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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx"

I was going to say, I'd be more worried about that cock, but then realised you are part of a couple. Don't worry about a mum tum. Anyone who has seen any kind of life accepts that as perfectly normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys notice insecurities, and when you hide your tummy (or try to) etc, so rather than trying to appease them by hiding it, just admit that it's part of you and that it's in the majority of cases on yourself you are trying to make feel better.

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By *he HandiemanMan
over a year ago

north west

ignore the negative idiots, you look amazing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you guys nice to know some men are OK with it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't apologise for having a perfectly normal body.

If you don't mention it, (decent) men won't either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, every man on fab has the body of a Greek God........ahem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a mum tum, cant really describe how or why, i just do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a massive belly (and I don't even have kids) so I OVERstand, girl.

When first sleeping with a guy I'll wear babydoll style lingerie that covers my stomach and the more comfortable I get with him the more naked I get. It doesn't really hide anything but it's a bit more security for me.

But I agree with the posters above that you shouldn't feel obligated to hide it. Men aren't blind, they can see what you look like. If they're willing to put their penis in you chances are they probably like what they see

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By *HoneyWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Pricks come in all shapes and sizes, there will always be that one arsehole out there. But don’t ever stop being yourself to please others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all imperfectly perfect and that is what makes us all beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs says she has a mum tum and wears a babydoll for meets/clubs. I think she looks absolutely perfect with or without clothes but she feels a lot more confident being slightly covered.

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx"

Absolutely nothing you should be worrying about I Nilly have a mummy tummy and proud...skin on skin is sexy ...including mum tummy... if it bothers you though wear a nice suspender belt.... I particularly like a body stocking...

Embrace it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have the same problem xx"

Hey hun, hopefully this thread will help us out. Your pictures are amazing and you very much look like a beautiful natural woman. I never had an issue with mine until it was commented on by some young idiot but his comment has really affected my confidence in showing it xxx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I had a tum before I had kids. I know it's hard but I'm my own experience I care about it more than any man ever has. The person who said the mean things probably does to many other women on here too, so don't take it personally he's an idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the same problem xx

Hey hun, hopefully this thread will help us out. Your pictures are amazing and you very much look like a beautiful natural woman. I never had an issue with mine until it was commented on by some young idiot but his comment has really affected my confidence in showing it xxx "

Thanks darling

You have lovely photos too!

My husband loves it, and I've never had any comments from meets or hookups about it, and that's a lot of men. So I'm probably overthinking it and making it an insecurity when it doesn't need to be. It doesn't look like I'm the only one! Xx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Mum tums and muffin tops are lovely.

I would be disappointed if a lover didn't feel secure enough to be naked around me. If I didn't like the way somebody looked, I wouldn't get in that position with them in the first place.

A woman who is comfortable in her own skin is very sexy. Luke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aww guys you are being so helpful and supportive, I love our fab community xxxx

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

To any mum with a 'mum tum', you are amazing and don't ever think otherwise. For every idiot who might make a sarky comment there are 100 of us who love every bit of you. Of the pics I've looked at there isn't one that isn't drop dead gorgeous.

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Mum tums and muffin tops are lovely.

I would be disappointed if a lover didn't feel secure enough to be naked around me. If I didn't like the way somebody looked, I wouldn't get in that position with them in the first place.

A woman who is comfortable in her own skin is very sexy. Luke "

Exactly what Luke said

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea


"Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx"

There's a joker in every pack love, and he was probably uncircumcised because, only a complete dick would turn down the opportunity of possibly meeting someone who looks as fabulous as you do. You look pretty fantastic from where I'm sitting. I've always maintained that in this day and age where we have companies that specialise in exotic wear in all sizes, any woman of any age and size can look totally seductive for her chosen guy. Every intelligent person knows that the biggest erogenous zone in the human body is the brain, if you don't stimulate that nothing else is going to happen, I am sure that you have got inside the heads of half the alpha, hetro guys on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have a great body! No tummy anyway! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body stocking? I have a mum tum! I actually have a picture that shows it off completely (I can put it up if you really want - show you that people don't actually care). Confident and comfortable is what most guys like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx"

YOURE ABSOLUTELY STUNNING AS YOU ARE!!!

Don’t ever let an idiot put you down or feel insecure about how you look….they’re the ugly ones, not you!!

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

It wouldn’t bother me. Honestly.

We all have imperfections, only those made of pure marble can criticise and if they do, do you really want to be pleasuring them.

I especially like loose skin, running my fingers over it. Love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my guy friends was actually asking me about this recently. He'd hooked up with a girl who wanted to keep her bra on during sex, and while he was fine with it, he didn't really get it. He was like "I already fancied the fuck out of her. She could have had 6 tits under there and I absolutely would not have given a shit"

I feel like we definitely stress over things that men don't even care about and/or notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm the odd one out. One of the first thing I like to kiss when being intimate is a tummy or a mum tum. When spooning my hands are usually on the belly too.

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster


"Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx"

You look lovely take no notice of idiots, he's doesn't know what he missed out on x

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

You look great ignore that idiot whoever it was and be proud of your precious war scar from motherhood xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this too. I used to try and Cover up. But I’ve found most men actually prefer being naked. I think sometimes we see ourselves differently and are much more hard on ourselves. And to the guy who made you feel otherwise, he sounds like a wank! Xx

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Large tummy here x but I am a BBW x

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Men are dicks at the best of time and often worse when they are younger x go you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so much guys. My hubby loves it but I just got a little knocked by the boy who made comments on it. Think it's time to embrace my battle scars, if a guy isn't willing to accept me like that then he's not the guy for me to be sleeping with is he. Love our fab community xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame instagram and all these “influencers” etc. Fact is loads of women have mum tums, it’s part of life. If a man doesn’t like it then it’s his problem but I can assure you, more men like them than dislike them.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Girl, I hate mine with an absolute passion x I only ever play naked with my hubby for this reason x look at my pics and if you like any of my tummy hiding outfits pm me and ill tell you where I got them x mainly love honey though x x x

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

If they say cruel or nasty things to me they they are certainly not going to get the chance to play with my curves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the same problem xx

Hey hun, hopefully this thread will help us out. Your pictures are amazing and you very much look like a beautiful natural woman. I never had an issue with mine until it was commented on by some young idiot but his comment has really affected my confidence in showing it xxx "

Mum tums are natural anyone who only wants models is in the wrong place as I only prefer real people

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Maybe I'm the odd one out. One of the first thing I like to kiss when being intimate is a tummy or a mum tum. When spooning my hands are usually on the belly too. "

This is my hubby too! Took me 20 years to stand naked in front of him but now I can, still have bad days but he will always kiss and cuddle the bit I hate the most, I used to hte5rhat but now I'm like fk it I am what I am and he's the one who gets to enjoy me to my full x

. I'm loving these guys comments x we need more of you gentlemen x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a chubby belly but I like it, I'd feel more comfortable during a meet wearing a baby doll or something but that's for my benefit and not for the guys

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you guys nice to know some men are OK with it xxx"

I'm going to correct you here. And for all the ladies out there with mum tums. You'll find that some men out there love a mum tum and you'll find some men out there who don't. That's fine.

Please don't use the word man or men for those who throw insults. They're neither. Other words spring to mind.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Guys notice insecurities, and when you hide your tummy (or try to) etc, so rather than trying to appease them by hiding it, just admit that it's part of you and that it's in the majority of cases on yourself you are trying to make feel better."

We do notice but that’s not a bad thing, it can even be quite endearing.

You can’t just solve body confidence by some random on a forum saying get over it , it’s more complex and often longer journey of introspection and slowly building confidence .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Girl, I hate mine with an absolute passion x I only ever play naked with my hubby for this reason x look at my pics and if you like any of my tummy hiding outfits pm me and ill tell you where I got them x mainly love honey though x x x "

Thank you hun, I love your pictures you're stunning. I love the red outfit from the 1st December, I mainly shop at love honey too (don't forget to use your fab discount ??) xxx

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Thank you so much guys. My hubby loves it but I just got a little knocked by the boy who made comments on it. Think it's time to embrace my battle scars, if a guy isn't willing to accept me like that then he's not the guy for me to be sleeping with is he. Love our fab community xxx"

You just unwittingly hit the nail on the head when you said "boy". Nobody is perfect and theres no perfect body, our imperfections are what make us uniquely perfect.

So if you got a bump on your nose or a lump on your toes

Do not despair

Be like the Raggy Dolls, and say I just don't care.

Mr Hayes.

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By *ock69erMan
over a year ago

Middle o’ Fife


"Thank you guys nice to know some men are OK with it xxx"

...

It's really not a question of being OK with it, because there's nothing wrong with it in the first place. You look lovely... All of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum Tums Are awesome they beautiful in ever way shape and forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like women of all shapes and sizes, would I belittle a part of her ? Definitely not, if I'm into her I'm into the whole lot.

That waste of space young lad should learn some respect, i hope you told him what you thought and got him out of your life for good.

Women and men have insecurities about our bodies its natural and it's tough to here when someone says something nasty.

Be proud of your body OP a lot of people would be so happy to be in your company

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Thank you so much guys. My hubby loves it but I just got a little knocked by the boy who made comments on it. Think it's time to embrace my battle scars, if a guy isn't willing to accept me like that then he's not the guy for me to be sleeping with is he. Love our fab community xxx"

You look amazing as OP, for every bad comment I'm sure you get plenty of nice ones. Know it's hard by why listen to the shitty ones more? They aren't worth it x

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Girl, I hate mine with an absolute passion x I only ever play naked with my hubby for this reason x look at my pics and if you like any of my tummy hiding outfits pm me and ill tell you where I got them x mainly love honey though x x x

Thank you hun, I love your pictures you're stunning. I love the red outfit from the 1st December, I mainly shop at love honey too (don't forget to use your fab discount ??) xxx"

Aw thank you so much that one was from Anne summers x x deffo got to get the fa discount on love honey for sure!! Makes me spend more tho hahaha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of interest OP, did the prick that commented have the body of a bronzed adonis and a 10" cock?? Probably not eh!! You look tremendous and if someone has the balls to say something bad about your body to you, he should have the balls to take a belting from you for his trouble!! Mental.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Girl, I hate mine with an absolute passion x I only ever play naked with my hubby for this reason x look at my pics and if you like any of my tummy hiding outfits pm me and ill tell you where I got them x mainly love honey though x x x

Thank you hun, I love your pictures you're stunning. I love the red outfit from the 1st December, I mainly shop at love honey too (don't forget to use your fab discount ??) xxx

Aw thank you so much that one was from Anne summers x x deffo got to get the fa discount on love honey for sure!! Makes me spend more tho hahaha x "

You get 16% off means we can buy more. You will find a link on the bottom of your homepage, click on that then start filling your basket and it will be added at the end xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just out of interest OP, did the prick that commented have the body of a bronzed adonis and a 10" cock?? Probably not eh!! You look tremendous and if someone has the balls to say something bad about your body to you, he should have the balls to take a belting from you for his trouble!! Mental."

Haha made me giggle, thank you. He got a very stern telling off from my hubby and a personal fuck off from me, still hurt though !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure if many more comments will be made on this thread so just wanted to say you guys have given me the pick me up I just needed. Thank you so much ladies and gents you truly are a special bunch. Much love, S&J xxxx

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Can’t beat a mum tum in my eyes. You all look wonderful

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Mr KC loves my jelly belly. He holds it, strokes it, squishes it. I hate it but it obviously isn't an issue for him and it wasn't an issue for anyone who met me (socially) for the first time at weekend. Embrace who you are and if you can, try not to change your behaviour or yourself for others. If they don't like YOU, then they don't deserve your time of day.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Large tummy here x but I am a BBW x"

Me too. I hate it. T doesn’t appear to notice it

J x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mr KC loves my jelly belly. He holds it, strokes it, squishes it. I hate it but it obviously isn't an issue for him and it wasn't an issue for anyone who met me (socially) for the first time at weekend. Embrace who you are and if you can, try not to change your behaviour or yourself for others. If they don't like YOU, then they don't deserve your time of day."

Thank you kinky couple, your are absolutely correct xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have gorgeous curves lovetoplay and one of the peachiest arses on fab! Don’t listen to what anyone else tells you.

I never got to send you that face pic too! My phone died and you’d vanished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like when they make a little fuss over it.. its reassuring.. on the journey to burying their face between my thighs.. marking my tummy with tender kisses.. running their fingers over it..

I run. I exercise. It's still there. I still will continue but I am well aware it might never disappear and I don't plan to have any plastic surgeries so I might just accept it and embrace it for what it is. A proof I grew some humans.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have gorgeous curves lovetoplay and one of the peachiest arses on fab! Don’t listen to what anyone else tells you.

I never got to send you that face pic too! My phone died and you’d vanished "

I'm here babe, message me

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I have a mum tum. I go to the gym 4 times a week but no matter what I do it makes no difference to my tummy. I suppose I could give up the wine and crisps and that would help but I enjoy them too much

I usually wear a basque or something similar to cover it but actually men don’t seem bothered. When I look at other women with mum tums it doesn’t put me off either and I find them quite sexy. It’s just different when I look at myself.

Kx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Please don't think you have to cover it. Nowt wrong with mum tum, the feel lovely to touch too.

Ignore what that guy said. Most men wouldn't have an issue with it.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

How about a nice blue lace chemises?

I've just seen a lovely one on amazon.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx"

Guys have just as many insecurities as women

If we got on with a person socially then that means more than a perfect figure to us

And by the way nothing wrong with the way you are xx

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Body confidence is a thing a lot of people suffer from, and it’s rarely overcome by the opinions of others

If you want to cover up a part of you just make sure its because you want to and not because you fear what others may think. Hopefully you will be able to just let go and empower yourself.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I have one but and I do feel insecure about it but honestly no man iv ever slept with has seemed to be bothered in the slitest about it

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm too busy browsing through breasts to be bothered a out tummy. Don't worry about them ladies

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’ve got a tum that practically rests on my knees but I have to say no man has ever recoiled in horror at it yes you can dress up to hide it but I’ve found that most guys want to feel the softness and the squidge of it and it probably bothers you more than it does them

Embrace your lumps n bumps because short of paying out thousands for surgery we are kinda stuck with them

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I'm too busy browsing through breasts to be bothered a out tummy. Don't worry about them ladies "

I do think my boobs are big enough to hide my belly a bit

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I'm too busy browsing through breasts to be bothered a out tummy. Don't worry about them ladies

I do think my boobs are big enough to hide my belly a bit "
you have great boobs

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

OP I’ve got one of those, but no kids to show for it

And like everyone else, years ago I would cover it, but I’ve got to a point where I’m so bloody tired of worrying what people think. And I can honestly say, sex has been so much better the more I’ve accepted my body, and I’ve noticed a difference in meets too, they love the confidence.

Oddly I’m more insecure when wearing clothes.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

P.s I think you look gorgeous! And that young lad probably only ever wanked into his Maxim magazine.

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Thank you so much guys. My hubby loves it but I just got a little knocked by the boy who made comments on it. Think it's time to embrace my battle scars, if a guy isn't willing to accept me like that then he's not the guy for me to be sleeping with is he. Love our fab community xxx"

You said it all there 'boy' clearly no appreciation of quality? I love rubbing tummies with a lady on a meet so to me it's a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, some men actually do prefer natural women with “mum tums” over perfect models

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"P.s I think you look gorgeous! And that young lad probably only ever wanked into his Maxim magazine. "

Haha made me giggle hun and you're probably correct xxx

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I met a lady once who wore a corset, I'd much have preferred her to be comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of those guys that actually love mum bods x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a lady once who wore a corset, I'd much have preferred her to be comfortable "

Thanks Liam

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A bodysuit as they clip open at the crotch, Anne summers has some that zip from the bust to the bum and vice versa, high waisted crotchless pants. I used to absolutely hate my tummy, but now I don’t care as much and just roll with it, no pun intended.

I hope you learn to love your tum too

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Real women av real bodies .dont hide ur curves x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Basques are good I never let my tum be bare on meets x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I hate mine...bodystockings are good or a corset x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a mum tum due to a cz scar..i am very conscious of it but i tend to wear a lot of beautiful corsets. Wearing them gives me some confidence..

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Mum tums are great 4 blowing raspberries on lol ..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my guy friends was actually asking me about this recently. He'd hooked up with a girl who wanted to keep her bra on during sex, and while he was fine with it, he didn't really get it. He was like "I already fancied the fuck out of her. She could have had 6 tits under there and I absolutely would not have given a shit"

I feel like we definitely stress over things that men don't even care about and/or notice "

So true!

I'm very lucky to have a friend just like that.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Mum tums are great 4 blowing raspberries on lol ..x "

I love this!! Hubby does it in front of the kids and they howl with laughter, also makes me happy that my daughter sees how much he loves what social media perceive as "ugly" raising daughters is hard in this day and age x sons too tbf x

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Mum tums are great 4 blowing raspberries on lol ..x

I love this!! Hubby does it in front of the kids and they howl with laughter, also makes me happy that my daughter sees how much he loves what social media perceive as "ugly" raising daughters is hard in this day and age x sons too tbf x "

Wonderfully put x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look up basques on Lovehoney. They have loads to choose from. Can pull down the top if you want your boobs out. Bit of a frilly skirt on some in case you're bothered about your hips. Or get a wide suspender belt under it.

Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Wear what makes you feel good and you will have a lot more fun than you would worrying about how you look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my tummy too so I always feel better covering it.

Basques and bodies, waspies, suspender belts, underbust corsets all make me feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a big mum tum, I hate it and am very aware. But funny enough when I’m naked on a meet I don’t notice it, and I’ve never had a nasty comment x

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I'm too busy browsing through breasts to be bothered a out tummy. Don't worry about them ladies

I do think my boobs are big enough to hide my belly a bit you have great boobs"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx"

You look great! I can recommend a bodystocking, it's my go to when I want to cover up and keep on too. My little ones only a few weeks old but the mum tum this time around has me a little self conscious.

Mrs

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I wear a chemise to enclose my mum tum. Once we are in a situation that he is getting to see it, all thoughts of my tum have thoroughly disappeared

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire


"I have a big mum tum, I hate it and am very aware. But funny enough when I’m naked on a meet I don’t notice it, and I’ve never had a nasty comment x "

Simply stunning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You grew a human life, you birthed a human life, you nourished a human life, and you’re raising a human life! This is what you should remember… you achieved far more in 9 months than that silly lad will do in his life!

Love your body, real men will see you as beautiful regardless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look amazing on your pics and you shouldn't be at all worried (i'm atleast double your size).

I rarely ever go naked, even for Mr P. If we're seeing someone else I essentially wear something that covers most of me up and supports everything with crotchless knickers that way I don't have to take anything off I feel so much more confident dressed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

I've had a mum tum for 38 years! Hubby loves it, I don't. But in the throws of passion either between ourselves, or with "guests", self awareness of it seems to diminish and good times ensue.

Love to you all with mum tums, you are all awesomely sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You are all blowing me away with these responses, I honeslty thought this would be a thread where no one answered - how wrong I was, thank you toneach and every one of you, you've made my mum tum feel accepted

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Mum tums are lovely and need to be kissed and adored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are the most beautiful around

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By *inklersMan
over a year ago

norwich

Mums are sexy as hell, no matter what their tummy’s look like, hence the MILF term.

You’re stunning and shouldn’t worry about hurtful comments from an insensitive and immature youngster.

I’ve seen you in a couple of sexy outfits but sure you would look as good if not better out of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all different and all beautiful in our own way. Love your bodies people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" You grew a human life, you birthed a human life, you nourished a human life, and you’re raising a human life! This is what you should remember… you achieved far more in 9 months than that silly lad will do in his life!

Love your body, real men will see you as beautiful regardless! "

100% this!

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Love the skin your in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx"

Bloody love a mum yum, me. Yours is wonderful. Bloody love your mum bum too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx

Bloody love a mum yum, me. Yours is wonderful. Bloody love your mum bum too! "

I think I’ve got the right thread.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm very lucky my dom doesn't mind the mum tum - or the spotty ass - heck he'll even squeeze the little buggers

I'm sure your mum tum will actually prove to be rather a turn on - after all it shows just how amazing you are xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares.....some people like it some dont,I see plenty of profiles saying no fatties and I dont give a hoot...if someone doesn't want to play with you because of your "tum" so what? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have massively let myself go to the point I was getting a complex. I dont judge, love curves and normal bodies and to be honest prefer my dad bod to the cut body I had ass semi-pro athlete. Curves are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very conscious but learning to love myself and gain confidence.

Was told to look in the mirror and something positive about me once a day. Started from avoiding mirrors that were full length so had hand held ones for my face to now standing naked full length and seeing things I like. Eg bum looks good in that thong. Boobs look perky in that bra.

You look amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I’m sorry that you had such a nasty message. Take no notice of that idiot, clearly too immature and lacks basic respect.

A real man wouldn’t see anything but a beautiful lady! You look amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very conscious but learning to love myself and gain confidence.

Was told to look in the mirror and something positive about me once a day. Started from avoiding mirrors that were full length so had hand held ones for my face to now standing naked full length and seeing things I like. Eg bum looks good in that thong. Boobs look perky in that bra.

You look amazing "

Curves curves and more curves. Beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh I like this thread!

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By *ingle w3t femaleWoman
over a year ago

yorkshire

I hate my mum tum, like you I just wear something I feel confident in and not looking like a tied up piece of brisket !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate my mum tum, like you I just wear something I feel confident in and not looking like a tied up piece of brisket ! "

You look great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladie, I have a mum tum as some of us lovely ladies do on here but im always nervous to show it during a meet due to feeling that it will be a massive turn off. This is partly due to the fact I once had a pretty nasty comment on it from a young guy years ago.

I actually think a mum tum on a lady is very sexy.

So I'm looking for outfits that cover it whilst also giving full access and I'm struggling.

Any advice?

Thanks

S xxx"

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Sorry to be late to the party. I love tums! And only get really excited when in full body contact.

As a general rule as long as your tits enter the room before your tum it's all good?

Hang in there girls it's all good!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Mum tums are just a fact of life..if you're lucky enough to bring children into this world embrace your tum with pride

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