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By *it-chrissy OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

sw. london

so, I'm many things in my life, one that features in this kinda site is my x-dressing. It takes a tiny part of my time, is great fun and I'll be damned if i apologise or worry about it.

But

i can't and won't wear the tranny uniform...you know; suspenders and heels , fake boobies and 'slut' or 'sissy' in my profile.

maybe id look okey in suspenders and heels, maybe i have a little sissy in me, maybe i can be a bit slut, but i just won't or can't bring myself to conform to the clichè.

i know I'm a contrary kinda person so I'm happy to take my own path , and buck the trend (with no anti to those who do that thing)

It's mine and i do it my way.

Question is, what cliché do you avoid, or embrace ? Even when maybe it puts you out of the loop

or maybe because it puts you In the loop .

x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I try to avoid the older woman, knows what she wants and how to get it cliché

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By *it-chrissy OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

sw. london


"I try to avoid the older woman, knows what she wants and how to get it cliché "

blokes do that one too !

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By *VDPMan
over a year ago

Nottingham City Centre


"I try to avoid the older woman, knows what she wants and how to get it cliché "

Ha ha ha is it true? Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my younger years, when casual misogyny was normalised and more rife, I used to really struggle with the whole ‘bimbo blonde’ stereotype. I have tried to live my life proving the opposite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to avoid the older woman, knows what she wants and how to get it cliché "

Oh God yeah, that is a lazy and annoying one.

Let’s face it, we’re confused as fuck same as the rest of them.

I realise this flies in the face of my earlier blonde comment

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

What an excellent question! A lot to it. Clothes as identity, hypersexualisation in cross dressing, perception vs reality, cliche as crass stereotype or truism, contrarianism vs the desire to belong and how/why all of these play a part in people coming to and how they play on Fab.

Too many to answer. So will lurk instead. Hopefully not just a meta "woohoo check out my profile" post.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I try to avoid the older woman, knows what she wants and how to get it cliché

Ha ha ha is it true? Asking for a friend "

It's true that I try to avoid it and not true that older women know what they want and how to get it. Show me a menu with several choices of dessert and the waiters will be turning lights off and putting chairs on tables before I've decided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to avoid the older guy must seek younger thing, narrows the choice a little!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I embrace all of my cliches and couldn’t really give a fuck about the opinions of those that I don’t love

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I try to avoid the older woman, knows what she wants and how to get it cliché

Ha ha ha is it true? Asking for a friend

It's true that I try to avoid it and not true that older women know what they want and how to get it. Show me a menu with several choices of dessert and the waiters will be turning lights off and putting chairs on tables before I've decided "

Noted

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By *it-chrissy OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

sw. london


"I embrace all of my cliches and couldn’t really give a fuck about the opinions of those that I don’t love "

Hah, hug the cliches close ! some part of me digs heels in when i feel im getting cliche,,,even when it's not really in my interest

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By *it-chrissy OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

sw. london


"What an excellent question! A lot to it. Clothes as identity, hypersexualisation in cross dressing, perception vs reality, cliche as crass stereotype or truism, contrarianism vs the desire to belong and how/why all of these play a part in people coming to and how they play on Fab.

Too many to answer. So will lurk instead. Hopefully not just a meta "woohoo check out my profile" post. "

check out my profile post ! oh but wait, that's a bit...cliché

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