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Leaving Fab (not that type of post lol)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To the fab forumites out there (and the lurkers, yes we see you lol)

If say you're like me, who is ideally looking for a regular playmate who lives fairly close by (of course there is mutual attraction etc) and you find them via fab/tinder or even in person. Would you then consider leaving fab or making your profile hidden, or would you make no changes and leave your fab profile as it it?

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I think it be a topic for discussion, down to what both are comfortable with - a regular playmate doesn’t constitute as exclusive to you so perhaps there’s a desire for them or you to explore others too, all very circumstantial xx

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If I was looking for monogamy I would hide my profile from hookup sites once I'd found my FWB.

As I use this site for conversation as well as meeting people I would probably just change my profile here and on other more social sites to say that I wasn't looking to meet.

As things are I'd leave it exactly as is; I'm not looking for monogamy so while having a regular arrangement is lovely, having more than one is even lovelier. Having a regular arrangement where occasionally we could play with others together would also be a great thing.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I wouldn’t leave fab, nothing lasts forever and it’s a lifestyle site anyway but if you both decided to be monogamous/exclusive and stop swinging while an item you should hide any profiles and stop using sex/dating sites

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

A regular 'playmate' is no reason to stop doing what you are doing.

Surely a regular 'playmate' just slots comfortably into your life for you.

As and when you want to.

No commitment.

No demands.

No stressssssssssssss..

My guess is you are after more than a playmate as you are already considering sweeping the leaves from the trail behind you.

Wolves, clothing and omissions

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Yes I'd happily close my account here.

I'm not that invested in non-monogamous sex that I can't be happy with one man.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Oh, you said playmate. That makes a lot of difference as I wouldn't wait around for him to find free time to fuck me.

I've had those types and they seem to have a different idea of exclusivity to me.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No would stay here as that kind of relationship goes stale after a while! Plus like conversing in messages and forums this site is one of my little hobbies like tic tok! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it be a topic for discussion, down to what both are comfortable with - a regular playmate doesn’t constitute as exclusive to you so perhaps there’s a desire for them or you to explore others too, all very circumstantial xx"

Very true indeed xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No would stay here as that kind of relationship goes stale after a while! Plus like conversing in messages and forums this site is one of my little hobbies like tic tok! x"

Lol I see xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I'd happily close my account here.

I'm not that invested in non-monogamous sex that I can't be happy with one man.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Erm... it depends on the dynamic I have with the person. I like using the forums and right now I wouldn't say I'm actively looking for others. I guess it depends. If it was a relationship I'd take time away from here and focus on that but a regular playmate? Not sure.

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We have a few local play friends we see regularly and while we are not looking for notches on bed post, fab is very much about meeting new people and variety for us.

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By *rixieMeWoman
over a year ago

Farfarfar away

I met my man in a round about way via FABs and wouldn’t really consider closing/hiding my account. I don’t think FABs is a place to be looking for exclusivity. I know he has sex with other people but he doesn’t have to hid the fact that he does which is refreshing for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we were exclusive then I wouldn't keep a profile anywhere secret. And I wouldn't be happy if they did. I'd probably like them to be up for exploring on here together, but that would likely be further down the line, not right off the bat. So I guess if I get into a new relationship, I'm off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we were exclusive then I wouldn't keep a profile anywhere secret. And I wouldn't be happy if they did. I'd probably like them to be up for exploring on here together, but that would likely be further down the line, not right off the bat. So I guess if I get into a new relationship, I'm off. "

I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d definitely hide my profile and have a non identifiable picture or no picture.

I know if I started dating someone from the real world (they wouldn’t be from here) I’d need some navigation from the forums.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Depends how serious it gets. Fwb I’ll stay active, more then fwb I’d reduce my profile, full relationship I’d hide/delete my profile

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

If I was in this situation, I'd be honest and say I was on here. Because I'd probably want to keep using the forum. I think to keep using the site in any form behind someone's back is a bit wrong and could lead to trust issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. No. Maybe.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Husband and I met on here

so we are still here

our first wedding anniversary next month

the site has much to be responsible for hahaha x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

When the fun stops stop.

Only reason I’d leave fab is when it stops being fun. That or I get run over.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I would consider it but I like enm so unlikely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im currently looking for a local regular.

And if found I'd be happy to come off here.

Not fussed if she's seeing others as long as we meet say atleast once every two weeks.

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