FabSwingers.com forum: Bi curious or straight?

By *ervent X Kiss OP Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Hi I’ve no attraction to men but if in a mmf or larger group I will and have sucked groped and been sucked. Also I have met just to empty my load. Does this class me as straight or bi curious? Everyone has an opinion so let’s hear yours?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If you need a label then bi. To me that’s not straight.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

If it’s consensual, just do what you want. Who cares what it makes you? Labels are just personal opinions.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If it’s consensual, just do what you want. Who cares what it makes you? Labels are just personal opinions.

Well they’re not really

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By *he Cram-BetweensCouple
over a year ago

A Club or Your Bedroom!

You're at least orally bisexual. You've done the deed and sounds like you would again, so past bi- curious where you'd be thinking of trying it. Unless, you're still curious about other bi exploration? It's a spectrum though, you're just on the end nearer to heterosexual I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I’ve no attraction to men but if in a mmf or larger group I will and have sucked groped and been sucked. Also I have met just to empty my load. Does this class me as straight or bi curious? Everyone has an opinion so let’s hear yours?"

You've met men to empty your load of what?

They sucked your cock?

In what world is that straight?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Its definitely not straight so make your own mind up from that and yes labels do matter to a lot of people about a lot of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bisexual

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP you're definitely not straight.

Bisexual is a range but you're certainly somewhere on the bi scale.

My husband is straight. He's comfortable around naked men but has zero interest in anything remotely sexual with another man.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

"If it’s consensual, just do what you want. Who cares what it makes you? Labels are just personal opinions.

Well they’re not really "

I’ll put that down to being a difference of personal opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay as a maypole. But who cares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not straight.

Embrace it, best of both worlds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a vegetarian ate meat on the rare occasion they wouldn't be vegetarian, right?

I'd say you were bi. There's no hardship writing orally bi on your profile if it's not already there.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If it’s consensual, just do what you want. Who cares what it makes you? Labels are just personal opinions.

Well they’re not really

I’ll put that down to being a difference of personal opinions

Ok but I still don’t get it. I’m bi. It’s not my or anyone else’s opinion. It’s fact. I can’t have sex with women and have the opinion I’m straight.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Hetero-flexible.

Bi-playful.

As the lonely Island sang "it's not gay, if it's a three way"

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

You play and be played with by other men. Your aren't straight my friend

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

You're bi. No need to over think it. Just get on and enjoy yourself.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

You are like spaghetti...

Bends when wet

Fuck the labels.. just be yourself

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"You are like spaghetti...

Bends when wet

Fuck the labels.. just be yourself "

Off to sit down as I am in agreement with Tom..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it with fab straight guys

Its almost 2022 just own who you are.

I've never done anything with a guy, I don't find guys attractive but me and K both love MMF and at our last meet I did fuck licking so for that reason alone I thought it best to put bi curious.

Also because we want to venture in to DVP / DP been comfortable in close proximity with another guy is really important (both ways) and the last thing you need in an MMF is under the surface closet homophobia.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Sucked groped a cock

Your bi sexual

And I'm not much for labels

Why does it matter to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was just the tip, you’ll be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it’s consensual, just do what you want. Who cares what it makes you? Labels are just personal opinions.

Well they’re not really

I’ll put that down to being a difference of personal opinions

Ok but I still don’t get it. I’m bi. It’s not my or anyone else’s opinion. It’s fact. I can’t have sex with women and have the opinion I’m straight. "

Is this the 3rd thread this week on the same topic with the same "don't label people" stuff, Nora?

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By *lairekTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I leave the price tag on my clothes twice a year.

I admit it. I'm bi labelous.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"You are like spaghetti...

Bends when wet

Fuck the labels.. just be yourself

Off to sit down as I am in agreement with Tom..

Surely not ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If it’s consensual, just do what you want. Who cares what it makes you? Labels are just personal opinions.

Well they’re not really

I’ll put that down to being a difference of personal opinions

Ok but I still don’t get it. I’m bi. It’s not my or anyone else’s opinion. It’s fact. I can’t have sex with women and have the opinion I’m straight.

Is this the 3rd thread this week on the same topic with the same "don't label people" stuff, Nora?

Probably. Or the 27,345th since I’ve been on fab at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve ‘met to just empty your load’

You’re not straight.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Change your name to "Bicurious of Soda".

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

You have no attraction to men but you've met just to empty your load, unless it's your washing I'd say you're bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re Bisexual not biromantic. In that you’ll get with men to get off but not coz you’re romantically attracted to them. That’s the proper definition of bi to me.

However I’d open your mind to being fully bi. Much more fun haha

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Empty the load

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"You are like spaghetti...

Bends when wet

Fuck the labels.. just be yourself

Off to sit down as I am in agreement with Tom..

Surely not ?

Season of goodwill and all that..

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"You are like spaghetti...

Bends when wet

Fuck the labels.. just be yourself

Off to sit down as I am in agreement with Tom..

Surely not ?

Season of goodwill and all that..

You almost never agree xx

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"You are like spaghetti...

Bends when wet

Fuck the labels.. just be yourself

Off to sit down as I am in agreement with Tom..

Surely not ?

Season of goodwill and all that..

You almost never agree xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it’s consensual, just do what you want. Who cares what it makes you? Labels are just personal opinions.

Well they’re not really

I’ll put that down to being a difference of personal opinions

Ok but I still don’t get it. I’m bi. It’s not my or anyone else’s opinion. It’s fact. I can’t have sex with women and have the opinion I’m straight.

Is this the 3rd thread this week on the same topic with the same "don't label people" stuff, Nora?

Probably. Or the 27,345th since I’ve been on fab at least

I need to be more Zen to stay here then

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By *r. MacMan
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

Just a quick one really am I bi curious if I want to suck dick when I'm d*unk or is that something else ?

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Its all good fun, if you enjoy it in the moment y not, opens up so many more activities when 3 or more people are involved, think op is frightened of the label

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can assure you, I don’t think you’re straight.

Hope that helps.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Why needing a label? You define your limits and enjoy flirting with your boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What your question describes is the actions of a bi guy. If you personally need to put yourself in a class, then there's no way on earth you can class yourself as straight given the "sucked and been sucked, and dump load" statements.

I get it you are not attracted to men and in real life class yourself as hetrosexual, but as far as actions go, you have more than crossed a line. No judgement at all on what you want to do and enjoy, that's great, but if you want categorised then the straight ship has sailed.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Or just a healthy horny fucker. Like me really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't we do all this yesterday?

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

You're not straight. Labels can have different meaning to people. Traditionally I would describe someone as bisexual if they felt an attraction to the same sex. Sounds like you don't have a sexual attraction.

Maybe 'cocksucker' would be a more accurate label?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're not straight. Labels can have different meaning to people. Traditionally I would describe someone as bisexual if they felt an attraction to the same sex. Sounds like you don't have a sexual attraction.

Maybe 'cocksucker' would be a more accurate label? "

Did you actually just say that? Fucking hell.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Everyone’s “opinion” doesn’t matter in how you identify

If you wanna suck off 10,000 guys and say your straight, then your straight

Other people don’t get to define you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a quick one really am I bi curious if I want to suck dick when I'm d*unk or is that something else ?"

Alcohol generally reduces inhibitors, so true thoughts and feelings can surface.

Some Swingers can only meet if they are d*unk. Swingers clubs usually have at least one d*unk woman there.

I'd say yes you are bi curious.

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