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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it common for people (any gender) to like people significantly older or younger than themselves? I'm 31 and have a thing for women in their 50s and 60s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. We all have preference and age is no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is only a number if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like women my own age and younger too, it's just that older women really do something different for me sexually, I can't quite put my finger on it. Told my mate this the other day and he said I'm weird lol

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Is it common for people (any gender) to like people significantly older or younger than themselves? I'm 31 and have a thing for women in their 50s and 60s. "

Your not alone alot prefer older women going on my inbox! People differ in their liking for older or younger but it's certainly not just a number imo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not sure what you mean by it not just being a number? For lasting relationships or meet ups on fab? For instance I would much prefer you instead of some of the famous 18yo pornstars online. My mate says there's something wrong with me because of it but tbh I don't care!

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

If you're looking for experience it's got to be a little older. Women in their 40s and 50s are so liberated? However the blank canvas of a 30 something has great appeal to mould to your will? Of course, nearly any lady here is younger than me anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mould to your will? Idk about that buddy Seems a bit sinister unless they're into that specifically? It's not like 30 year old women are virgins with no life experience.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Age isn't just a number, it's a fact. You may not act as a stereotypical 20, 40 or 60 year old but you cannot dispute your actual age.

Some people may reach a certain age having experienced so much in their lives that they can pick and choose the better parts that they want to maintain and continue to explore at their own pace. Others however may have experienced a much more rigid and restrictive existence and are only beginning their journey of self awareness and exploration.

Therefore age doesn't equal experience and it's not just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always like older men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it common for people (any gender) to like people significantly older or younger than themselves? I'm 31 and have a thing for women in their 50s and 60s. "

I think so and I flit between the 2 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age isn't just a number, it's a fact. You may not act as a stereotypical 20, 40 or 60 year old but you cannot dispute your actual age.

Some people may reach a certain age having experienced so much in their lives that they can pick and choose the better parts that they want to maintain and continue to explore at their own pace. Others however may have experienced a much more rigid and restrictive existence and are only beginning their journey of self awareness and exploration.

Therefore age doesn't equal experience and it's not just a number. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is not a number….. actually, age is a word!

Meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mould to your will? Idk about that buddy Seems a bit sinister unless they're into that specifically? It's not like 30 year old women are virgins with no life experience."

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I prefer to judge people on their personality and not their age xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the whole I feel most comfortable with people 10 years plus my senior.

I was the baby growing up and was always surrounded by people much older.

Nothing wrong with younger people , just what I'm used to.

All my partners have been at least a few years older buy tends to be the 10 yrs plus that I am most content with

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford


"I prefer to judge people on their personality and not their age xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly I prefer + / - 10 years or so ideally but it’s a case by case really. I have some wonderful conversations outside those age parameters so who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always been attracted to younger guys, recently the guys ive been seeing have been early to mid 30s but ive also met with guys in their late 20s, with the exception of 1 who was 49 lol

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I've always preferred older and this hasn't changed over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it common for people (any gender) to like people significantly older or younger than themselves? I'm 31 and have a thing for women in their 50s and 60s. "

I'm older than 60 and find that there is not a lot of interest on here for people of my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age isn't just a number, it's a fact. You may not act as a stereotypical 20, 40 or 60 year old but you cannot dispute your actual age.

Some people may reach a certain age having experienced so much in their lives that they can pick and choose the better parts that they want to maintain and continue to explore at their own pace. Others however may have experienced a much more rigid and restrictive existence and are only beginning their journey of self awareness and exploration.

Therefore age doesn't equal experience and it's not just a number. "

Have to agree, the age is just a number phrase makes me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age isn't just a number, it's a fact. You may not act as a stereotypical 20, 40 or 60 year old but you cannot dispute your actual age.

Some people may reach a certain age having experienced so much in their lives that they can pick and choose the better parts that they want to maintain and continue to explore at their own pace. Others however may have experienced a much more rigid and restrictive existence and are only beginning their journey of self awareness and exploration.

Therefore age doesn't equal experience and it's not just a number. "

I hear you. Makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age filters that people put on suggest that it is less common to want to meet people significantly older than yourself regardless of whether you are a single woman or a couple. That said there are enough people to keep those like myself (who are most likely to meet younger) meeting when the opportunity arises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of interest from guys in their mid 30’s. I like hard bodies so why not enjoy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people as near to my own age as possible, maybe slightly older. I don’t want younger and certainly no one in their 20’s as I have adult sons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer to judge people on their personality and not their age xx"
I don't pre judge. I've just noticed a tendency I have to find women of that age group very attractive. I try not to fetishise people and have learned over the years that women from this demographic vary as much as anyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On the whole I feel most comfortable with people 10 years plus my senior.

I was the baby growing up and was always surrounded by people much older.

Nothing wrong with younger people , just what I'm used to.

All my partners have been at least a few years older buy tends to be the 10 yrs plus that I am most content with"

I thínk you may have helped me figure it out!

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Regarding ‘age is just a number’. To an extent, this is true. It can be that the closest emotional connection of your life develops with somebody old enough to be your parent or your child. In which case, go for it.

But to another extent, being presents a gap that you can’t completely ignore. You will always be at different stages in your lives, and this drastically affects choices and options for careers, children and retirement. You just don’t have the same options as same-age partners.

And you can are faced with spending a big part of your life alone, knowing that the other person is likely to die long before you. At a time when your choices for your the rest of your life are severely limited.

If you fall in love with someone very younger or older, to you can a fulfilling life with them. But it will never br a conventional life, and often not in good ways…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get a lot of interest from guys in their mid 30’s. I like hard bodies so why not enjoy them "
you only look 35 anyway

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

I've always loved having an age gap with partners, either way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Regarding ‘age is just a number’. To an extent, this is true. It can be that the closest emotional connection of your life develops with somebody old enough to be your parent or your child. In which case, go for it.

But to another extent, being presents a gap that you can’t completely ignore. You will always be at different stages in your lives, and this drastically affects choices and options for careers, children and retirement. You just don’t have the same options as same-age partners.

And you can are faced with spending a big part of your life alone, knowing that the other person is likely to die long before you. At a time when your choices for your the rest of your life are severely limited.

If you fall in love with someone very younger or older, to you can a fulfilling life with them. But it will never br a conventional life, and often not in good ways…"
everything you said is true, personally I want to find someone my own age long term, but I do prefer older sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it common for people (any gender) to like people significantly older or younger than themselves? I'm 31 and have a thing for women in their 50s and 60s.

I'm older than 60 and find that there is not a lot of interest on here for people of my age. "

Not for men unfortunately. But for women I think it's very different.

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


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If you fall in love with someone very younger or older, to you can a fulfilling life with them. But it will never br a conventional life, and often not in good ways… everything you said is true, personally I want to find someone my own age long term, but I do prefer older sexually."

I don’t think anybody goes looking for that - that would be weird, but it happens and I have had a lot of time to think about it. I wanted to get my thoughts off my chest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wise friend once told me that one good thing about getting older is that you fancy a wider age range of women.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Age is just a number as long as the mind is mature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a lot of interest from guys in their mid 30’s. I like hard bodies so why not enjoy them you only look 35 anyway "

I’d agree I don’t look 52…. 35 is a bit ambitious though

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