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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. A verified lady connected with me today. We cgatted shared pix and became friends. Then she said she would like to meet tonight at my place. I offered directions but before I sent them, 2 mins later her profile disappeared *may have blocked). Now all messages wiped. Is this weird or worrying behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. A verified lady connected with me today. We cgatted shared pix and became friends. Then she said she would like to meet tonight at my place. I offered directions but before I sent them, 2 mins later her profile disappeared *may have blocked). Now all messages wiped. Is this weird or worrying behaviour"

I’d be worried

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

It happens, move onto the next.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd be suspicious op

I don't think there's too many women who would do a same day meet at a strangers home.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


" Is this weird or worrying behaviour"

Neither, fairly standard behaviour if you ask me. Verifications are not a fool proof way to determine if someone is real or not.

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Could be a wind-up, or more worryingly a security risk. What info did you give? Just be careful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a pic. Nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it sounds too good to be true .......

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If all her messages have disappeared it means she's deleted her profile.

Also verifying someone you haven't met or at least cammed with is against site rules.

I wouldn't worry too much you probably weren't chatting to a woman.

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By *arkSuitedBootedMan
over a year ago

Nottingham City Centre

you got cat-fished bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If all her messages have disappeared it means she's deleted her profile.

Also verifying someone you haven't met or at least cammed with is against site rules.

I wouldn't worry too much you probably weren't chatting to a woman."

Thanks. I just exchanged pic nothing else.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If all her messages have disappeared it means she's deleted her profile.

Also verifying someone you haven't met or at least cammed with is against site rules.

I wouldn't worry too much you probably weren't chatting to a woman.

Thanks. I just exchanged pic nothing else. "

Ok. Friendly word of warning, don't verify people you haven't met. Apart from anything else you're giving other users the impression that someone is genuine when you have no idea if they are and it is (as I said) against site rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If all her messages have disappeared it means she's deleted her profile.

Also verifying someone you haven't met or at least cammed with is against site rules.

No I didn't verify her. She gad four vers from what looks like legit members.

I wouldn't worry too much you probably weren't chatting to a woman.

Thanks. I just exchanged pic nothing else.

Ok. Friendly word of warning, don't verify people you haven't met. Apart from anything else you're giving other users the impression that someone is genuine when you have no idea if they are and it is (as I said) against site rules."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If all her messages have disappeared it means she's deleted her profile.

Also verifying someone you haven't met or at least cammed with is against site rules.

No I didn't verify her. She gad four vers from what looks like legit members.

I wouldn't worry too much you probably weren't chatting to a woman.

Thanks. I just exchanged pic nothing else.

Ok. Friendly word of warning, don't verify people you haven't met. Apart from anything else you're giving other users the impression that someone is genuine when you have no idea if they are and it is (as I said) against site rules."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No. I didn't verify her. She had vers from what looked legit profiles though

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Maybe she left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why?"

You scared her off.

Did you mention you like Coldplay?

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By *hiregirl76Woman
over a year ago

Scotland


"If all her messages have disappeared it means she's deleted her profile.

Also verifying someone you haven't met or at least cammed with is against site rules.

No I didn't verify her. She gad four vers from what looks like legit members.

I wouldn't worry too much you probably weren't chatting to a woman.

Thanks. I just exchanged pic nothing else.

Ok. Friendly word of warning, don't verify people you haven't met. Apart from anything else you're giving other users the impression that someone is genuine when you have no idea if they are and it is (as I said) against site rules."

The way i read the OP's post he was CHATTING to a verified lady. I can't see where he said HE verified her. Apologies if i've read it wrong x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No. I didn't verify her. She had vers from what looked legit profiles though"

Yes, sorry I misread your op blame it on old age and multi tasking .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If all her messages have disappeared it means she's deleted her profile.

Also verifying someone you haven't met or at least cammed with is against site rules.

No I didn't verify her. She gad four vers from what looks like legit members.

I wouldn't worry too much you probably weren't chatting to a woman.

Thanks. I just exchanged pic nothing else.

Ok. Friendly word of warning, don't verify people you haven't met. Apart from anything else you're giving other users the impression that someone is genuine when you have no idea if they are and it is (as I said) against site rules.

The way i read the OP's post he was CHATTING to a verified lady. I can't see where he said HE verified her. Apologies if i've read it wrong x"

No you haven't it's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she knew you and decided to block, or it was actually a man posing as a woman, or they had several other irons in the fire.. Or they were just bored /catfishing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe she left "
id say youre right but she seemed not to be a flakey newbie.. anyway

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

just move on and dont dwell on it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Maybe she left id say youre right but she seemed not to be a flakey newbie.. anyway"

Dont dwell on it xx

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

He had a wank, he was done, you were no longer required.

Winston.

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