FabSwingers.com forum: How invested in the “lifestyle” are you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How big is swinging in your life?

It seems to me from browsing the forums and Fab as a whole there’s section of people that swinging / the lifestyle is their life, and others that drop in on rare occasions and everything in between.

So where are you?

Does your life centre itself around the scene? Are you off to a swingers club every weekend? Do you take all your holidays in swing resorts like Cap D’Age? Do you travel across the country to attend all the Fab socials? As soon as the sun comes out are you planning your trips to the nudey beaches?

Maybe you’re at the other end of the spectrum and really can’t be arsed with it at all other than a quick browse on Fab to look at some nice cock or fanny pics?

Or maybe (where I expect the majority to attest to) you see it as a little naughty / pleasant part of your life that supplements the full and wholesome and healthy lifestyle you live?

Can swinging be addictive? I think it go that way for me for a while sometime around 2018, meeting far too regularly, now I don’t meet at all.

What about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely uninvested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How big is swinging in your life?

So where are you?

Maybe you’re at the other end of the spectrum and really can’t be arsed with it at all other than a quick browse on Fab to look at some nice cock or fanny pics?

Or maybe (where I expect the majority to attest to) you see it as a little naughty / pleasant part of your life that supplements the full and wholesome and healthy lifestyle you live?

Can swinging be addictive? I think it go that way for me for a while sometime around 2018, meeting far too regularly, now I don’t meet at all.

What about you? "

Drop in cause shit and moonwalk back out the way I came

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uninvested. I steer clear of those who take it so seriously. For me it's a laugh and a shag every now and again. There are more important things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O don’t know yet, it’s fun currently talking to you all but some take it very serious.

Sex is sexy, and talking to sexy people about sex keeps me feeling…sexy.

But I don’t want things to be just about that, and my real life and other things is more important to me than this.

Swinging would be just another thing I enjoy in life, but not everything.

Although, if and when I do swing I would probably be the best swinger in the world. *borrowed from a popular lager company.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

About 4 years ago we'd go to clubs probably 6 or 7 times a year, then close family member got ill and passed away. Then covid happened and now k has had to have surgery on her back, so we haven't got back into it.

We've never really been invested on here as we don't really take the site too seriously due to still being relatively nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, it's never been more than an occasional meet, currently I (fem) have no interest in meeting others, we're here for the forums and the few people we chat regularly to.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Quite invested but I am a party girl. If I wasn't out socialising with fabbers it would be with my real life mates, I learned very early on that life is for living and that can be taken away very quickly.

Sex clubs maybe 3/4 times a year, social weekend away once a month and I see my playmates on a weekly basis

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m just here for the tightey whiteys and the boings

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never been immersed in the scene. Never been to a club due partly to lack of interest and partly because of the nature of the club scene over here.

In five years on the site I've been to one MnG and one party and just 7 play meets so I'm not exactly prolific.

That's all by choice though and I'm more than happy with the pace.

I do often wonder how some people are able to function IRL based simply on the amount of time they spend in the forums.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm not massively invested in it .I pop in and out and mostly use the forum's.

I enjoy mngs but haven't been to one in ages. Hopefully that will change next year.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I love the humour here - can come in here irritated by something and a few threads in you are smiling normally. I take nothing seriously especially swinging- apart from meeting- if people are willing to give up their precious time to meet you - you have to respect that. I’d be lying if i said I don’t enjoy perving some of the incredible looking women here - but it’s not the main reason.

Its a small part of my life so if any ladies would like to be involved with my small part….

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Exploring eroticism, with the right people! Is an extension of my social life, and has a habit of developing into some very good friendships with those who don't take life outside of real world too seriously.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

3rd option for me! My fun little sideline in my otherwise busy life!x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's definitely not a major thing for us. We dip into the scene occasionally when we're in the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is addictive. Reclaim sex is amazing.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I socialise in the forum and cam rooms a lot. Obviously being a single man, swinging in real life is not a big part of my life!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that over time it becomes a bigger part of life.

For some it’s just a tiny part to dip into, for others; it builds into their social network, friends and significant relationships.

There’s no right or wrong way, no judgement either way. It’s specific to the person and their situation.

For me, my closest friends are all swingers and my past two LTR’s have been with swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d be lying if i said I don’t enjoy perving some of the incredible looking women here, especially Appletree - but it’s not the main reason. "

The cheek and fibber. That's the only reason you're here - to perv

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"How big is swinging in your life?

So where are you?

Maybe you’re at the other end of the spectrum and really can’t be arsed with it at all other than a quick browse on Fab to look at some nice cock or fanny pics?

Or maybe (where I expect the majority to attest to) you see it as a little naughty / pleasant part of your life that supplements the full and wholesome and healthy lifestyle you live?

Can swinging be addictive? I think it go that way for me for a while sometime around 2018, meeting far too regularly, now I don’t meet at all.

What about you? "

I go to swinging clubs (normally) twice a week (Fridays and Saturdays) …. It’s just fun! I’m single and have play partners.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Where would you say you are OP? Has Fab been a part of your life for a long time or are you more of a sporadic member?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not invested in the classic swinging lifestyle x I’ve mainly used this site for the forum and to have a hot time with some boys on here x

But it isn’t swinging so, I don’t know x

I don’t consider myself a swinger

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

0.2%

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm just here for laughs.

If I find a lady to have good times with then that's a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Where would you say you are OP? Has Fab been a part of your life for a long time or are you more of a sporadic member? "

Ah good question young Meli, I’d say I had my peak in 2017/18, it all got a bit crazy and addictive around then and I was meeting far too regularly than was healthy at one point and probably got a bit too close to one person as well.

So I left the site, gave my head a bit of a wobble, and have popped back on now and then over the years but only sporadically as I think I’m well and truly over my mid-life crisis and I soon get bored of it.

However it’s a nice safe space for my TV lifestyle and DaniDeLuxe to really be herself so I think I’m here to stay for a bit!

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

We don’t bother much thesedays as lost interest ages ago due to attitudes

Love chatting in the forum and getting to know people with a possible view to meeting but not bothered either way

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barely... I'm using the forums more these days than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really at all. I've stopped looking for now as I'm more than happy with the people in my life. I've been to a club and may go again at some point but it isn't something that would become a regular part of my social life. I stay on fab because of friends I've made on here and I enjoy the forums sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero investment. What are we here for again?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Drop in and out. We Will occasionally look for a meet such as this coming Weekend but these days not putting in a lot of effort to make one happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live it when I can. On the forums daily.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve been to clubs…some local, some not. We’ve been to socials, a party and met privately.

We certainly aren’t hardened swingers.

We are more opportunistic - if the mood takes us we’ll look to do something.

It doesn’t define us…we have enough between us to not need to crave anything more…it’s just fun if/when it does.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm here for fucks and giggles.

So far both goals have been amply met

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We like to go to a club at least once or twice a month , we are really enjoying this part of our lives as we are fairly new to it ... whether we get deeper in or not we shall have to see. We love vanilla nights out as well , its not all about swinging

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