FabSwingers.com forum: Books and covers

By *lex199169 OP Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Pictures and profile blurbs are what entices us in to create dialogue with others on here. What do you go for first?

Do the picture lead you to read about the person or does the great description and playful nature of their profile draw you into seeing if the attraction is there?

Will one do or is it a combination of the two?

By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Face attraction first, then words that show personality and similarities is the starting point.. then to conversation flow

By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Pictures first.

Profile second to check if there’s anything in their profile that would rule me out.

By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

A have a copy of das capital that has a reversible cover (other side is a cookbook

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Pictures are the last thing I look at. Age, location and bio in that order. All are much more important than pics. You can have the most amazing portfolio but still be an ugly person.

By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

When I send a message it tends to be about something written in the profile or something I've read on the forum (not often the latter, I tend to respond in threads rather than privately, but it does occasionally happen).

If there are photos on the profile I may have a look, but I can only think of two people I've ever messaged because of their photos - it's not normally what prompts me to start a conversation.

If someone messages me I look at their profile then at the message before I decide whether to respond. Pictures don't make much difference unless they're spectacularly grim and off-putting.