FabSwingers.com forum: Who's looked at me

By *inTonic2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We have a question, which we can't seem to get our heads around: why do people hide themselves from other people's 'who's looked at me' page? We get people liking pics but then hide themselves, which just means we don't bother checking profiles. Can anyone shed some light?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.

And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

It's so I can perve pictures in peace and quiet. And not just messages from people saying hello you looked at me. I may have looked and not liked. Essentially makes my life easier

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.

And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so I can perve pictures in peace and quiet. And not just messages from people saying hello you looked at me. I may have looked and not liked. Essentially makes my life easier

This

Let us perv in peace!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What those two said. I don’t want people knowing I’ve looked

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By *inTonic2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.

And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.

That makes sense..

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By *onnie879Man
over a year ago

falkirk

Well I just looked at everyone one of ya

was all very pleasing on the eye you’ll be glad to hear

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

As above. I don't like getting messages because I looked at a profile.

Just because I look doesn't mean I want to meet them but some don't understand this concept.

I don't often fab pictures for the same reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the others have said too.

Perv in peace and have some control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What the others have said too.

Perv in peace and have some control"

Yep.

There all "private perverts". Like me..

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes hide who's looked at me so I can look without getting hi you looked at me messages.somtimes I have looked then been blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.

And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.

This

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I can imagine this is a big thing for a lot of women. There are loads of reasons why someone might typically look at your profile and not all are sexual.

Given that loads of people are having inbox conversations with themselves, if people took a profile view as interest, the reactions would be too much to handle in many instances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

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By *inTonic2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"As above. I don't like getting messages because I looked at a profile.

Just because I look doesn't mean I want to meet them but some don't understand this concept.

I don't often fab pictures for the same reasons. "

I guess being a couple and getting lots of people viewing us, it never crossed our minds to contact someone if they've only checked us out. If someone's looked at us and not messaged or winked, we've happily taken it as probably not interested. Thanks for clarifying from a single woman's perspective. Makes total sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so I can perve pictures in peace and quiet. And not just messages from people saying hello you looked at me. I may have looked and not liked. Essentially makes my life easier

This

Let us perv in peace! "

What she said.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Viewing someone's profile can often be misconstrued as interest...I like to perv in incognito mode if I agree with someone's comment on the forum I like to check them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

Sure. Hmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Viewing someone's profile can often be misconstrued as interest...I like to perv in incognito mode if I agree with someone's comment on the forum I like to check them out

I can sense the hundreds of views from you on our profile then

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

Ummmmm no

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

So I can stalk the fuck out of people and them not know it!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

Ummmmm no

Thought not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I can look at pictures multiple times without them thinking I'm a stalker. I also like to do my bit for the community and look through the "new" profiles and find the fakes to report to admin. I obviously don't want those people messaging me so hiding from looked at helps massively!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

Ummmmm no

Thought not

He's perving!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I view the same persons profile over and over again to check for new veris, pics etc. I don’t need them to know I’m doing this lol. And it’s not random people but people I am actually fucking…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

Ummmmm no

Thought not

He's perving!!

I’m so not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

Ummmmm no

Thought not

He's perving!!

I’m so not

Me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

Ummmmm no

Thought not

He's perving!!

I’m so not

Thou doth protest too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to message people unless they appear in my last viewed regularly...and by regularly I mean every day for ages.

Looking at a profile shouldn't open a lady up to unwanted messages, you'll probably get enough of them as it is

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

Ummmmm no

Thought not

He's perving!!

I’m so not

Me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much!

Waaa snap again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

Ummmmm no

Thought not

He's perving!!

I’m so not

Me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much!

Waaa snap again

Just because you two perv on my pics on the daily don’t tar me with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emmmm I would be locked up for stalking if I wasn’t hiden

Also it cuts down on the hi seen you looked at me message

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

Ummmmm no

Thought not

He's perving!!

I’m so not

Me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much!

Waaa snap again

Just because you two perv on my pics on the daily don’t tar me with the same brush

I mean you'd block me if you knew how many times I looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don’t perv but look at profiles for other reasons that shall remain unknown

If that's the case deactivate stealth mode

Ummmmm no

Thought not

He's perving!!

I’m so not

Me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much!

Waaa snap again

Just because you two perv on my pics on the daily don’t tar me with the same brush

Jeez! Sensitive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont get perved on in not

mode either.

guess that comes of being a fat bastard

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By *inTonic2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"So I can look at pictures multiple times without them thinking I'm a stalker. I also like to do my bit for the community and look through the "new" profiles and find the fakes to report to admin. I obviously don't want those people messaging me so hiding from looked at helps massively! "

Another reason that makes total sense. Thanks.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

So they don't know I'm stalking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess Im just an exhibitionist with my perving

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

Scotland & London

For those that perv in stealth mode, would you click off this mode to show someone you liked that you looked, perhaps to pique their curiousity/interest?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"For those that perv in stealth mode, would you click off this mode to show someone you liked that you looked, perhaps to pique their curiousity/interest?"

No I'd just message them directly and say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes change it to show I’ve looked no reason for myself but I totally understand not wanting to from a woman’s or couples pov

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.

And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.

Yeh same here

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"We have a question, which we can't seem to get our heads around: why do people hide themselves from other people's 'who's looked at me' page? We get people liking pics but then hide themselves, which just means we don't bother checking profiles. Can anyone shed some light? "

Don’t waste your time trying to figure out why other people use the site the way they do; unless you are that person you’ll never get it.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The reverse can also be true. Sometimes people will deliberately not use stealth mode and view a profile multiple times on the same day. They may also fab most of their pics in the hope that person will notice and get in touch.

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By *inTonic2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I also don't get why someone would fab pictures, but hide their profile. Maybe previous advice given about not trying to figure out how others use the site is the way to go, but I just don't like dodgy behaviour. Is that worth a block?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"I also don't get why someone would fab pictures, but hide their profile. Maybe previous advice given about not trying to figure out how others use the site is the way to go, but I just don't like dodgy behaviour. Is that worth a block?"

Certainly not worth a block. They might be off meeting over Xmas but use fabs/winks as a means of bookmarking persons of interest.

I’d lighten up and not overthink everything

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Maybe they just like your photo? I know I Fab photos for no more reason than I think it's a good photo. I've no intention of contacting or wanting to meet them. I certainly don't see it as dodgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For those that perv in stealth mode, would you click off this mode to show someone you liked that you looked, perhaps to pique their curiousity/interest?"

Yes, maybe that's why I don't show on looked at for you?

Ooooooooooooh. I'm joking. Sometimes I do, If I can be bothered taking it off otherwise I'll just message

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

bridgwater

I often wonder if my pics are peeked by women in ninja stealth mode

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

local

Sometimes we look at a guys profile then receive a message which starts “thanks for looking at my profile “. Yea we looked but had we been interested we would have messaged them . Guess that’s why some people hide who’s looked at me

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Bizarrely, I was winked at 14 minutes ago (well, it doesn’t happen often…) but I tried to look at her profile and I’d already been blocked

Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often wonder if my pics are peeked by women in ninja stealth mode"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We seen a status saying something along the lines of…. “Don’t view my profile if you’re not going to reply to my messages”

Some people think because you’ve viewed them that they’re entitled to some form of interaction.

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By *inTonic2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Bizarrely, I was winked at 14 minutes ago (well, it doesn’t happen often…) but I tried to look at her profile and I’d already been blocked

Oh well

Seems you may be overthinking things mate. Let it go?

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

"Bizarrely, I was winked at 14 minutes ago (well, it doesn’t happen often…) but I tried to look at her profile and I’d already been blocked

Oh well

Seems you may be overthinking things mate. Let it go?

Not at all, haha, I just thought it was a bit contradictory, but relevant to this thread

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By *inTonic2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Bizarrely, I was winked at 14 minutes ago (well, it doesn’t happen often…) but I tried to look at her profile and I’d already been blocked

Oh well

Seems you may be overthinking things mate. Let it go?

Not at all, haha, I just thought it was a bit contradictory, but relevant to this thread

Sorry mate, it's relevant, I was just being a little facetious. Seems to me there's a lot of odd behaviour with some members, which we should just deal with with a pinch of salt, or by following our gut reactions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so I can perve pictures in peace and quiet. And not just messages from people saying hello you looked at me. I may have looked and not liked. Essentially makes my life easier

Yep. I'm all about making my life easier

and not imposing limits on views of certain profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could upgrade to silver or gold membership and get rid of a feature, that would be the one. I don't want to know who's looked

..yet I know I'd give in to temptation and press that silly button.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"As above. I don't like getting messages because I looked at a profile.

Just because I look doesn't mean I want to meet them but some don't understand this concept.

I don't often fab pictures for the same reasons. "

Same as this

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"It's so I can perve pictures in peace and quiet. And not just messages from people saying hello you looked at me. I may have looked and not liked. Essentially makes my life easier

This

Let us perv in peace! "

Exactly.

Plus I might pick up a few restraining orders for checking someone's profile too many times.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.

And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.

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But you recently looked at my profile and it shows that you looked. Weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fab pics because I like the pic, no other reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.

And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.

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But you recently looked at my profile and it shows that you looked. Weird."

what!!

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle somewhere

"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.

And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.

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But you recently looked at my profile and it shows that you looked. Weird.

what!!"

I perved and fabbed you earlier in stealth mode. Doesn’t really work if I fab you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do it because it means I can check out profiles without being messaged afterwards "saw you looking...". I have more control.

And I can perve safely on men I am never likely to meet.

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But you recently looked at my profile and it shows that you looked. Weird.

what!!

I perved and fabbed you earlier in stealth mode. Doesn’t really work if I fab you though

No it gives you away then (and to be fair I'm sure I fabbed one of Nero's)!

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