FabSwingers.com forum: Stealth

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why look in stealth mode?

Thought this site was all about fun and openness? If you look at a profile....a little something has caught your eye so why hide?

BTW this is a general question not a statement.....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons is so they don’t get messages saying “hey I saw you looking” or thinking they’re interested just because they looked.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Personally it's because you don't actually know if you are interested until you fully browse a profile. Imagine getting emails from retail stores for nearly every single item you have browsed and decided not to buy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why look in stealth mode?

Thought this site was all about fun and openness? If you look at a profile....a little something has caught your eye so why hide?

BTW this is a general question not a statement.....x"

Because as soon as a guy has seen that you’ve looked, you get the like what you see?” message in the inbox.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Because of people see you looking they think you're interested. For people who receive loads of messages this can be a nuisance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I look at some profiles so frequently I qualify as a stalker..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Because that little something that caught your eye might not be a good thing and you don't want it to go any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

Imagine people thinking that!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Because I look at some profiles so frequently I qualify as a stalker..

This also

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

"Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

Nothing wrong with perving ladies !!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

So true.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Because there are certain people I'd like not to know how frequently we perve at them.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Why look in stealth mode?

Thought this site was all about fun and openness? If you look at a profile....a little something has caught your eye so why hide?

BTW this is a general question not a statement.....x"
I don't look at profiles because I want to meet. I look to see what's on there. I hide as otherwise people assume you looked because your interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just look once...block if not for you...perv away but maybe just maybe that person may be perving you in stealth and you both could be missing out on something good...such a shame x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come out! (of stealth mode)....on your own profiles be it!..

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

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Just take a screenshot of the profile and keep looking at that. Result. (Perv!)

#MondaysTopTip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just look once...block if not for you...perv away but maybe just maybe that person may be perving you in stealth and you both could be missing out on something good...such a shame x"

It's not a shame. If I look at a profile in stealth and I like them, I will message or add to my hotlist. There is more than one way to skin a cat and this means I have control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use stealth just so I don't look like a stalker.

I don't look at every profile but if someone catches my eye I will have a peek.

I'm awful at remembering who I've peeked at and would look like a stalker of peeked at the same profile a couple of times in a few weeks.

I don't always ay's message members but if someone's status says they have had a awful day I may send a polite message or send a genuine compliment to someone but they don't need to reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've come out! (of stealth mode)....on your own profiles be it!..

Good for you sir....let people know they are worthy of your pervy

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

The amount of messages after viewing out of stealth is one thing but I really am a shameless perve and no-one needs to be witness to that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the reasons is so they don’t get messages saying “hey I saw you looking” or thinking they’re interested just because they looked. "

This, exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The amount of messages after viewing out of stealth is one thing but I really am a shameless perve and no-one needs to be witness to that...

Let people know your perving them and shout it out loud x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

Very much this

How can I have a hard think about their content if I have to worry about getting blocked for stalking?

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

I've decided to move over to stealth mode. I look at a profile once and then all I get is a continuous stream of messages requesting sexual favours and to be honest I'm sick of it !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

Very much this

How can I have a hard think about their content if I have to worry about getting blocked for stalking?"

If someone blocks you for perving at a profile then maybe they weren't for you

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

Very much this

How can I have a hard think about their content if I have to worry about getting blocked for stalking?

If someone blocks you for perving at a profile then maybe they weren't for you"

But you are assuming we’d want to meet them, and not just admire their content.

There are plenty of people we have no interest in meeting due to not sharing the same interests, but still put out imaginative content.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at a profile to see if I like them, to be nosey or just to blatantly perv. Doesn't mean I have any interest in actually talking to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often look at profiles of those who have looked at us. It doesn't mean we are interested at that point more often than not, but we do like to read what people have written about themselves. We never go into stealth mode don't see the point.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Just look once...block if not for you...perv away but maybe just maybe that person may be perving you in stealth and you both could be missing out on something good...such a shame x"

No. If I like to look but not enough to message then that's my business.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

Ha ha ha !! Now I can view and nobody will know !!

Feels a bit pervy TBH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

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Just take a screenshot of the profile and keep looking at that. Result. (Perv!)

#MondaysTopTip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I can.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

If we looked at a single male profile out of stealth mode , we could guarantee we'd get a faf message without them even reading the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not getting into this again after no one believed I wasn’t a perv in the last thread that asked this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not getting into this again after no one believed I wasn’t a perv in the last thread that asked this

And yet...here you are on the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I view on stealth so that I can convince myself that's what everyone does ... And that I really get 1000 views a day!

I haven't worked out how to fab and wink in stealth, but I'm sure that must be a thing ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not getting into this again after no one believed I wasn’t a perv in the last thread that asked this

And yet...here you are on the thread!

Still not perving

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Just look once...block if not for you...perv away but maybe just maybe that person may be perving you in stealth and you both could be missing out on something good...such a shame x

It's not a shame. If I look at a profile in stealth and I like them, I will message or add to my hotlist. There is more than one way to skin a cat and this means I have control. "
this for me too. Its there for a reason. I talk to people on here for more than just meeting for fun. So what good would blocking all those I don't want to meet do.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I’m not getting into this again after no one believed I wasn’t a perv in the last thread that asked this

I wonder why

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'd get pestered far too much if I wasn't in stealth mode. Pfffffft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

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Just take a screenshot of the profile and keep looking at that. Result. (Perv!)

#MondaysTopTip

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Because most profiles I look at I'm just being nosey, I have no interest in chatting or meeting. If I've ever liked the look of someone I've just messaged them.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I usually don't but I sometimes regret that. But I don't perve on profiles much. I'll go perve on you though OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because that little something that caught your eye might not be a good thing and you don't want it to go any further. "

This right here!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"Personally it's because you don't actually know if you are interested until you fully browse a profile. Imagine getting emails from retail stores for nearly every single item you have browsed and decided not to buy. "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't want people to think I'm a stalker when I look at their profile numerous amounts of times. I might like their photos but have no real want to speak to them in that moment.

Other times I need some sort of material to masterbate too - you don't have automated messages which say "Sorry, fab member is currently busy masterbating, please try again later." (I don't want to be disturbed).

I don't want people to know I've gone on their profile to block them.

I like to check pictures for being fake (sorry mods, your probably sick of all my reports!) - if I think they're fake I don't want them messaging me or seeing that I've blocked them.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Cos I want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don't want people to think I'm a stalker when I look at their profile numerous amounts of times. I might like their photos but have no real want to speak to them in that moment.

I don't want people to know I've gone on their profile to block them.

I like to check pictures for being fake (sorry mods, your probably sick of all my reports!) - if I think they're fake I don't want them messaging me or seeing that I've blocked them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not getting into this again after no one believed I wasn’t a perv in the last thread that asked this

I wonder why

Don’t you start on me as well

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

So you can perv in peace.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"So you can perv in peace."

BTW- Happy birthday. Xx

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"Because there are certain people I'd like not to know how frequently we perve at them.

Yes I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This must be what happens to me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You're assuming that people only look at profiles to perve.

There are many reasons for viewing profiles and not all are positive.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I view in stealth as even just an average looking TV prior to this, I’d get endless messages asking if I’m interested ?

So god only knows what it’s like for the women and couples on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're assuming that people only look at profiles to perve.

There are many reasons for viewing profiles and not all are positive.

Such as cut & paste of Sydney University warnings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I can admire/perve all the Totty time and time again and you have no idea

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Why look in stealth mode?

Thought this site was all about fun and openness? If you look at a profile....a little something has caught your eye so why hide?

BTW this is a general question not a statement.....x"

Because that little something that caught my eye is very probably a picture that I can't work out by the tiny thumbnail on my phone screen.... possibly of a flaccid penis that I thought was a baguette so clicked to see what filling it had.

Also, I sometimes read profiles (yes, the words) to get a better understanding of the person I may be replying to in a thread.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Why look in stealth mode?

Thought this site was all about fun and openness? If you look at a profile....a little something has caught your eye so why hide?

BTW this is a general question not a statement.....x

Because as soon as a guy has seen that you’ve looked, you get the like what you see?” message in the inbox."
nah if someone looks at me and doesn't message they obviously have their reason so I wouldn't message them on that basis

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Just look once...block if not for you...perv away but maybe just maybe that person may be perving you in stealth and you both could be missing out on something good...such a shame x"

Why would I block someone just because I don't want to have sex with them?

So I should block the entire site coz my fanny's dried up?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Plus some of us have to go and look at several details multiple times and it makes us look like proper perves

So true."

Yes this. And also sometimes you click by accident and then it looks like you are stalking when you're not.

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford

… there’s a stealth mode?

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

It’s a nicer method….compared to message filtering

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We do all the time. We have guys blocked so it's not to avoid unwanted "saw you looking messages", it's more to stop people blocking us because we're perving their profiles two hundred times a day

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stops the pests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why look in stealth mode?

Thought this site was all about fun and openness? If you look at a profile....a little something has caught your eye so why hide?

BTW this is a general question not a statement.....x"
why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I’d look at some profiles like a few times a day and it is kinda creepy

So I can perv in peace unnoticed x

Generally I don’t look at who looked at my profile because it gets refreshed anyway with the amount of views I get

But on the contrary, I bet I’d be like the one perving on some dude so… 20 views from me and 2 views from someone else

and he’d know and see it too

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