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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

I’ve been on the interracial scene a long time and know a lot of women who like black men, but very, very few who are exclusively into black men.

It got me wondering what’s the longest someone has been black men-only? I’d be intrigued to hear.

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By *VDPMan
over a year ago

Nottingham City Centre

Following this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following this "

Same….

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

There seems to be more people following the thread than commenting on it!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Personally I can't see how people can either dislike or like people purely based on their skin colour

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I think people are allowed to like what they like. As I will never be a black man or a woman I don’t think I shall contemplate it more than that.

I am however twinkly-eyes exclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The what scene???

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I’ve been on the interracial scene a long time and know a lot of women who like black men, but very, very few who are exclusively into black men.

It got me wondering what’s the longest someone has been black men-only? I’d be intrigued to hear. "

Never.

I find it strange that someone would only be attracted to a particular skin colour, unless it's a fetish.

I'm curious OP, as to the reason for the question. Are you comfortable being fetishised due to your skin colour?

I wouldn’t want to meet someone who was attracted to me just because I have very pale skin.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

This could be a epiphany

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

For 5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most women fall into 2 categories with regard to the interracial dating scene (not necessarily the swinging scene) there are those who not only love black men but grew up loving black culture (African and Caribbean culture) from food to music and those tend to know pretty early on (like their teens) that they're into black men only.

Then there are those who become black guys only after dating experiences in their 20s or 30s and find it difficult to go back (not speculating, this is from speaking to women about this) and for most women it's not just about cock size it's about colour contrast and viewing black guys in a more positive light than society paints us to be.

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I’ve been on the interracial scene a long time and know a lot of women who like black men, but very, very few who are exclusively into black men.

It got me wondering what’s the longest someone has been black men-only? I’d be intrigued to hear. "

Before I came on here,I was black men only for around 15 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I can't see how people can either dislike or like people purely based on their skin colour "

I definitely can see how some people can dislike people because of the colour of their skin. I've read really foul comments on right wing and racist websites and they have their views, as vile and as disgusting as they are, they have their views, and I get it. Which is why I'm very cautious about how I interact with white people (especially white women in public)

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Personally I can't see how people can either dislike or like people purely based on their skin colour

I definitely can see how some people can dislike people because of the colour of their skin. I've read really foul comments on right wing and racist websites and they have their views, as vile and as disgusting as they are, they have their views, and I get it. Which is why I'm very cautious about how I interact with white people (especially white women in public) "

Exactly my point. I do not understand those people at all.

Which is why I also can't understand why one would single out someone for their skin tone alone.

It should be about the people not the skin. I know it is not like that in the world sadly.

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds


"For 5 years "

Fabulous. You have some wonderful photos.

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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I know some people who only go for people with certain hair colour, Some people only date men that are tall.

That's what they are attracted to.

Nothing wrong with that. If you are only attracted to someone of a certain colour skin is that not the same thing?

I'm happy to be educated on this if people have opposing views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some people who only go for people with certain hair colour, Some people only date men that are tall.

That's what they are attracted to.

Nothing wrong with that. If you are only attracted to someone of a certain colour skin is that not the same thing?

I'm happy to be educated on this if people have opposing views."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I can't see how people can either dislike or like people purely based on their skin colour

I definitely can see how some people can dislike people because of the colour of their skin. I've read really foul comments on right wing and racist websites and they have their views, as vile and as disgusting as they are, they have their views, and I get it. Which is why I'm very cautious about how I interact with white people (especially white women in public)

Exactly my point. I do not understand those people at all.

Which is why I also can't understand why one would single out someone for their skin tone alone.

It should be about the people not the skin. I know it is not like that in the world sadly."

Since coming to the UK and experiencing a lot of racism, I try to understand the racism from the racist point of view, so hence I'm aware as a big black guy, with dreads I'm seen as a threat, a criminal etc, because that's how society paints us. But when I open mouth amd people actually spend time around me they realise I'm just a pretty chilled, kind hearted fellow.

On a side note, I've written and published a lot on the topic of race relations.

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

the experiences we have had in the last 5 years with just black men have been amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference is preference.

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds


"Preference is preference. "

Well said.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Preference is preference. "

Preference easily changes...and usually changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh FFS, this again!!!!!

It’s a sexual preference, not a racial hatred! You might as well call a Lady who doesn’t fancy other ladies, or a Guy who doesn’t fancy other Guy’s, sexist!

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Personally I can't see how people can either dislike or like people purely based on their skin colour "
undercover racism. Then they call it preference. Seems OK when women do it but if a man does it its not OK

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Oh FFS, this again!!!!!

It’s a sexual preference, not a racial hatred! You might as well call a Lady who doesn’t fancy other ladies, or a Guy who doesn’t fancy other Guy’s, sexist!

"

You didn't read it did you. You assumed you knew what was being said me thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh FFS, this again!!!!!

It’s a sexual preference, not a racial hatred! You might as well call a Lady who doesn’t fancy other ladies, or a Guy who doesn’t fancy other Guy’s, sexist!

You didn't read it did you. You assumed you knew what was being said me thinks."

It wasn’t the OP that I was referring to _rincess peach, it was some of the subsequent comments that said they couldn’t understand how someone would like another person based on skin colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I can't see how people can either dislike or like people purely based on their skin colour

I definitely can see how some people can dislike people because of the colour of their skin. I've read really foul comments on right wing and racist websites and they have their views, as vile and as disgusting as they are, they have their views, and I get it. Which is why I'm very cautious about how I interact with white people (especially white women in public)

Exactly my point. I do not understand those people at all.

Which is why I also can't understand why one would single out someone for their skin tone alone.

It should be about the people not the skin. I know it is not like that in the world sadly."

Attraction maybe? Doesnt mean your racist im atracted to caramel skin but wouldnt sleep with darker skin as the atraction isnt there.. which ultimately is my choice (ill add that my life long best friend is black african before anyone brings out the racist card ) its the same as i would sleep with a blonde i was attracted too but not a red head... the attractions not there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been on the interracial scene a long time and know a lot of women who like black men, but very, very few who are exclusively into black men.

It got me wondering what’s the longest someone has been black men-only? I’d be intrigued to hear.

Before I came on here,I was black men only for around 15 years. "

I think you are the winner.

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By *meliacdxTV/TS
over a year ago

Here

Only been with 1 black man, but not sure why you'd be black men only x

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds


"I’ve been on the interracial scene a long time and know a lot of women who like black men, but very, very few who are exclusively into black men.

It got me wondering what’s the longest someone has been black men-only? I’d be intrigued to hear.

Before I came on here,I was black men only for around 15 years.

I think you are the winner. "

Yes 15 years seems to be the longest so far.

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By *lutForYou69Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

My best friend is

Last (and only) white guy she has dated was when she was a teenager, other than him she’s only been with 1 other white guy (which was a one off)

She just doesn’t find white men attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best friend is

Last (and only) white guy she has dated was when she was a teenager, other than him she’s only been with 1 other white guy (which was a one off)

She just doesn’t find white men attractive "

Cool cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I can't see how people can either dislike or like people purely based on their skin colour

I definitely can see how some people can dislike people because of the colour of their skin. I've read really foul comments on right wing and racist websites and they have their views, as vile and as disgusting as they are, they have their views, and I get it. Which is why I'm very cautious about how I interact with white people (especially white women in public) "

" I'm very cautious about how I interact with white people (especially white women in public)"

I've seen you say this exact thing before and I just don't understand why you don't treat everyone the same until something actually happens.

What's happened to you to be like that ?

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Haha... Thanks.. what's the prize? Lol..

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

For 3 years when we lived together

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I treat everyone the same,I was with a black man for 15years but it wasn't about the colour of his skin,it was because of the person he was,I had a child to him,and loved him a lot..

But I've also been in relationships with white men too...goes on attraction and personality for me.. x

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"Personally I can't see how people can either dislike or like people purely based on their skin colour

I definitely can see how some people can dislike people because of the colour of their skin. I've read really foul comments on right wing and racist websites and they have their views, as vile and as disgusting as they are, they have their views, and I get it. Which is why I'm very cautious about how I interact with white people (especially white women in public) "

Problem with all these discussion threads is they end up doing exactly what you may have unintentionally done. Blurring colour of skin as sexual preference with bigger nastier racial profiling. It is always contentious to pick a protected characteristic as a sexual "preference" (preference vs prejudice). There are an awful lot on here are only too happy to exploit it: hopefully not the same ones who complain about it afterwards

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