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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People who are brave enough to put pictures of their body up, especially if you’re not the traditionally perfect shape or size - Although I know we all have our hang ups big and small!

I’ve taken a deep breath and put up something I would consider very unflattering and I feel really vulnerable, but I’d rather be honest about how I look for future meets so I had to put up something!

So, those of you who have done similar, I feel you and you’re awesome! Keep on getting those lovely jiggly bums and boobs and bellies out - I’m so here for it!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Well done on pushing past your insecurities OP

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I say a heartfelt bravo to you! x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Looking beautiful, OP!

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I really couldn’t do it myself, but kudos to you OP for pushing through!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Beautiful xxx

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By *riSiMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Good on you - you look fantastic and confidence is very sexy. I get why you want to be honest to avoid a potentially awkward meet. If the pix don't show the 'real you' it would be stressful I think.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"People who are brave enough to put pictures of their body up, especially if you’re not the traditionally perfect shape or size - Although I know we all have our hang ups big and small!

I’ve taken a deep breath and put up something I would consider very unflattering and I feel really vulnerable, but I’d rather be honest about how I look for future meets so I had to put up something!

So, those of you who have done similar, I feel you and you’re awesome! Keep on getting those lovely jiggly bums and boobs and bellies out - I’m so here for it! "

You look beautiful x maybe one day will find my bravery x x

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I admire you OP beautiful picture!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You bloody rock! x

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By *heekyGent44Man
over a year ago

Northwich

Your picture is beautiful, a gorgeous real curvy lady. Well done for being courageous but you don't need to be brave when you are beautiful xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks so much everyone, really kind of you all to be so nice. Fabs isn’t always bad hey!

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

Gorgeous body & well done for posting. I'd far rather cuddle up to a lady with a figure like yours than all boney sharp bits sticking in me, soft curvy snuggle into women are pretty much perfect

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Thanks so much everyone, really kind of you all to be so nice. Fabs isn’t always bad hey! "

Xxx

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

In the words of joey essex ,looking reem lady ,smoke this site ,you look amazing

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

I show my face and I don’t get admired I get blocked

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"People who are brave enough to put pictures of their body up, especially if you’re not the traditionally perfect shape or size - Although I know we all have our hang ups big and small!

I’ve taken a deep breath and put up something I would consider very unflattering and I feel really vulnerable, but I’d rather be honest about how I look for future meets so I had to put up something!

So, those of you who have done similar, I feel you and you’re awesome! Keep on getting those lovely jiggly bums and boobs and bellies out - I’m so here for it! "

My honest reaction when I checked out your pic sounded like this...

Mmmmmmmmmmmm.

You look fab.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"People who are brave enough to put pictures of their body up, especially if you’re not the traditionally perfect shape or size - Although I know we all have our hang ups big and small!

I’ve taken a deep breath and put up something I would consider very unflattering and I feel really vulnerable, but I’d rather be honest about how I look for future meets so I had to put up something!

So, those of you who have done similar, I feel you and you’re awesome! Keep on getting those lovely jiggly bums and boobs and bellies out - I’m so here for it! "

You've got a lovely body, OP!

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I would always want to be better in real life than on my profile, rather than people be disappointed if we meet, so for me it’s always better to under promise and over deliver. Great new pic btw OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice sentiment OP but I wish we didn't use the word brave when talking about showing off our bodies but sadly, society has moulded us that way. We all have lumps, bumps and our own insecurities.. there is no such thing as a 'perfect body' or the 'normal'. Whatever shape or size you are, own it and be kind to yourself. Take comfort in knowing you are great just as you are and there's nobody in this world like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice sentiment OP but I wish we didn't use the word brave when talking about showing off our bodies but sadly, society has moulded us that way. We all have lumps, bumps and our own insecurities.. there is no such thing as a 'perfect body' or the 'normal'. Whatever shape or size you are, own it and be kind to yourself. Take comfort in knowing you are great just as you are and there's nobody in this world like you "

I know what you mean, I did pause over the word but couldn’t think of anything better! Thankyou, though. I feel like a bit of a dickhead making the thread about me, it was supposed to be more of a circlejerk about how marvellous we all are getting out there!

I’ve had so many positive messages from lovely people, and just one random guy telling me I’m disgust, to which I laughed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look amazeballs, confidence is a beautiful thing.

I lost my bottle this week and deleted all our photos because I felt utterly pants about myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking great op my body not small so it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one thing we ask for on this site is honesty but even so, on a lot of occasions we find it missing.

Photos are taken from flattering angles, they are photoshopped, or were taken ten years ago.

We have walked away from meets because of blatant lies but for anyone who is truthful in what they say and what they look like we have all the time in the world.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Nice sentiment OP but I wish we didn't use the word brave when talking about showing off our bodies but sadly, society has moulded us that way. We all have lumps, bumps and our own insecurities.. there is no such thing as a 'perfect body' or the 'normal'. Whatever shape or size you are, own it and be kind to yourself. Take comfort in knowing you are great just as you are and there's nobody in this world like you

I know what you mean, I did pause over the word but couldn’t think of anything better! Thankyou, though. I feel like a bit of a dickhead making the thread about me, it was supposed to be more of a circlejerk about how marvellous we all are getting out there!

I’ve had so many positive messages from lovely people, and just one random guy telling me I’m disgust, to which I laughed! "

I like the sentiment of the thread OP - it was always going to turn into a photo appreciation because these threads go that way, you're not a dickhead for that.

I hope one day people (incl myself) feel happy posting photos of themselves without feeling like they're brave or courageous or somehow anything other than just enjoying their body and wanting to show it off without shame.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Nice sentiment OP but I wish we didn't use the word brave when talking about showing off our bodies but sadly, society has moulded us that way. We all have lumps, bumps and our own insecurities.. there is no such thing as a 'perfect body' or the 'normal'. Whatever shape or size you are, own it and be kind to yourself. Take comfort in knowing you are great just as you are and there's nobody in this world like you

I know what you mean, I did pause over the word but couldn’t think of anything better! Thankyou, though. I feel like a bit of a dickhead making the thread about me, it was supposed to be more of a circlejerk about how marvellous we all are getting out there!

I’ve had so many positive messages from lovely people, and just one random guy telling me I’m disgust, to which I laughed! "

Think the word is body acceptance? I may not love every part of my body but I accept me as I am and am becoming less negative about how I view myself

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

OP is beautiful xxx

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"People who are brave enough to put pictures of their body up, especially if you’re not the traditionally perfect shape or size - Although I know we all have our hang ups big and small!

I’ve taken a deep breath and put up something I would consider very unflattering and I feel really vulnerable, but I’d rather be honest about how I look for future meets so I had to put up something!

So, those of you who have done similar, I feel you and you’re awesome! Keep on getting those lovely jiggly bums and boobs and bellies out - I’m so here for it! "

I value the quality of the person and not their looks

And you look just fine to me and I would in a cold minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love your photos!

I've put up pictures that I myself don't find very flattering. (I think I've moved them to friends only now) I'm not worried emotionally about my stretch marks, scars from ops, tummy etc but I worry that I might put somebody off their dinner

If that's the case - pop it round and I'll finish it off

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I absolutely admire you for your honesty and wish to be seen as you are, it’s something that I wish more people would do.

I think that on this site people want to put their best forwards, so use angles, zoom and filters to try to present that. I think that there’s a fine line between flattery and deception though.

I don’t think that there’s a need to show the parts that were uncomfortable showing, that’s a level of vulnerability that isn’t required on here but I do think that honesty is often severely lacking and I applaud yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look amazeballs, confidence is a beautiful thing.

I lost my bottle this week and deleted all our photos because I felt utterly pants about myself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look awesome. Very sexy op.

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire


"People who are brave enough to put pictures of their body up, especially if you’re not the traditionally perfect shape or size - Although I know we all have our hang ups big and small!

I’ve taken a deep breath and put up something I would consider very unflattering and I feel really vulnerable, but I’d rather be honest about how I look for future meets so I had to put up something!

So, those of you who have done similar, I feel you and you’re awesome! Keep on getting those lovely jiggly bums and boobs and bellies out - I’m so here for it! "

So gorgeous, sexy and natural. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about how you feel about yourself, I think you've done an amazing thing that may help another overcome a body insecurity. I hope you feel empowered

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Its a beautiful pic op...

A women's body that's been through a life is a real body a body with a story and anyone would be lucky to spend time with a sexy lady like you...

Thank you op...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said OP, we should all be free to be who we are.

I am who I am, I am on my journey not anybody else’s - I’ve come from a dark place to be here, and I will not be shamed into hiding away

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