FabSwingers.com forum: The vanishing

By *ranimallxl5 OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester

In the past few months three ladies that I've been chatting to have suddenly removed their profile or just vanished without a word of warning. No blocking just vamooshed

Am I cursed, or is this usual

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

your cursed

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

No mate. It's the norm I've found.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People leave. I doubt you're cursed.

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By *VDPMan
over a year ago

Nottingham City Centre

People are one of the most unreliable beings you will come across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you exchange face pics with them before they vanished?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is unfortunately..

There is a life outside of fab and people move on

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We're doomed I say, doomed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m scared to even reply on this thread just in case it is you OP

Maybe you are the epicentre of the fab triangle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to get dramatic lol they probably just left the site for whatever reason.

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By *ranimallxl5 OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Would you not just say oh by the way I need to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you not just say oh by the way I need to leave "

First day on the Internet?

Move on. Probably done you a favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you not just say oh by the way I need to leave "

I think depends how well you knew each other. But generally on this site: why would they? No one is owed an explanation why someone wants to leave this place.

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It's normal.

Don't worry, they'll be back. No one ever gets away from Fab!

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By *ranimallxl5 OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester

"Would you not just say oh by the way I need to leave

First day on the Internet?

Move on. Probably done you a favour. "

You're a nice person :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's normal.

Don't worry, they'll be back. No one ever gets away from Fab!"

That would explain why I've returned 3 times already

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

It happens...plenty more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally normal.

I’m like a magician, I make em all vanish

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

More than likely they were men.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"your cursed"

You’re*

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By *ranimallxl5 OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester

"your cursed

You’re*"

Haha

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Plenty more fish in the sea

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Don't be sad that they vanished; be happy that you managed to speak to a woman on Fab!

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"your cursed

You’re*

Haha"

Had to do it. We might not be meeting single guys these days but you’ve always been a super decent guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’d been chatting with someone for a while, and then had to leave the site for whatever reason, I’d like to think I’d say cheerio and wish that person well. It’s not hard to do.

Can understand that might be overwhelming if they were chatting to loads of people though.

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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago

Fife/ Newcastle

If I were you I'd head down to the local Chapel first thing in the morning and for an emergency exorcism

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By *ranimallxl5 OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester

"If I’d been chatting with someone for a while, and then had to leave the site for whatever reason, I’d like to think I’d say cheerio and wish that person well. It’s not hard to do.

Can understand that might be overwhelming if they were chatting to loads of people though."

Maybe or just update their status.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Cest la vie

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Nah, you’re definitely cursed.

In my case it’s just suddenly ghosted but they are still there.

There are also ‘professionals’ who of course talk to you, until fab identifies them and removes them.

Like one of my friends was a said ‘working girl’ although we knew each other anyway. She kept getting removed to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you exchange face pics with them before they vanished?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the past few months three ladies that I've been chatting to have suddenly removed their profile or just vanished without a word of warning. No blocking just vamooshed

Am I cursed, or is this usual"

There’s a strong possibility that their female partner found out what they were up to fella , in other words a male pretending to be female ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be in prison

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Not had any leave the site but people just stop talking to me all the time.

Don’t worry about it, just make new connections and enjoy it.

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