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By *ooangel8181 OP   Woman
over a year ago

notts

On the dating scene trying to find a nice guy to settle with.

I date them for a while thinking I can settle with it but fuck me I get bored.

I’m not into anything to kinky or out there but I’m just so bored.

How, do u meet someone who’s into something a little…..out there?? Is there dating sites for us?? I CBA to have the conversation with a guy as I don’t want them to judge me and to be the talk of the town if they think I’m a “fucking whore”

If we’re both on the same page to start with then I’d find it a lot easier.

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Wish I had some advice to give. Maybe there's a gap in the market? Dating for people who get bored quickly, I'd have a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly is it you're bored with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it you want but are unable to say? Why the concern about being judged a whore?

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the dating scene trying to find a nice guy to settle with.

I date them for a while thinking I can settle with it but fuck me I get bored.

I’m not into anything to kinky or out there but I’m just so bored.

How, do u meet someone who’s into something a little…..out there?? Is there dating sites for us?? I CBA to have the conversation with a guy as I don’t want them to judge me and to be the talk of the town if they think I’m a “fucking whore”

If we’re both on the same page to start with then I’d find it a lot easier.

"

We met on fab there used to be a dating thread every Sunday evening

Doughnut

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I think if you go looking for a relationship then it's always going to be a compromise.. If the relationship finds you then you'll probably be happy.

I'm still waiting for one to find me by the way

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By *ooangel8181 OP   Woman
over a year ago

notts

Bored of the “normal sex”

I dare not admit I’d like to visit clubs as a couple. Maybe some couple meets.

I have been in two successful relationships since I was 16 and I’ve been single for the last three

I’ve dated several times but it always fails

A couple off a dating site, met in person and one from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just find a guy to date on here. It’s totally possible to find a guy who’d ‘be on the same page’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it can be found thru traditional sites ... But you have to filter hard.

Probs harder for gals as men are more likely to big up experiences while women may down play.

Do you know exactly what you do and don't want ?

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By *ooangel8181 OP   Woman
over a year ago

notts


"Just find a guy to date on here. It’s totally possible to find a guy who’d ‘be on the same page’.

"

Hmmmm yeah. That happened and soon he was controlling and possessive of me and tried to push my boundaries

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Just find a guy to date on here. It’s totally possible to find a guy who’d ‘be on the same page’.

Hmmmm yeah. That happened and soon he was controlling and possessive of me and tried to push my boundaries "

Nice guys don’t exist. They all have their own agenda.

You aren’t going to find many on vanilla dating sites, you may want to look at those aimed at alt lifestyle people, poly groups etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just find a guy to date on here. It’s totally possible to find a guy who’d ‘be on the same page’.

Hmmmm yeah. That happened and soon he was controlling and possessive of me and tried to push my boundaries "

Like all dating arenas, there’s wrong uns. That doesn’t mean Mr Right isn’t here.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I think this is something you have to spend plenty of time on.

You may have to date a lot of

men to find a compatible one, who you trust not to make you the talk of the town.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Why can’t Fab be your dating site? Plenty of people here have said in other threads that they would like to be in a relationship with another Fabber so they can have the best of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How, do u meet someone who’s into something a little…..out there?? "

Does the F@B population not qualify as a little out there?

From my own experience I can relate if its small talk and vanilla shenanigans that you get bored with quickly.

Whatever "Out there" interests you have then I guess that is your baseline to start your next hunt!

Or write a letter to Santa.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be open and honest with what you are looking for from the start. Many people I imagine on here would be looking for something similar and just with dating in general its a case of trial and error. Wish I could have been more helpful

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