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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is too long, with regards to a first message. I know we complain about the 'hi how are you?' And 'fancy a fuck?' But I just received a message that was 85 lines long. Yes I counted but that's the only way I could explain exactly how long this message was! If I'm honest I can't face reading it because it's so bloody long, anyone else think it's a bit excessive?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol that is a tad excessive. But I suppose whoever it is wants to make sure you get the FULL picture lol. An introduction and what their expectations are I think would suffice. But since you've received a novel from that person, build up the courage and read it. You never know. You may find that your interest is piqued enough to receive a sequel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't either and it does seem odd when someone sends a message that is longer than their profile though I am not sure whether to count where someone has put the start of what they want to do and I am supposed to say what happens next??

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A couple of lines is plenty long enough for me. Especially when they have put thought into their profile. And even better if they have attached a face pic (though not imperative as if I'm interested I'll ask).

The really long ones just make me think they cut and paste so even if they have spent ages carefully crafting it to suit me they've shot themselves in the foot there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women complaining about length...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read it you lazy arse !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too small, too long, or just right ?

Are you goldilocks ?

Tbh if it is that long, then I'd agree with TD that it has to be a stock message and cut and pasted.

I reckon about 7 keeps most people happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too small, too long, or just right ?

Are you goldilocks ?

Tbh if it is that long, then I'd agree with TD that it has to be a stock message and cut and pasted.

I reckon about 7 keeps most people happy "

Inches or centimetres...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too small, too long, or just right ?

Are you goldilocks ?

Tbh if it is that long, then I'd agree with TD that it has to be a stock message and cut and pasted.

I reckon about 7 keeps most people happy

Goes ane finds tape measure

Inches or centimetres..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 8-24 lines is enough

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Pffft I will save you the bother ! It was chapter one from 'Five go to Kirrin Island' Knew I should have just said hi. So bloody ungrateful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to 3 or 4 short paragraphs, otherwise I would start dropping off due to boredom.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Is too long, with regards to a first message. I know we complain about the 'hi how are you?' And 'fancy a fuck?' But I just received a message that was 85 lines long. Yes I counted but that's the only way I could explain exactly how long this message was! If I'm honest I can't face reading it because it's so bloody long, anyone else think it's a bit excessive?! "

You've had four hours .... Have you finished reading it yet.???

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Is too long, with regards to a first message. I know we complain about the 'hi how are you?' And 'fancy a fuck?' But I just received a message that was 85 lines long. Yes I counted but that's the only way I could explain exactly how long this message was! If I'm honest I can't face reading it because it's so bloody long, anyone else think it's a bit excessive?! "

Have you thought if adding something like messages to be no less than two hundred words and no more than two hundred and fifty words. At least it gives them a fighting chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is too long, with regards to a first message. I know we complain about the 'hi how are you?' And 'fancy a fuck?' But I just received a message that was 85 lines long. Yes I counted but that's the only way I could explain exactly how long this message was! If I'm honest I can't face reading it because it's so bloody long, anyone else think it's a bit excessive?!

You've had four hours .... Have you finished reading it yet.???

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It looks very much like it's been copied and pasted, there's nothing in its content that indicates he read my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read it you lazy arse ! "

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