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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Random friends request???….I have one answer for that

Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you

it has been quick blissful.

I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated

Hugs welcome

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I rarely look at the friend requests bit

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I rarely look at the friend requests bit

I have a snoop to see who sends a request without even messaging. I like to all neat and tidy

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that

Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you

it has been quick blissful.

I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated

Hugs welcome

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Probably it is the only solution, although I wrote not to send a friend request otherwise I block them, they continue to send friend requests, or they are illiterate or do not read the profile!

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that

Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you

it has been quick blissful.

I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated

Hugs welcome

Bless you, hope you’re feeling better soon, sending hugs x

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that

Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you

it has been quick blissful.

I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated

Hugs welcome

Probably it is the only solution, although I wrote not to send a friend request otherwise I block them, they continue to send friend requests, or they are illiterate or do not read the profile!"

I don’t think anybody reads them, I had that I wasn’t meeting at the top of mine for weeks, I’ve finally removed everything BUT that and I’m still getting messages x

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By *HoneyWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I don’t accept random friends requests. I get them all the time and I clearly state in my profile I don’t accept them unless I’ve chatted to that person. Attention to detail is important for me, if you can’t read a simple request then you’re not for me.

Try warm milk, with honey and tumeric and a bit of ginger for your throat x

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that

Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you

it has been quick blissful.

I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated

Hugs welcome

Probably it is the only solution, although I wrote not to send a friend request otherwise I block them, they continue to send friend requests, or they are illiterate or do not read the profile!"

Most don’t read the bio on the profile…I know mine isn’t read.

Some pick and choose which part they want to acknowledge

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that

Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you

it has been quick blissful.

I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated

Hugs welcome

Bless you, hope you’re feeling better soon, sending hugs x"

Awwww thank you very much

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I don’t accept random friends requests. I get them all the time and I clearly state in my profile I don’t accept them unless I’ve chatted to that person. Attention to detail is important for me, if you can’t read a simple request then you’re not for me.

Try warm milk, with honey and tumeric and a bit of ginger for your throat x"

I’m like yourself and keep my friends list small and those I’ve interacted with on a more personal level or I’ve met.

Attention to detail is definitely important.

Thank you for the advice. Will give it a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't look at them

I only look when someone tells me they sent me one! Then I discover someone I really like sent me one 5 days ago and was hanging there.. oops.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We'll be right over with blankets, hot water bottles, and some honeyed tea. We'd send a random friend request too but y'know

LvM

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I just don't look at them

I only look when someone tells me they sent me one! Then I discover someone I really like sent me one 5 days ago and was hanging there.. oops.

Ooops I’ve been guilty of that too.

As long as you get them added on in the end. Sometimes a nudge is all that’s needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got it in my profile to not send friend invites as they'll be deleted and also blocked. Doesn't make any difference, guys still send invites so I'll still delete and block. Feels like no one knows how to read anymore lol x

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"We'll be right over with blankets, hot water bottles, and some honeyed tea. We'd send a random friend request too but y'know

LvM"

Hahaha you made that spot ages ago

Awww you two

with K poorly too, I think we both will need it.

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I've got it in my profile to not send friend invites as they'll be deleted and also blocked. Doesn't make any difference, guys still send invites so I'll still delete and block. Feels like no one knows how to read anymore lol x"

trust me I hear you!!!

Mine says not new chats or meets…do they listen…nope

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

The same for us or they are illiterate or just watch the pictures!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"We'll be right over with blankets, hot water bottles, and some honeyed tea. We'd send a random friend request too but y'know

LvM

Hahaha you made that spot ages ago

Awww you two

with K poorly too, I think we both will need it. "

I'm definitely just going to end up as a glorified tea and soup waiter for you both aren't I?

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this purely guys that are doing it or do you get the occasional female popping up….Let’s face it they only send the friends request thinking there’s more personal (rude/filthy) pics in there!!

Utter perverts the lot of them!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I only answer requests to those who have bothered to make conversations with us beyond the usual "hi" "how are you?" "What you doing?" "fancy a F**k?" etc... takes more than idol chit chat to capture our attention

sorry to hear you have a sore throat, hope it mends soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or have a single guys profile?

Never had a random friend request in my life.

*this is not an invitation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same for us or they are illiterate or just watch the pictures! "

Yeah they're just pic collectors x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or have a single guys profile?

Never had a random friend request in my life.

*this is not an invitation

You must have single guys blocked from viewing you….I have gay men sending to me a few times….I accept and then they delete me

Clearly think my friends only pics are horrendous

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"We'll be right over with blankets, hot water bottles, and some honeyed tea. We'd send a random friend request too but y'know

LvM

Hahaha you made that spot ages ago

Awww you two

with K poorly too, I think we both will need it.

I'm definitely just going to end up as a glorified tea and soup waiter for you both aren't I?

LvM"

we wouldn’t be that harsh and would ask you to pour yourself a cup and bowl too.

Happy to return the favour if needs be

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Is this purely guys that are doing it or do you get the occasional female popping up….Let’s face it they only send the friends request thinking there’s more personal (rude/filthy) pics in there!!

Utter perverts the lot of them!"

That’s my thoughts too. My friends only had nothing too revealing in it anyways…

I have had couples and females send requests before but they usually looked a bit dodgy

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I only answer requests to those who have bothered to make conversations with us beyond the usual "hi" "how are you?" "What you doing?" "fancy a F**k?" etc... takes more than idol chit chat to capture our attention

sorry to hear you have a sore throat, hope it mends soon x"

Most definitely…has to be more put in.

Awww thank you so much…I’m hoping I wake up feeling 100%

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Or have a single guys profile?

Never had a random friend request in my life.

*this is not an invitation

Hahaha be careful, you might just change that!!!

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Or have a single guys profile?

Never had a random friend request in my life.

*this is not an invitation

You must have single guys blocked from viewing you….I have gay men sending to me a few times….I accept and then they delete me

Clearly think my friends only pics are horrendous

Or they were after something a bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or have a single guys profile?

Never had a random friend request in my life.

*this is not an invitation

You must have single guys blocked from viewing you….I have gay men sending to me a few times….I accept and then they delete me

Clearly think my friends only pics are horrendous

No, I clearly must be horrendous in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent you a friend request to cheer you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let them send it don’t do anything with it don’t look at that part they can’t send another

Also wait till they offline once that are accept run through they friends pics remove them before being back online they just think you didn’t accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have actually done this. Removed all friends photos, now i accept people who send me unsolicited requests, look at their friends pictures and then unfriend them again. Petty but fun.

i also get far less unsolicited friends requests.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Random friends request???….I have one answer for that

Remove all your pictures and no one wants to add you

it has been quick blissful.

I’m bed with a throat that feels like it’s been grated

Hugs welcome

Big hugs xx

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've had them even when my profile has been hidden...not sure if they think friends can see pictures even if your profile is hidden

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