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By *ttmcdguy OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Ive just been blocked by a guy who contacted me a few days ago asking to meet me

Well i didnt think we were a match from reading his profile so politely declined

I had a meet with a guy today and he asked me about it

So i skipped over the juicy details

He then said he didnt want to meet anyone who meets with others !!

Am i right in thinking we are mostly here to meet for sex

Or are we here to look for a marriage ?

If so im in the wrong place !

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

That's a funny old way to propose, not going to lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure most people on here are already in one marriage, not looking for a second.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you'd be surprised how many people don't want to acknowledge that the people they meet are having sex with others. An awful lot of people can only do this stuff if they explain it to themselves as something more meaningful than it actually is.

It's actually the cause of quite a lot of heartache from what I see.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

We're here to do whatever it is we are comfortable with.

For some that will mean shagging as many people as possible as often as possible, for others that will mean one person at a time and exclusivity for however long that may be.

Showing people respect for their wishes and desires doesn't equate to marriage and any spouting of that just because its different to how someone thinks and does things is quite frankly absurd. It equates to saying "that's not for me thank you, I hope you find who you're looking for"

People are allowed to do things their way, as are you.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I mean, if I'm gonna go down the REALLY sensible route it could be something as simple as routine testing.

They say to get tested every time you have a new partner (and that's based on monogamy) so maybe they don't fancy spending every other day with a swab down their piss hole coz the person they're banging is dick deep in others.

Ya know, just to put that out there.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

It’s a swinging site and use it however you like

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Fab is like Playdough: it's for you to make whatever you wish from it without compunction.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Maybe he's assembling his harem of virgins and you couldn't make the cut anymore

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well some of us do get married to a person we meet on here!

Everyone has different needs and expectations from this site. I don't necessarily think it was a problem that he asked that but it's probably that you are not a match.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Nop, looking for fellow cake fetishists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you'd be surprised how many people don't want to acknowledge that the people they meet are having sex with others. An awful lot of people can only do this stuff if they explain it to themselves as something more meaningful than it actually is.

It's actually the cause of quite a lot of heartache from what I see."

The non-swinging swingers?

It is all in the mind - trust and sharing - not in the act and trying to be daring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're here to do whatever it is we are comfortable with.

For some that will mean shagging as many people as possible as often as possible, for others that will mean one person at a time and exclusivity for however long that may be.

Showing people respect for their wishes and desires doesn't equate to marriage and any spouting of that just because its different to how someone thinks and does things is quite frankly absurd. It equates to saying "that's not for me thank you, I hope you find who you're looking for"

People are allowed to do things their way, as are you."

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"We're here to do whatever it is we are comfortable with.

For some that will mean shagging as many people as possible as often as possible, for others that will mean one person at a time and exclusivity for however long that may be.

Showing people respect for their wishes and desires doesn't equate to marriage and any spouting of that just because its different to how someone thinks and does things is quite frankly absurd. It equates to saying "that's not for me thank you, I hope you find who you're looking for"

People are allowed to do things their way, as are you. "

Now I'm humming it.

Do doop, do doop, do dooo do doop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, if I'm gonna go down the REALLY sensible route it could be something as simple as routine testing.

They say to get tested every time you have a new partner (and that's based on monogamy) so maybe they don't fancy spending every other day with a swab down their piss hole coz the person they're banging is dick deep in others.

Ya know, just to put that out there."

Then why come to fab at all? Would they not be better on match.com ? Asking for a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is the bit where the guy proposed?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I mean, if I'm gonna go down the REALLY sensible route it could be something as simple as routine testing.

They say to get tested every time you have a new partner (and that's based on monogamy) so maybe they don't fancy spending every other day with a swab down their piss hole coz the person they're banging is dick deep in others.

Ya know, just to put that out there.

Then why come to fab at all? Would they not be better on match.com ? Asking for a friend. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive just been blocked by a guy who contacted me a few days ago asking to meet me

Well i didnt think we were a match from reading his profile so politely declined

I had a meet with a guy today and he asked me about it

So i skipped over the juicy details

He then said he didnt want to meet anyone who meets with others !!

Am i right in thinking we are mostly here to meet for sex

Or are we here to look for a marriage ?

If so im in the wrong place ! "

Maybe he is married and doesn't want to take an STI home to his missus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you might have met the great spotted hypocrite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you might have met the great spotted hypocrite. "

There are a lot of them about.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I tend to talk extensively before I meet someone so these kind of things are covered. I am particular in what I'm looking for.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London


"

Nop, looking for fellow cake fetishists "

Ummmm....cake fetishists? Not sure if that's a thing but sounds like my kind of fetish since I have a baked products addiction.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"

Nop, looking for fellow cake fetishists

Ummmm....cake fetishists? Not sure if that's a thing but sounds like my kind of fetish since I have a baked products addiction."

Baked products addiction?? ... welcome, you are in the right place and amongst friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fed up with being asked to be married to people just wish they would ask for a fuck so much easier

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I often have guys that will expect me to be exclusive if we're FWB, that's definitely not what I'm here for. Variety is the spice of life and all that!

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm presuming that sometimes jealousy can happen even among friends. I found that out when I was visiting clubs. I've always been truthful and open over who I meet and play with. Some can accept that, some can't it seems

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