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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, what's the things you miss if ya single.

For me its, chats, laughs, grabbing a cuddle all the time(especially when ya just woke up, morning cuddles).

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Waking up beside someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone else making the first cuppa of the morning

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Holding a ladder and not seeing knickers.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Cuddles mostly especially after a hard day x

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By *VDPMan
over a year ago

Nottingham City Centre

I'd love to have company and do things together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making plans together, impromptu cuddles, impromptu sex sessions, cooking for someone

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I am single and have no Intention of changing that and I get to do all the luvvy dovey stuff on a part time basis with various people

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

A crafty wank. None of my wanks are now crafty or sneaky.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I can get most relationshippy stuff from either my friends (love, support and cuddles), FWB (sex) or people I pay (handyman stuff, having things fixed).

The only thing I can't find outside a relationship is the intimacy of being driven home in the dark and talking shite while we're cocooned in the safe space of the car. It's such a lovely thing and it's only available in an established relationship once walls have come down.

I do miss it. Not enough to want to be in a relationship though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty word scrabble, and pulling the hairs I can't reach out of the moles on my back.. That's it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Removing the hair blocking the shower drain….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone bringing me coffee in bed and sharing the cooking.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

not alot thb, love being single, have a wonderfull gf and she lives away, suits me fine, get to do my own thing when i like.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I get all my sexual, physical , practical , emotional needs met being single, without the need for a conventional relationship, but it’s the soulmate part I miss, the person who really knows you and you can talk about absolutely anything and you have a loyalty so string that means you would do literally anything for each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss being someone special to someone I adore.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I haven't been single for a very, very long time. I'm pretty sure I'd miss just having someone there, a presence also being able to say "do you think I'm doing the right thing?"and having someone agree or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm unwell I give in to a weak thought of needing someone around.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Dirty word scrabble, and pulling the hairs I can't reach out of the moles on my back.. That's it.."

Oh I so volunteer for hair plucking duties, especially if they're ingrowing. I'm here poised and ready with a variety of tweezers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peace and quiet

Bed to myself

I would be lost without him xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone bringing me coffee in bed and sharing the cooking. "

I miss making someone coffee!! And as someone else said the waking up next to someone, cuddles and general intimacy

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Watching horror movies, I can’t do it alone!

and cuddling/ random foot rubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not alot thb, love being single, have a wonderfull gf and she lives away, suits me fine, get to do my own thing when i like."

Um. How are you single?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Someone to scratch the places I can't reach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss the morning horn which was well satisfied when she was around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being someones rock. Now I'm just my rock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spooning, having a +1 for social gatherings and having someone else to cook for. Plus the obvious ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles mostly especially after a hard day x"

^ This one right here

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

well not single but live alone if that clears it up for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have said cuddles and affection, but think when you've been single long enough you move past that and become content with what you have.

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

Someone to cook for and generally make an effort around

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Someone to scratch the places I can't reach "

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Snuggles.

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By *herubchubWoman
over a year ago

Nr the sea

The intimacy, the best friend feeling, chit chats about nothing much, laughing until you’re crying together over something silly, having someone to call on a tough day and hugs.

So much more…but that’s a start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss the hugs and contact and of course waking up with someone to have that first morning kiss. This time of the year is very difficult especially being single, there's no one to share it with. It's very lonely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making plans together, impromptu cuddles, impromptu sex sessions, cooking for someone "

^ this

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"So, what's the things you miss if ya single.

For me its, chats, laughs, grabbing a cuddle all the time(especially when ya just woke up, morning cuddles). "

Being able to call them a twat and blame them for my mistakes!

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Sharing... no, wait ... play- fighting for the last piece of cake

(or delete as applicable biscuit/sweets/crisps etc)

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Tbh, I get cuddles/sex from friends & Fwb; validation on here, when I'm feeling low; love & support from a small group of people, whenever I need it.

So I guess the only thing I miss is having holiday/weekend away partner. Not the same when you're single, though I do still do it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blaming someone else for breakin wind..

having spontaneous jiggy jiggy

someone to walk the dog when its raining..

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm not single, but may as well be. We've had separate bedrooms for years, really miss naked cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can cook for me any time kinky….

I’m great if you need a very big spoon too!

And I guess I could help with the obvious if you asked nicely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss the hugs and contact and of course waking up with someone to have that first morning kiss. This time of the year is very difficult especially being single, there's no one to share it with. It's very lonely x"

^awwwww

Relating to this one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A huge big I love you hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having someone else cook. Having to cook every meal is tiring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone to talk to of an evening

Cuddles on the couch

Someone who just adores you for being you, I miss being loved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1)Morning sex, after having spent the night cwtched up together.

2)Allowing myself to feel vulnerable...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone to talk to of an evening

Cuddles on the couch

Someone who just adores you for being you, I miss being loved "

This one ^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Company. Chatting to someone after a long day and the feeling that someone gets me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blaming someone else for breakin wind..

having spontaneous jiggy jiggy

someone to walk the dog when its raining.. "

Isn't it always raining in Glasgow?

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Someone else to inflict the Dutch oven on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spending an hour trying to find something we both want to watch, then saying "fuck it, let's just go to bed!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live alone with my kids, and have learnt to turn my hand to things that can go wrong! So for example, I recently tinkered with my boiler and got it working again (I can already hear in my head how that sounds, so no wise cracks ) but what I would really love is someone very capable in these things, who can say to me ‘let me worry about that - you go and have a cuppa while I fix it’.

So basically, I miss being able to share the load. It can be wearying carrying it on your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Raw sex, one of the only reasons I want a boyfriend so I can have unprotected sex with a tested safe person all the time.

So yeah, I miss being cum filled haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Raw sex, one of the only reasons I want a boyfriend so I can have unprotected sex with a tested safe person all the time.

So yeah, I miss being cum filled haha"

Ok.. I volunteer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live alone with my kids, and have learnt to turn my hand to things that can go wrong! So for example, I recently tinkered with my boiler and got it working again (I can already hear in my head how that sounds, so no wise cracks ) but what I would really love is someone very capable in these things, who can say to me ‘let me worry about that - you go and have a cuppa while I fix it’.

So basically, I miss being able to share the load. It can be wearying carrying it on your own."

It really is wearying.

Although, when I think about it , I did most of everything myself anyway, but at least I had someone to moan at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Raw sex, one of the only reasons I want a boyfriend so I can have unprotected sex with a tested safe person all the time.

So yeah, I miss being cum filled haha

Ok.. I volunteer! "

submit your CV to my inbox

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Definitely kisses, cuddles and touch. It's not the same from friends and family, or the cats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, I’m a c**t!

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I am Just finding out been 25 years since I was single. It's hard to get use to.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Those mornings you wake up and there is someone laying next to you sleeping peacefully that you're snuggling up to and you realised that you're not alone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those mornings you wake up and there is someone laying next to you sleeping peacefully that you're snuggling up to and you realised that you're not alone.. "

Yeah I miss that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’ll do most things on my own, but it’s much nicer eating a good meal with a decent wine with a lover.

Plus when you have a fucking shitty day at work like today, to unload and then get a hug is worth it’s weight in gold.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

Holding hands ,cuddles ,that last kiss before you fall of to sleep at night, and that feeling of being loved and loving back that’s so comforting I do miss being in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone to face the world with me.

I'm quite capable and very independent but after almost 14 years alone, I just want someone who will be by my side and cheer me on

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By *awBagsMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

Nice having someone to chat about your day with, ask an opinion and share the non-sexual intimate times with...but I enjoy being single, would be happy having my partner live next door so we can do sleepovers or have our own space when the time is needed.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Not a great deal, loving being being single as I feel my needs are all being met. Plenty of fruitful NSA friendships where we click in and out of the bedroom along with plenty of affection

What’s not to love about that, maybe that’ll change over time but not anytime soon

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Cuddles, someone to share the jobs with, laughing with someone

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"Cuddles, someone to share the jobs with, laughing with someone "

I'll put the bins out. Would probably dance my way down the drive at this rate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realising your phone has been keeping you company the last few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles, someone to share the jobs with, laughing with someone

I'll put the bins out. Would probably dance my way down the drive at this rate lol"

Please take my bins out!

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Just a smile

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Companionship,cuddles ,laughs,sexy time,someone to watch darts with

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands


"Cuddles, someone to share the jobs with, laughing with someone

I'll put the bins out. Would probably dance my way down the drive at this rate lol"

I’d rather you cooked dinner to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm seems to be the cuddles, and talking part. Thanks for replying peeps. Hope ya all find what ya looking for one day .

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Cuddles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss kissing and cuddling love a nice woman to be with and lots of kisses and cuddles

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By *herubchubWoman
over a year ago

Nr the sea

Reading these have made me all emotional!

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Defo falling asleep across someone

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