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What do you think of me; debrief

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Now that the thread has been running for a little while, I think that it’s time to review and take stock a little.

For those of you that have taken part, how do you think that it has gone?

Was it overwhelmingly positive? Did you get any surprises? If there were negatives, will you take them on board? Will it change how you post or how you approach fab?

This is a large part of the process folks so please, don’t hold back and be honest...

As an additional part of this, can I also ask that people post how many people they sent and received from please? That way it helps to understand the level of response

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Only one message so far Tea, but they think I’m lovely so I’ll leave it there whilst I’m ahead and before folk hit the booze and the truth comes out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent 4, rec'd 5.

I clearly give more away than I thought.

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Sent 4, received 3 (2 as responses to the ones I sent out).

Positive comments, really enjoyed taking part. Great thread

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I sent 5 received 2 (Not replys)

Said what I wanted to say and received 2 nice surprises from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've received pretty much all positive feedback, nothing negative. I appreciate it of course but I think people are too kind on here. Thank you lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was as I expected.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Got in quite late but managed to send a few out and got 3 back which were quite nice. A masochistic part of me was hoping someone who hated me messaged and just laid into me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All positive. Very even. Thank you.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Sent 6, received 4. Only one received was sent first, the others were replies.

It was nice to see that others see me the way I see myself in the main.

I do understand one point made that it can confuse people if they don't know who they're interacting with. This is a couples account and we are happily married, but my husband does not come onto the forums.

I'm not sure I'll change the way I do things but I may try to be more obvious in the future with my posts to show it's the female half posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never received any and never sent any.

I guess, you're all good and so am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Received + responded to 10

Sent 5 ... Although one of them was "Fucks sake "

Mostly positive - one thought my profile wasn't very encouraging /welcoming, which I'm kinda OK with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sent 6, received 4. Only one received was sent first, the others were replies.

It was nice to see that others see me the way I see myself in the main.

I do understand one point made that it can confuse people if they don't know who they're interacting with. This is a couples account and we are happily married, but my husband does not come onto the forums.

I'm not sure I'll change the way I do things but I may try to be more obvious in the future with my posts to show it's the female half posting "

Why not just sign off with your initial?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent 5. I received 7.

As expected for the most part. I was actually surprised when I got a message to say someone was disappointed about my view on a hot topic BUT it wasn't in a nasty way - and we had a good chat about it to share our views which was refreshing. Rather than undermining comments.

"Fiesty" was a common word used to describe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent 5. I received 7.

As expected for the most part. I was actually surprised when I got a message to say someone was disappointed about my view on a hot topic BUT it wasn't in a nasty way - and we had a good chat about it to share our views which was refreshing. Rather than undermining comments.

"Fiesty" was a common word used to describe me "

Feisty one you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feisty one you are "

My spelling seems to be feisty tonight too!

Feisty in a good way.. I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 received (rather surprising senders), 2 sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went a bit shy, but have written a few now.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle somewhere

Sent 4, got 6 back (4 replies) and 2 surprise messages which was very nice of those people to do so.

All were in the same area of how they view me so that’s good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 received (rather surprising senders), 2 sent"

Actually +1 received

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I sent 8 and received 11 - on the whole they were positive and people seem to perceive me how I hope I come across, a free spirited exhibitionist who is friendly once you get to know me seemed to be the general consensus - and one almost made me cry it was that spot on!

A lovely idea and great to get to chat to some people who you perhaps wouldn’t have before

Great idea OP

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent 1

Not received any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really positive overall, as I received some further non-appearance related feedback! And it was pretty spot on too!

Off to send some of my own now.

Thanks for setting up this thread

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

From the various responses I've had I could create a Venn Diagram, displaying some of my commonalities and some unique traits.

And the responses that I sent...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Four sent. One very perceptive reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sent 1

Not received any "

Received 1.

Very positive and I agree

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I thought this was rather fun.

Thank you OP.

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