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"Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message? " But god forbid you don’t as it’s an immediate block and report to admin | |||
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"Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message? " haha true this tho | |||
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"Do couples send the first message to single men ? " We have done, yes Mrs TMN x | |||
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"Of course not. How else am I going to know your a decent person without you reading our profile, jumping through 5000 hoops and declaring a word of our choice in your opening message? " Thats exactly how it feels pmsl | |||
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"Do couples send the first message to single men ? We have done, yes Mrs TMN x" Thats good to know. Your one of the few | |||
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x" I doubt you would get rejected by many in here | |||
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x" It does take guts definitely especially if they read and ignore but it’s all part of it i guess | |||
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x" Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored. | |||
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"Do couples send the first message to single men ? " They do yes...but it's mostly the boyfriend/husband that sends the message, and it's usually something cringe, like " you look like the type of guy who should be fucking my wife" ... uhm OK thanks | |||
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x I doubt you would get rejected by many in here " Aw thank you x that's really kind of you x | |||
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored. " I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Bad experiences when I was younger and not as "well looked after" as I am now, aka I was a well dodgy looking youngster lol x rejection leaves its mark. We always love humour, a humorous bio, a tongue in cheek message, something that intrigues us x be different x | |||
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"Yeah once.. I panicked and didn’t know what to say! I don’t think Iv got the balls to take up an offer from a couple haha " I was the same at first ,but if its all good it works | |||
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"Yeah once.. I panicked and didn’t know what to say! I don’t think Iv got the balls to take up an offer from a couple haha I was the same at first ,but if its all good it works " I wouldn’t know where to start mate | |||
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"I have. I have sent the first message to maybe 7 or 8 single men now. Sometimes one will wink and something about their profile will get me interested. Or I'll have noticed them in the forum. It doesn't always lead to meeting but have had some pleasant chats " Those lucky buggers | |||
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored. I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Bad experiences when I was younger and not as "well looked after" as I am now, aka I was a well dodgy looking youngster lol x rejection leaves its mark. We always love humour, a humorous bio, a tongue in cheek message, something that intrigues us x be different x " We all had the dodgy youngster looking moments….my worst look was the Mullet in 2005….went proper Fun House crazy with it Don’t let the issues of the past affect your present….you’re lovely | |||
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"Yeah once.. I panicked and didn’t know what to say! I don’t think Iv got the balls to take up an offer from a couple haha I was the same at first ,but if its all good it works I wouldn’t know where to start mate " Same as me ,we had a social first ,we were all uneasy at first ,but then things clicked and we met again ,mr was happy to sit back and watch ,then on the next meet we all got involved,once your comfortable with it ,it all falls into place mate | |||
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"Do couples send the first message to single men ? " Oh yes | |||
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"We actually haven't I think I'm scared of rejection, kudos to those who send the first message lol x just make sure it's a good one (I'm such a hypocrite) x Can't see why you think you'd get rejected as you both look good. Question is what do you want from the first message? I've tried all sorts and all get ignored. I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Bad experiences when I was younger and not as "well looked after" as I am now, aka I was a well dodgy looking youngster lol x rejection leaves its mark. We always love humour, a humorous bio, a tongue in cheek message, something that intrigues us x be different x We all had the dodgy youngster looking moments….my worst look was the Mullet in 2005….went proper Fun House crazy with it Don’t let the issues of the past affect your present….you’re lovely " Thank you so much x loved fun house hahahaha!! Pat Sharp and the twins rocked lol x | |||
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"Do couples send the first message to single men ? " Some do, just keep your wits about you; a non-verified profile, with no pics and not even photo-verified by the site, is likely to just be a sweaty closet gay looking for cock pics | |||
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"Do couples send the first message to single men ? " Some do, some don't. We will if we think we stand a chance with the person. | |||
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