FabSwingers.com forum: Look at my profile…

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Back story - I don’t block men from dm’ing me, it leaves me open to chat to other forum users.

Today- I hold back here from voicing my frustration on how it also seems to attract the one liners and lewd request from local guys who see I am logged on.

What is it on my profile that says I am into men?

The future- Advice on my profile is welcome but I probably won’t take it

it’s more of a confused moan and looking for a support group that deal with the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing on your profile to say you are

Problem is there’s so meny who are fab stright it’s hard to tell who’s stright and who’s fab straight so they just changing they luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming from a bisexual males perspective, you have a good profile and very nice photo’s. I respect the fact that you’re straight and wouldn’t mail you in such a way. That said, there are a lot of ‘fab straight’ chaps around that I get unsolicited mail from to so I can understand why you’d get chancers messaging in the hope you may also be ‘fab straight’

I’d suggest making it clear that you’re not interested in meeting fellas. You’ll still get the chancers then but at least you can point them to out in response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing on your profile to say you are

Problem is there’s so meny who are fab stright it’s hard to tell who’s stright and who’s fab straight so they just changing they luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're on fab, that opens you up to one liners and lewd requests.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It's the squirty cream I suspect, attracts them like moths to a light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are straight and therefore there for ‘turning’

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Coming from a bisexual males perspective, you have a good profile and very nice photo’s. I respect the fact that you’re straight and wouldn’t mail you in such a way. That said, there are a lot of ‘fab straight’ chaps around that I get unsolicited mail from to so I can understand why you’d get chancers messaging in the hope you may also be ‘fab straight’

I’d suggest making it clear that you’re not interested in meeting fellas. You’ll still get the chancers then but at least you can point them to out in response. "

A funny thing. One of my most memorable exchanges was with a chancer. The banter he returned after my sarcastic reply was stuff of legend.

I actually exchanged a rather long back and forth with him simply because he saw the sense of humour in it all. No horrible insults at the end, but it’s very very rare to see this.

I was tempted to add him as a friend

Good fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're on fab, that opens you up to one liners and lewd requests.

A word I rarely use, my word of the day I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are straight and therefore there for ‘turning’

I promise to suck off any guy that can make me……

*wait what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the squirty cream I suspect, attracts them like moths to a light."

Just the men….? … damn

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"It's the squirty cream I suspect, attracts them like moths to a light.

Just the men….? … damn

Who doesn't love a bit of squirty cream? Except the lactose intolerant and the vegans, of course.

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By *arkSuitedBootedMan
over a year ago

Nottingham City Centre

I tried the same because I was looking to make friends but the amount of guys sending me repeated messages wanting to suck my cock lead me to block all men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tried the same because I was looking to make friends but the amount of guys sending me repeated messages wanting to suck my cock lead me to block all men

I still refuse to let a small few spoil it for all. I mean, who doesn’t want to be pals with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the squirty cream I suspect, attracts them like moths to a light.

Just the men….? … damn

Who doesn't love a bit of squirty cream? Except the lactose intolerant and the vegans, of course."

Vegans also love squirty cream!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"It's the squirty cream I suspect, attracts them like moths to a light.

Just the men….? … damn

Who doesn't love a bit of squirty cream? Except the lactose intolerant and the vegans, of course.

Vegans also love squirty cream!"

Oh? Ooohhh... dairy free? The lactose intolerant could also have that: two birds, one stone. Good call!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I get them too and I'm very disappointed that you do too.

I thought it was just because I was so desirable that they wanted to discreetly suck me off at 3am on a weekday now it turns out they're sending them to all men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter what you put on your profile. Because they're not reading it! It's the same for everyone. I tried putting that I didn't want unsolicited cock pics / one liners / married men. I've given up now and I just either turn off messages or bulk delete them unread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the squirty cream I suspect, attracts them like moths to a light.

Just the men….? … damn

Who doesn't love a bit of squirty cream? Except the lactose intolerant and the vegans, of course.

Vegans also love squirty cream!"

I’ll put vegans down on my likes list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get them too and I'm very disappointed that you do too.

….. "

I feel for you too. Let’s hug it out *offer a bro hug

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter what you put on your profile. Because they're not reading it! It's the same for everyone. "

It should matter. To a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter what you put on your profile. Because they're not reading it! It's the same for everyone.

It should matter. To a point. "

But it won't make a damned bit of difference to the kind of people who send you those messages. I don't write my profile for them. As they won't read it and they're not for me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

People just don’t read profiles. It’s ridiculous. I wouldn’t dream of messaging a straight woman with regards to meeting. It’ll never change.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter what you put on your profile. Because they're not reading it! It's the same for everyone.

It should matter. To a point.

But it won't make a damned bit of difference to the kind of people who send you those messages. I don't write my profile for them. As they won't read it and they're not for me. "

And the exact same reason I don’t put stuff on my own profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d suggest making it clear that you’re not interested in meeting fellas. You’ll still get the chancers then but at least you can point them to out in response.

A funny thing. One of my most memorable exchanges was with a chancer. The banter he returned after my sarcastic reply was stuff of legend.

I actually exchanged a rather long back and forth with him simply because he saw the sense of humour in it all. No horrible insults at the end, but it’s very very rare to see this.

I was tempted to add him as a friend

Good fun. "

Love this. There's some seriously brilliant people on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People just don’t read profiles. It’s ridiculous. I wouldn’t dream of messaging a straight woman with regards to meeting. It’ll never change. "

I don’t read profiles. True story.

Until I think I need to, or want to. I just read yours and it’s as clear as a bell what your here for.

Mine? I suppose I leave it oddly muddy for lots of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says I'm gay, there's nothing on my Looking For list and the age range is stupidly small but I still get a few messages a week from men and 'couples'.

It is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People just don’t read profiles. It’s ridiculous. I wouldn’t dream of messaging a straight woman with regards to meeting. It’ll never change. "

This. It won't change. We can just change how we react to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the squirty cream I suspect, attracts them like moths to a light.

Just the men….? … damn

Who doesn't love a bit of squirty cream? Except the lactose intolerant and the vegans, of course.

Vegans also love squirty cream!

Oh? Ooohhh... dairy free? The lactose intolerant could also have that: two birds, one stone. Good call!"

Wham bam

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"People just don’t read profiles. It’s ridiculous. I wouldn’t dream of messaging a straight woman with regards to meeting. It’ll never change.

I don’t read profiles. True story.

Until I think I need to, or want to. I just read yours and it’s as clear as a bell what your here for.

Mine? I suppose I leave it oddly muddy for lots of reasons.

. I like to be clear and specific

. I also like others to be the same. Can’t be doing with faffing and bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the squirty cream I suspect, attracts them like moths to a light.

Just the men….? … damn

Who doesn't love a bit of squirty cream? Except the lactose intolerant and the vegans, of course.

Vegans also love squirty cream!

I’ll put vegans down on my likes list.

Oh that'll sort the wheat from the chaff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter if you are polite or rude you will still get the guys begging to suck dick until you block them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People just don’t read profiles. It’s ridiculous. I wouldn’t dream of messaging a straight woman with regards to meeting. It’ll never change.

This. It won't change. We can just change how we react to it.

We need to change. Got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they want guitar lessons.

Trying to break free from the cream theme

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they want guitar lessons.

Trying to break free from the cream theme

Instead of squirting cream, I show my finger techniques. Is that what you meant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back story - I don’t block men from dm’ing me, it leaves me open to chat to other forum users.

Today- I hold back here from voicing my frustration on how it also seems to attract the one liners and lewd request from local guys who see I am logged on.

What is it on my profile that says I am into men?

The future- Advice on my profile is welcome but I probably won’t take it

it’s more of a confused moan and looking for a support group that deal with the same.

I don’t know the answer, but are you sure as I still remember you jumping on Swing of the kingers for a snog one afternoon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no im on a swinging site and men want to fuck me...but im a guy!!! Whatever should I do?

I know ill moan about it so females will see i understand there plight.....tongue in cheek x

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Check our bio out... And we still get messages hahahaha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they want guitar lessons.

Trying to break free from the cream theme

Instead of squirting cream, I show my finger techniques. Is that what you meant? "

Yeah baby. "..Come on baby light my fire.."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Check our bio out... And we still get messages hahahaha x "

Hahaha. I skim read and still got the message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh no im on a swinging site and men want to fuck me...but im a guy!!! Whatever should I do?

I know ill moan about it so females will see i understand there plight.....tongue in cheek x"

I thought it was a look at me thread…it’s in the title.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they want guitar lessons.

Trying to break free from the cream theme

Instead of squirting cream, I show my finger techniques. Is that what you meant?

Yeah baby. "..Come on baby light my fire.."

I’ll strum it, you sing it

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Check our bio out... And we still get messages hahahaha x

Hahaha. I skim read and still got the message

Wish everyone did hahaha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back story - I don’t block men from dm’ing me, it leaves me open to chat to other forum users.

Today- I hold back here from voicing my frustration on how it also seems to attract the one liners and lewd request from local guys who see I am logged on.

What is it on my profile that says I am into men?

The future- Advice on my profile is welcome but I probably won’t take it

it’s more of a confused moan and looking for a support group that deal with the same.

I honestly wish I could do the same, the first day I ever was on fab (last year June) the amount of messages, dick pics etc I got from single guys I nearly left fab lol. To this day I get most of my pics fabbed from guys lol.

So kudos to you OP because it's very annoying and I suspect that's what women go through as well on this site so I empathise with them a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab straight always welcome on my profile!

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