FabSwingers.com forum: Photos

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If people have zero photos on their profile is that Instant dismissal for people? Just seeing others take on it, we ignore such profiles unless they have them set to friends only and we may entertain them.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

For me it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pay more attention to their message than profile, I'm fine with a silhouette and no info as long as I like their 1-2-1 chat and (ideally) pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t necessarily dismiss, they may well have them all set to private and be able to send them via a message.

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By *racefulWoman
over a year ago

Southsea

Yes! Why do people do it? How hard is it to have a least ONE public photo??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll always entertain a message….regardless if the profile has pics or not!!

I don’t get many messages so I do feel it’s only fair and polite!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes! Why do people do it? How hard is it to have a least ONE public photo??

Maybe playing away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is for me.

NBVN x

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Yes! Why do people do it? How hard is it to have a least ONE public photo??

Maybe playing away

But there are lots of angles you can use which doesn't reveal who you are. At least a body shape gives an indication of what is on offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant dismissal. Finding folk you feel attracted to and comfortable with, is hard enough anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes! Why do people do it? How hard is it to have a least ONE public photo??

Maybe playing away

But there are lots of angles you can use which doesn't reveal who you are. At least a body shape gives an indication of what is on offer."

Maybe some are shy….hardly the place to be if you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What type of photos? Photos of the face or just no photos at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me if there is zero photos combined with a poorly written profile (Will fill in late) than for me it's a case of moving on by.

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Tbh it doesnt give much info in a visual way for folk to respond...unless these folk tend to just choose to goto parties and clubs to meey folk just...but in general...theres surely no hsrm in a pic or 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What type of photos? Photos of the face or just no photos at all? "

Any photos I don’t expect people to have faces publicly but at least stick one of anything even if it is fully clothed, we will ignore no photos at all.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its not instant dismissal, but I would treat any interactions with caution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My worry would be if they can't put the effort in to put something up then what's their intentions? Are they just pic stealing or being nosey with no intention of interaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics means delete there no reason not to

For people saying privacy and stuff not hard to crop out a face or draw over a face or tattoo or what ever on a pic

There’s a abundance off apps that make it very simple to do not like the old days

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes, it's not hard to upload a few photos even if want to be discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only chat to those where there's an initial attraction that won't happen without decent pics. I don't get why anyone wouldn't post any.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

It's not a "must be dismissed" but it does make me very suspicious.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have pics set to friends only and it was a decent profile then we’d find out a bit more.

No pics and a black silhouette = no interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never respond to messages that doesn’t have a Photo

Mandy XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What type of photos? Photos of the face or just no photos at all?

Any photos I don’t expect people to have faces publicly but at least stick one of anything even if it is fully clothed, we will ignore no photos at all. "

That’s fair… as someone said earlier ‘it’s easy to put at least one up’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dismiss these instantly yeah..

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We have 100 plus photos for people to decide to message us…none of those pics are graphic, as in, we don’t show cock or pussy or us having sex.

So if we get a message from anyone with no photos or dick pics then they are an instant delete.

We’ve made an effort in our profile and pics…if someone has made none at all then it’s unlikely we are getting on…

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Ive met a couple of guys who had no public or friends only pics. Dont get me wrong i didnt go in blind lol Sent pics in messeges while chatted before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive met a couple of guys who had no public or friends only pics. Dont get me wrong i didnt go in blind lol Sent pics in messeges while chatted before hand. "

Same. I prefer no public pics. Discreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone’s entitled to their privacy but I do expect at least a photo in a message before I interact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always sceptical about blank profiles because even if they send photos in private message, you can't be sure their verifications are matched to the person in the photo. It also gives you nothing to go on so you wouldn't know if there was any physical attraction from the get go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always sceptical about blank profiles because even if they send photos in private message, you can't be sure their verifications are matched to the person in the photo. It also gives you nothing to go on so you wouldn't know if there was any physical attraction from the get go."

But verifications don't prove that anyway. X

I could have veris from a year ago when my profile had many pics of me..

and now just a pic of a crisp bag or a close up of JLo's boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give some profiles a chance if they have no pictures, if the profile has done base info on them and what they’re looking for it can be enough to start a chat. Not that I get many opportunities for it mind you

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes, I wouldn't reply to a blank shadow and have them blocked on my own profile.

Miss

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

They could be hidden…we would see how they communicated first and then be straight up with them and ask for a picture, we usually send a face pic and say this is us, if they don’t send one back we just say good luck and leave at that.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Ive met a couple of guys who had no public or friends only pics. Dont get me wrong i didnt go in blind lol Sent pics in messeges while chatted before hand.

Same. I prefer no public pics. Discreet."

As long as they happy sending pics and stuff on here in a messege, not a problem for me.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If it's a good enough message then a lack of pictures wouldn't make me dismiss it, though I appreciate why people might just delete.

An empty profile and a "how's U" message will always end up being dismissed by me, no matter how hot someone's photos are. I tend to want to fancy the personality and face equally.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

People are free to put whatever they want in their profiles but I've always said that the second thing I look for in any profile is consistency. You can't have that without pics. The pics have to match the bio.

On the flip side you can have the most amazing pics and put little or no effort into the bio and that's just as bad.

So to answer the original question, yes I would bypass a profile with no pics regardless of how good their message was but similarly I would also do likewise with any profile that is too lazy to make an effort with their bio and think that pics alone are enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No photos and also no veris is a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately ladies get so many messages we have to have a way to filter those, it’s one of my filters, no pics and it’s a no from me

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Generally yes. Even if it was someone we knew fairly well from the forums I think it would feel to heavily one sided to develop any further than casual conversation.

LvM

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Definitely helps to see some images of who they are.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

If they don't have any pics at all including profile pic then it's a straight no from us

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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I'll always check the profile out and if it's well written, and of interest to me, then I wouldn't be bothered by a lack of photos as they can be sent privately.

If the whole profile is sparse and there's a general lack of effort then I don't bother.

I should point out, my profile is empty at the moment precisely because I can't be arsed at the moment

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