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By *irtyfucker1 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON

Do couples send the first message to single men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I’ve a few couples approach me which is great and I hope many more do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 21/12/21 17:18:04]"

"Do couples send the first message to single men ? "

I have had it before however unless you’re exactly what they want/are looking for it won’t happen

I always tend to wink and if it’s reciprocated i message however it always comes across lazy i feel but its more a i think you’re attractive etc before a message as theres alot of singles to couples on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message? "

But god forbid you don’t as it’s an immediate block and report to admin

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

From my experience they sometimes do

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By *P994Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Yes they do, lots of couples are looking for single men. A well written profile and not a deluge of just cock pics helps

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By *he HandiemanMan
over a year ago

north west


"Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message? "

haha true this tho

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Do couples send the first message to single men ? "

We have done, yes

Mrs TMN x

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By *irtyfucker1 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON


"Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message? "

Thats exactly how it feels pmsl

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By *irtyfucker1 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON


"Do couples send the first message to single men ?

We have done, yes

Mrs TMN x"

Thats good to know. Your one of the few

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Yes they do, usually on their terms, no good chasing them, they will find you and it's o much easier to progress when they do find you first.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Some do, some dont. Hope that helps

LvM

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By *escourtesMan
over a year ago

hereford

Some do some dont, if they see you live on cam and they like what they see, they will

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve messaged singles first quite a bit.

We are after decent guys with a good profile and pics - someone who’s made an effort as we feel these are the types of people we’ll get along with.

Someone we can converse with first before getting naked.

A number of guys just send messages with dick pics or have nothing in their profile which is attracting us. So sometimes it’s easier to go hunting ourselves

K

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I very rarely get a message from a couple it's happened a few times but most times I do the messaging

There are simply too many guys of the site for it to be a common occurrence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do. We’ve never actually met anyone we’ve messaged first but we’re more than happy to message someone who catches our eye

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We only meet in clubs, so chat face to face is miles better than messaging here .

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

As mentioned; some do, some don’t.

It isn’t the end of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x"

I doubt you would get rejected by many in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x"

It does take guts definitely especially if they read and ignore but it’s all part of it i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

It might just be the area I live or maybe I'm just ugly, but unless your huge like a horse it's very rare couples want single men. It all couples or single females, if I do ever message they're just read and ignored. I always try to be polite..... Maybe that's what wrong, feel like giving up sometimes.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Well, I check out their profile first and I do message first most times. Sometimes get reply, sometimes don't. If no reply, just move on really

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x"

Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored.

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By *he MedwaysCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Make them at least make the effort of an interesting message.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I've had a few.

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By *heahireladMan
over a year ago

crewe

Love to chat touch a bi couple xx

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I have. I have sent the first message to maybe 7 or 8 single men now. Sometimes one will wink and something about their profile will get me interested. Or I'll have noticed them in the forum.

It doesn't always lead to meeting but have had some pleasant chats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do, on the 13th full moon of the year at midnight. That's when they start browsing profiles, and by the 3rd Roosters crow a message will appear in a single lads box!

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Do couples send the first message to single men ? "

They do yes...but it's mostly the boyfriend/husband that sends the message, and it's usually something cringe, like " you look like the type of guy who should be fucking my wife" ... uhm OK thanks

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x

I doubt you would get rejected by many in here "

Aw thank you x that's really kind of you x

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x

Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored. "

I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Bad experiences when I was younger and not as "well looked after" as I am now, aka I was a well dodgy looking youngster lol x rejection leaves its mark.

We always love humour, a humorous bio, a tongue in cheek message, something that intrigues us x be different x

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Yes ,i have had good fun with a couple who are good friends to this day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah once.. I panicked and didn’t know what to say! I don’t think Iv got the balls to take up an offer from a couple haha

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By *edtiggerMan
over a year ago

hampshire

Seems single men chase …

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Yeah once.. I panicked and didn’t know what to say! I don’t think Iv got the balls to take up an offer from a couple haha "

I was the same at first ,but if its all good it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah once.. I panicked and didn’t know what to say! I don’t think Iv got the balls to take up an offer from a couple haha

I was the same at first ,but if its all good it works "

I wouldn’t know where to start mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have. I have sent the first message to maybe 7 or 8 single men now. Sometimes one will wink and something about their profile will get me interested. Or I'll have noticed them in the forum.

It doesn't always lead to meeting but have had some pleasant chats "

Those lucky buggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x

Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored.

I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Bad experiences when I was younger and not as "well looked after" as I am now, aka I was a well dodgy looking youngster lol x rejection leaves its mark.

We always love humour, a humorous bio, a tongue in cheek message, something that intrigues us x be different x "

We all had the dodgy youngster looking moments….my worst look was the Mullet in 2005….went proper Fun House crazy with it

Don’t let the issues of the past affect your present….you’re lovely

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Yeah once.. I panicked and didn’t know what to say! I don’t think Iv got the balls to take up an offer from a couple haha

I was the same at first ,but if its all good it works

I wouldn’t know where to start mate "

Same as me ,we had a social first ,we were all uneasy at first ,but then things clicked and we met again ,mr was happy to sit back and watch ,then on the next meet we all got involved,once your comfortable with it ,it all falls into place mate

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By *vvenloMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Do couples send the first message to single men ? "

Oh yes

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By *ornyinwexCouple
over a year ago

Wexford

Yea we do. We're only looking for single men.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We haven’t but we really do need to start the to

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x

Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored.

I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Bad experiences when I was younger and not as "well looked after" as I am now, aka I was a well dodgy looking youngster lol x rejection leaves its mark.

We always love humour, a humorous bio, a tongue in cheek message, something that intrigues us x be different x

We all had the dodgy youngster looking moments….my worst look was the Mullet in 2005….went proper Fun House crazy with it

Don’t let the issues of the past affect your present….you’re lovely "

Thank you so much x loved fun house hahahaha!! Pat Sharp and the twins rocked lol x

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I think I may have couples blocked as none of their messages get through to me

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Yesh ofc some do, its happened a good few times in my case

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Do couples send the first message to single men ? "

Some do, just keep your wits about you; a non-verified profile, with no pics and not even photo-verified by the site, is likely to just be a sweaty closet gay looking for cock pics

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Happy Xmas xxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Do couples send the first message to single men ? "

Some do, some don't.

We will if we think we stand a chance with the person.

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