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"As a crossdresser the illusion is your role play of femininity. Sure you can do both. You meet up for drinks as two males you grab a hotel. Dress together. Become the femine versions and have fun l. The illusion is girl on girl. Or do you arrive dressed for drinks, meal, fuck. It is really up to yourself. "That is totally correct and fine when both parties are happy to do so. The question was about the messaging stage. How do you deal with the admirer who thinks the pics are you 24/7 and ask what are you wearing now etc. Do you give them a reality check or sell them an illusion. | |||
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"As a crossdresser the illusion is your role play of femininity. Sure you can do both. You meet up for drinks as two males you grab a hotel. Dress together. Become the femine versions and have fun l. The illusion is girl on girl. Or do you arrive dressed for drinks, meal, fuck. It is really up to yourself.
That is totally correct and fine when both parties are happy to do so.
The question was about the messaging stage. How do you deal with the admirer who thinks the pics are you 24/7 and ask what are you wearing now etc. Do you give them a reality check or sell them an illusion."Surely it's the same for most girls sat in their scruffs from walking the dog or cleaning the house, or streaming with cold and a snotty nose .. I imagine they all reply with 'I'm wearing stockings lover' and then send an old stocking pic  | |||
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"Do you when you get these messages do you play up to their illusion or try to give them a reality check. Question for part time crossdressers like myself not you stunning tgirls who live fem 24/7." Haha even us full time TS have had the same start, so we were CDs/TVs at the begining. In my experience, it depends on how "straight" or "bi" the fellas are. Obviously the more straight, then the more feminine they want you to look. Over the years, I've met some really cool bi guys that love to sex me dressed or not. They are the gems! Then there is this regular guy who was being pushy one evening and said he'd like to meet "now" and it won't take me long just to put on a pair of hold-ups... "Honey," I said "the marmite chute might be a bit too ripe tonight unless I douche...". That sure is a reality check! Lol | |||
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"My favourite is can I meet you now ,,,,,, it takes me two hours just to look have decent. " Two wow you got it down to a T takes me like a day and hafe bween shaveing tanning picking out clothes and make up | |||
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"I work unusual hours, so often finish at 2am Sunday to Thursday. I’ll glance over the forums when I finish and that’s when I get the messages. ‘Meet now ?’ ‘What are you wearing, or simply ‘fancy a fuck ?’ Yes I do slip in to a nightie but this is when I’m a crossdresser not a TV. The real me is completely different to Steph, not the image in my photos. I’m just a middle aged guy, bit of a tummy, balding and with stubble just wearing a nightie, in my opinion not very sexy. A massive shock to those guys if I said ‘Yes’ and they turned up expecting femininity. "Yes after one am, the fantasists appear... | |||
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"As a crossdresser the illusion is your role play of femininity. Sure you can do both. You meet up for drinks as two males you grab a hotel. Dress together. Become the femine versions and have fun l. The illusion is girl on girl. Or do you arrive dressed for drinks, meal, fuck. It is really up to yourself.
That is totally correct and fine when both parties are happy to do so.
The question was about the messaging stage. How do you deal with the admirer who thinks the pics are you 24/7 and ask what are you wearing now etc. Do you give them a reality check or sell them an illusion.
Surely it's the same for most girls sat in their scruffs from walking the dog or cleaning the house, or streaming with cold and a snotty nose .. I imagine they all reply with 'I'm wearing stockings lover' and then send an old stocking pic "True but if as a woman, it is going to take you 3 hrs even to begin to look like one, your in trouble. Your gettinging all the disadvantages without the advantqges | |||
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"As a crossdresser the illusion is your role play of femininity. Sure you can do both. You meet up for drinks as two males you grab a hotel. Dress together. Become the femine versions and have fun l. The illusion is girl on girl. Or do you arrive dressed for drinks, meal, fuck. It is really up to yourself.
That is totally correct and fine when both parties are happy to do so.
The question was about the messaging stage. How do you deal with the admirer who thinks the pics are you 24/7 and ask what are you wearing now etc. Do you give them a reality check or sell them an illusion.
Surely it's the same for most girls sat in their scruffs from walking the dog or cleaning the house, or streaming with cold and a snotty nose .. I imagine they all reply with 'I'm wearing stockings lover' and then send an old stocking pic
True but if as a woman, it is going to take you 3 hrs even to begin to look like one, your in trouble.
Your gettinging all the disadvantages without the advantqges "  | |||
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