I like the look of them I message, had a few great meets on the back of an initial wink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete them

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Largely ignore.

V x

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By *renchFantasyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We wink back if we like you and message if we really like you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm rubbish and never bother to look

Are you Louise cliff? "

I'm not, but pretty dick move asking someone there full name

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends who winks. I've had some great meets off the back of a wink

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Dont bother with them I'm sorry to say

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Wink back to invite a message or send a message. Xx

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Send a message if they look hot and are local enough!

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By *ryant2018Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Say thanks for looking and winking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check their profile and if I like what I see in the pics and read in bio I’d message with a polite thank you and start a conversation with them

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Miss them and notice then about 2 months later. The moment had probably passed then.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

It means they are interested in your profile

I was out the age range of a single female on here and she winked at me , which gave me the opportunity to introduce myself outside her age block.

Winks is a good feature but most on here don’t no how to use it or don’t understand it.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

If it’s not from a nice female I ignore it.

If it is from a nice female I jump up amd down and open a bottle of champagne. Not necessarily in that order though, or else I’d lose all the champagne!

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

If their profile attracts us, we wink back and wait and see if it leads anywhere.

We they are not for us, we will normally message saying thank you but no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm interested I tend to wink back or message thanking for the wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.9% I just delete them with out even looking at them, the 0.1 I might look down the list befor delete them all.

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

Ask for their bank details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I barely check my winks. But sometimes when I’m searching for new men to fuck, I click on a profile and see they winked me 3 months ago. I sheepishly wink back then get ignored

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I might send a wink and see what happens

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I rarely look at winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a wink back having checked out their profile

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

I'll either return the wink, if I like their profile. Or just ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to always message thanking them for the wink. I assumed them shy and like to give them the benefit of the doubt.

Now thinking of ignoring them. So many will just message back your welcome expecting you to lead a chase. Guys if you wink and someone replies , make a effort.

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

If it's a man, ignore it (it says no men on my profile). If it's a women, well, it hasn't happened yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lean in to ask if they have something in their eye. And then we snog…

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I have 1,149 new winks so nothing. I prefer a message with a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink back if I like their profile

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lean in to ask if they have something in their eye. And then we snog…

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Report & block them as they’re obviously fake

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By *j321Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Thank them do there wink always polite to thank them

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Always say thanks or wink back depends on what they are looking for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only send one back if genuinely interested. I'm not that polite to send one back just because I got one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wink back or if I really like the look of them then I will send a message.

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By *ovestolickclitsMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

Fall off whatever am sat on in shock as it rarely happens....

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By *urious1973Man
over a year ago

angus

Only polite to message back but don’t get much winks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lean in to ask if they have something in their eye. And then we snog…

Oh, I see you’ve something in your eye. …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink back if I find an initial attraction, if I really like them I send them a message xxx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Do you wink them back or send them a message?

And yes, I get there are some people that don't look at winks, care about winks, wish death upon winks etc. etc. etc."

I check out their profile, and if I like what I see and read, I’ll message back, taking their wink as a show of their interest in me?

If however, their profile is unverified, no pics, or appears fake/dodgy, I will probably just ignore the wink, but put them on my hot list to keep an eye on their ‘progress’

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Wink back ..see what happens and then message

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Panic and delete my account.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Wink back ..see what happens and then message"

Thats what I would do too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lean in to ask if they have something in their eye. And then we snog…

Oh, I see you’ve something in your eye. …"

You need to lean in a little closer...

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Wink back see what happens after

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

If I like then I'll usually message back if I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message thanks. Winks are so rare for me they make my day when they happen so it’s only polite to thank them.

Then fantasise about actually meeting

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

If we like them wink back but only if we like them...

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Putting a few to the test here now!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I ignore them.

To me it feels lazy. Why not READ THE PROFILE and then snd a message if I would want to hear from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Putting a few to the test here now!"

Testing testing...

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By *X2019Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Usually scout out their profile and drop them a message if I'm intrigued

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By *l123Man
over a year ago

Mid Sussex

Usually send a message to thank them for the wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually only get winks from couples

But when I get them I send a message and get blanked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like their profile and I'm feeling brave then I'll wink back

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By *..FirstMan
over a year ago

london

"I often send them a vulva shot. That gets rid of them fast

You’re getting at least 100 winks in the next hour or so

I was just preparing my wink!

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Had someone wink me the other day. I looked at the profile, well written, decent selection of pictures so I wink back.

Nothing came of it but I will do the same thing if I get another wink

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Send a message of thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore it. Their finger slipped they ment to press the block button

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

What's a wink?

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If we don't know them at all then we'll take a nosey at their profile. If they're on our friends list then sometimes we say hi and have a catch up.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. I'll read their profile first and if it's clear we're not compatible (or they haven't read my profile), I'll probably ignore.

If I like the look of them I'll maybe wink back.

If they're way out of my league I'll message immediately before they change their mind.

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By *yder RavishMan
over a year ago

Ware Hertfordshire

If I like the look and sound of the person I wink back. If I really like the look and sound of the profile I message.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

If I like the look of their profile, I get excited, i always wink back and message.

Then nothing

Silence.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always say thanks for the wink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I like the look of their profile, I get excited, i always wink back and message.

Then nothing

Silence......."

I know right! Makes you wonder why they wink in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you wink them back or send them a message?

And yes, I get there are some people that don't look at winks, care about winks, wish death upon winks etc. etc. etc."

Wink me and find out!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Do you wink them back or send them a message?

And yes, I get there are some people that don't look at winks, care about winks, wish death upon winks etc. etc. etc.

Wink me and find out!

What do I win?

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you wink them back or send them a message?

And yes, I get there are some people that don't look at winks, care about winks, wish death upon winks etc. etc. etc.

Wink me and find out!

Just did so 10 seconds ago and nothing. Typical

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"If I like the look of their profile, I get excited, i always wink back and message.

Then nothing

Silence.......

I know right! Makes you wonder why they wink in the first place"

Its nothing more than a mind fuck. People have no idea how something so simple can mess with you.

Its not clever and it's not funny.

Its fricking annoying

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

If I like the profile , I wink and message

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Expect to marry them

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Winks back with a following message

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Generally I will wink back or message thanking for the wink

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

If I’m interested in them I’ll message back

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By *yder RavishMan
over a year ago

Ware Hertfordshire

"Expect to marry them"

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

When it's a man with a black silhouette, no photos, "straight", not looking for tv/ts, can't travel, can't accommodate, and profile that is less than ten words but still manages to be misogynistic... I usually just think "what the holy fuck?". Although sometimes I might lead them into a conversation that I gradually turn so bizarre that they really, really, _really_ wish they'd never started. And will probably never dare wink anyone again...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Expect to marry them"

Is that what it means?

Ohhhhhh......

Oops.

I need to take back some winks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it's a man with a black silhouette, no photos, "straight", not looking for tv/ts, can't travel, can't accommodate, and profile that is less than ten words but still manages to be misogynistic... I usually just think "what the holy fuck?". Although sometimes I might lead them into a conversation that I gradually turn so bizarre that they really, really, _really_ wish they'd never started. And will probably never dare wink anyone again..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I really like the profile that has winked then I will message but if I'm undecided I will wink back and see if anything happens

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By *am101aMan
over a year ago

swad

gasp with amazement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really look at winks

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Depends on who sent it, but we rarely bother to react 99.9% of the time.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

If I fancy them I send a message

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore, not worth chasing up if someone can’t be arsed to type a message

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

It's almost always a man winking me while I've got my filters switched off, so most winks get deleted.

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By *limfitladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Wink back

I gotta get my wink stats up.

But I message back if they are interesting..

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By *ammykingMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

I don't get winks

so I dunno what I'd do lol

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Gasp in surprise and celebrate wildly.

Then check how far away they are, discover they're _ased on the Plateau of Leng, and cry in frustration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lean in to ask if they have something in their eye. And then we snog…

Oh, I see you’ve something in your eye. …

You need to lean in a little closer..."

Lie down on the bed, it would make it easier to get it out…

*this is exactly how it would go obviously

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Wink back if the profile is what we are looking for, sometimes message aswell.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

If am confident its not due to a tic, then I respond appropriately with either a wink, a little thanks, a little thanks with some added derail, prolonged silence or permanently block.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Check out the profile then wink back, the only time I would reply to a wink with a message is if I winked first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do look and if my likey may wink back but delete most days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at the profile and then delete the wink

I honestly don't remember once where I have acted on a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always look at their profile....

They might need some advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message back if they are right for us and thank them for noticing our profile.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I am feeling a bit silly this morning, let's put to the test. Wink at anyone who has posted on this thread and see if they respond as they said.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Wink back if the tickle my pickle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been lucky enough to have winks returned when I've winked

I'd wink, but I'm not in my 90s

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By *asiKhanMan
over a year ago

luton

Tend to wink back x

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By *ip73Man
over a year ago

Stanwell

"Do you wink them back or send them a message?

And yes, I get there are some people that don't look at winks, care about winks, wish death upon winks etc. etc. etc."

If I like what I see either, fab, wink or message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might wink back if I think its right for me to do so. I only message if I'm free and think its appropriate.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Been lucky enough to have winks returned when I've winked

I'd wink, but I'm not in my 90s

... then in the Christmas spirit of things I'll throw some winks into the thread for ALL

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town

Run.......................as they never seem to lead to any further conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you wink them back or send them a message?

And yes, I get there are some people that don't look at winks, care about winks, wish death upon winks etc. etc. etc."

Always send a message saying thank you.

But that may change as we have started getting more. We did put in our bio that winks will be ignored, but we’re too nice! Can’t help ourselves haha

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I smile, and get all excited at my age.

I'll then thank them for giving an old guy hope in his final playing years. Lol.

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By *obert62Man
over a year ago

kingston upon thames

Always send a thank you for the wink

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Either wink back or message

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By *uietlycheekyMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Smile , have a look at their profile, wink back and maybe message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually wink back if their profile seems to be a potential match. If i get a reply from a returned wink,it shows me they were genuinely interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have a peak at their profile and if it caught my attention, they're worthy of a wink or message

If their profile doesn't grab my interest, I just ignore and later bin or outrightly block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink back if i see them, cant say i check winks often pal

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Assume they just want to use me for sex & won't even offer to take me out for dinner 1st

Then proceed to wink back haha

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We read their profile and if its clear they've not read our profile then we'll ignore it.

Otherwise we'll wink back if we're interested

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By *eaderMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

I reply to all winks and polite messages.

A wink to me says "hello I like your profile, have a look to see if we have common ground".

Manners are free.....

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Break out in a cold sweat!

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By *irty scubyMan
over a year ago

strokestown

I read there profile and if they have read mine properly I wink back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Break out the Champs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check the profile. If I like it, wink back and message.

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

I read their profile and always reply even if it's only a 'thanks for the contact and good luck'.

If I like what I see I am a little more effusive.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assume they have the wrong profile

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

If we like the profile we will wink back. Sometimes we will message if we think they may be right for us, if we're not sure we're on the same page but like the look of them we may wait for them to message us first.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Hide my biscuits. Clearly they are only after one thing

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"Hide my biscuits. Clearly they are only after one thing "

Wise move!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look so don't notice.

Whoops

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

As a rule I generally wink back and send a message saying thank you for the wink, then take it from there, sometimes it simply a wink and nothing more, sometimes it leads to a conversation, sometimes not, the thing is not to put to much importance on it, it is after all, simply a wink.

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