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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You feel the mental connection but the pictures don't do it or vice versa they are so bloody damn gorgeous but can't get two words out of them.

What's more important to you ?

Mental connection or Physical connection and remember we don't live in a perfect world and you can't have both

It's one over the other.

Thoughts please

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

For swinging I would prefer a physical connection. For a friend a mental connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t really enjoy intimate times with a person I don’t connect with on both levels.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Unfortunately it has to be both. I need my mind and body stimulated or else nothing is ever going to happen x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

In swinging its physical, every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need some other kind of connection than physical attraction. I don't care how gorgeous someone is, if they have a personality of a sideboard I just can't. If the conversation is one sided, I lose interest pretty quickly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I need some other kind of connection than physical attraction. I don't care how gorgeous someone is, if they have a personality of a sideboard I just can't. If the conversation is one sided, I lose interest pretty quickly."

Yep but for me if I'm not physically attracted to you no personality will make me want to have sex with you.

I'll happily make another friend but very few men want that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need some other kind of connection than physical attraction. I don't care how gorgeous someone is, if they have a personality of a sideboard I just can't. If the conversation is one sided, I lose interest pretty quickly.

Yep but for me if I'm not physically attracted to you no personality will make me want to have sex with you.

I'll happily make another friend but very few men want that."

Yes agreed that's why I said other than physical attraction. I need to find them attractive too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get it there must be a level of attraction in both preferences for things to move on to potential good times. I am much the same

The question here was one over the other?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Physical connection is more important to me for him to be my sexual partner or else into the friendzone he will go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it has to be both. I need my mind and body stimulated or else nothing is ever going to happen x"

This

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Both please. I’d do without before choosing between the two x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get it there must be a level of attraction in both preferences for things to move on to potential good times. I am much the same

The question here was one over the other? "

The answer will stay the same. I’m not choosing one over the other. I’m saying both.

One or the other would involve a compromise that I’d be unwilling to make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both please. I want to be able to have a comfortable conversation with someone I find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take physical, I'm not sociable anyway.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I get it there must be a level of attraction in both preferences for things to move on to potential good times. I am much the same

The question here was one over the other? "

Neither then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, i need both. Ive had women message that are drop dead gorgeous but theres nothing there conversation wise or mentally, and ive had those that we hit it off, the sparks there but physically im not attracted so ultimately i need the full package.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im mostly in need of a mental connection, a lot of the attraction i have for someone is developed through socialising with them.

Its very difficult for me to maintain any kind of interest in someone if they cant reciprocate discussion and make an effort to show their interest as well. If they cant make an equal effort to what i put in, or at least make some ki d of an effort, then i doubt theyd make equal effort for the experience overall when it comes to meeting up, socially and sexually.

Its extremely rare for me to keep chasing someone around.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both "

I guess my OP doesn't apply based on the few replies....

Most of us seek both in a potential meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical connection is always first without that there cant be a Mental connection with swinging its just not as simple as one process way more to picking a sexual bit of fun than that

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