FabSwingers.com forum: What shall I wear?

By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Meeting a female client in London for lunch tomorrow in a nice restaurant. Sort of fancy her a bit so want to impress. Ladies what should I wear ? Full Suitednbooted or more casual ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A suit would impress me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, what's the service?

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Firstly, what's the service? "

I don’t understand?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Depends would she feel underdressed if you were suited and booted?

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

All depends where really and whether you feel you need to fit with the norm. You can still wear a suit but with just a nice shirt only rather than tie etc. So a bit of demi smart but I am sure the ladies here will probably be best to advise you.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Depends would she feel underdressed if you were suited and booted? "

I don’t know. It’s a swanky restaurant so I know she will be smartly dressed

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Depends would she feel underdressed if you were suited and booted?

I don’t know. It’s a swanky restaurant so I know she will be smartly dressed "

Then I would go for the suit.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Blazer and chinos

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If it's a wanky restaurant in Central London and it's a business lunch with a client... a suit would be best. Or smart trousers and a well tailored/fitting shirt.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Where are you having dinner?

If it's a nice but casual play you won't want to be sitting there looking like a trussed up turkey.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

A suit doesn't have to look James Bondesque.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Where are you having dinner?

If it's a nice but casual play you won't want to be sitting there looking like a trussed up turkey."

It’s lunch not dinner. Langans in Mayfair

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Suit’s fine, but be sure to wear a backwards baseball cap so she knows you are also comfortable with ‘casual’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suit, no tie,

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Suit, no tie,

No tie ??? Interesting!!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

If it's a business lunch I'd go suited and booted, to me it shows professionalism and that you're serious, even if the client is more casual. Depends what business you're in though, more creative industries have a tendency to be more casual

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Agree with suit but how does OP convey the I fancy you bit via his clothing choices. A suit in swanky London restaurant is unlikely to stand out

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"If it's a business lunch I'd go suited and booted, to me it shows professionalism and that you're serious, even if the client is more casual. Depends what business you're in though, more creative industries have a tendency to be more casual "

Good advice. As place quite smart you need to be smart/casual as minimum but yes sometimes a suit with just an appropriate shirt can look very smart, the continentals do it so well so I am sure we can too

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By *hilcccMan
over a year ago

West Lancashire

Suit mate can’t go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oxfords not brogues

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Suit, no tie,

No tie ??? Interesting!!"

Absolutely no tie!

Well cut and fitting trousers, clean and stylish shoes, good quality shirt and jacket.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

It’s looking like a Suit but no tie is the general consensus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly, what's the service? "

Client - is it a sub/dom situ or a real life paid job. (sorry, not read the rest of the comments)

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Firstly, what's the service?

Client - is it a sub/dom situ or a real life paid job. (sorry, not read the rest of the comments)"

Real life business meeting

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By *rixieMeWoman
over a year ago

Farfarfar away

Definitely suit, tie optional

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Smart suit, white shirt, nice shoes

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If she's a client, shouldn't you be purely professional? And more worried about what she thinks about business/work than what you're wearing?

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

"Suit, no tie,

This … and keep a tie in the pocket and check how posh it is… keep options open… navy suit crisp white shirt and brown shoes with matching belt …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suit, no tie,

Definitely this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a really festive Christmas jumper

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"If she's a client, shouldn't you be purely professional? And more worried about what she thinks about business/work than what you're wearing?"

Oh it will be completely professional and I won’t be flirting with her that’s for sure. Can’t help finding her very attractive though. So want to leave her with a good impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A suit is easy to "dress down" on the spot. Lot harder to dress up.

Plus, suits rock. (in principal at least. They suck in 33 degrees).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are you having dinner?

If it's a nice but casual play you won't want to be sitting there looking like a trussed up turkey.

It’s lunch not dinner. Langans in Mayfair "

Langans is quite smart; a suit and tie would be entirely appropriate.

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