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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey x

I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas

So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!

But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be you OP, dont be afraid to post, think we are all a friendly bunch

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hello and welcome

Just join in, have a look at the forum rules

https://m.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

take no nonsense and just be yourself. You'll be fine

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Hi welcome

Be your self xxx

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Don’t hold back.. forum is to put forward your opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome, I'm fairly new and found members to be wonderful and supportive on here

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Keep to the more lighthearted topics at first.

Expect that your comments will appear to be ignored. So if you make a point and nobody quotes you, that happens but it will be seen.

If you say something and realise afterwards that it was wrong or you now see someone else’s point, don’t be shy in admitting it.

Grammar police …ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome OP to the forums. I hope you know how to debate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just be you OP, dont be afraid to post, think we are all a friendly bunch "

Thank you it does seem that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello and welcome

Just join in, have a look at the forum rules

https://m.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

take no nonsense and just be yourself. You'll be fine "

Thank you I will take a read x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi welcome

Be your self xxx"

Thank you x I will try!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t hold back.. forum is to put forward your opinion"

Thank you! I don’t want to upset anybody x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome, I'm fairly new and found members to be wonderful and supportive on here "

Thank you, that’s good to hear! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep to the more lighthearted topics at first.

Expect that your comments will appear to be ignored. So if you make a point and nobody quotes you, that happens but it will be seen.

If you say something and realise afterwards that it was wrong or you now see someone else’s point, don’t be shy in admitting it.

Grammar police …ignore them "

Thank you x Good advice! My grammar is woeful ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome OP to the forums. I hope you know how to debate "

thank you - I know how to mass-debate!!

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Just be yourself. Welcome by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t share any info you wouldn’t want publicly that’s the biggest tip I can give

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Hello and welcome.

Don't take things to heart.

Some of us have been posting for many years and get missed on threads.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just be yourself. Welcome by the way "

Thank you Liam

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t share any info you wouldn’t want publicly that’s the biggest tip I can give "

Sound advice I’m sure!! Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello and welcome.

Don't take things to heart.

Some of us have been posting for many years and get missed on threads. "

Yes I saw some threads on this lurking the other day! It’s all part of life I guess. Thank you!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Hi welcome

Be your self xxx

Thank you x I will try! "

Xxx

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"Welcome OP to the forums. I hope you know how to debate

thank you - I know how to mass-debate!! "

These are the kind of comments I come here for

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Welcome to the forums OP. Be yourself, remember it’s supposed to be fun, don’t take it too seriously, and join in.

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome OP to the forums. I hope you know how to debate

thank you - I know how to mass-debate!!

These are the kind of comments I come here for "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to the forums OP. Be yourself, remember it’s supposed to be fun, don’t take it too seriously, and join in.

Enjoy "

Thank you. Yes, I will definitely try to be myself and have fun x

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Hey x

I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas

So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!

But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?

Thank you "

A tip?

Write a decent profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

Welcome to the forums, just continue to join in and enjoy yourself.

Look forward to interacting with you on threads

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey x

I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas

So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!

But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?

Thank you

A tip?

Write a decent profile. "

I fail to see what a ‘decent’ profile has to do with joining in with the forums.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Hey x

I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas

So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!

But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?

Thank you

A tip?

Write a decent profile. "

What’s that got to do with joining in on the forums?

Quite a few forum regulars have hidden profiles, it doesn’t seem to affect their use of the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some start with the tip then they shove it all in! aah, tip: lube!

You'll have fun

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Hey x

I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas

So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!

But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?

Thank you

A tip?

Write a decent profile. "

She didn’t ask for profile advice.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Welcome just enjoy. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey x

I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas

So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!

But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?

Thank you

A tip?

Write a decent profile. "

it’s a great point when I come to meet and I know the profile is currently lacking. I will be expanding it in the new year when looking to meet. At the moment I’m just looking to enjoy the forums in the run up to Christmas but I do appreciate the advice and agree with it

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Watch out for the wind up merchants. I keep s mental list of them and avoid getting sucked in. Easily spotted by such phrases as 'Where's your peer reviewed evidence?'.

One of the most prolific has been missing for some weeks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi OP

Welcome to the forums, just continue to join in and enjoy yourself.

Look forward to interacting with you on threads

NBVN x"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey x

I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas

So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!

But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?

Thank you

A tip?

Write a decent profile.

I fail to see what a ‘decent’ profile has to do with joining in with the forums.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey x

I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas

So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!

But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?

Thank you

A tip?

Write a decent profile.

What’s that got to do with joining in on the forums?

Quite a few forum regulars have hidden profiles, it doesn’t seem to affect their use of the forums. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some start with the tip then they shove it all in! aah, tip: lube!

You'll have fun "

Ha ha thank you. If this thread is anything to go by you’re all a great bunch!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey x

I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas

So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!

But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?

Thank you

A tip?

Write a decent profile.

She didn’t ask for profile advice. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome just enjoy. X"

Thank you! I will try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Watch out for the wind up merchants. I keep s mental list of them and avoid getting sucked in. Easily spotted by such phrases as 'Where's your peer reviewed evidence?'.

One of the most prolific has been missing for some weeks!"

Ha thank you! I will be extra vigilant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best tip?

Just jump in and get posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember to send your forum tithe noods to all regulars by 9am sharp each day …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome! I’m sure I have any tips or advise I’m rubbish at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be you OP, dont be afraid to post, think we are all a friendly bunch "

Unless you can be Batman…

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Hey x

I’ve been a lurker of the Forums since I joined the site but finally took the plunge to post last night now I’m in a 2 week break from work before Christmas

So I’m a bit nervous about fitting in as a noob especially as nobody else knows about my dressing up kink but from what I’ve seen the forums are a fun friendly place!

But what tips and hints can you give anyone like me who might be lurking but too afraid to join in? What are the best ways to get on and make friends in the forums and hang around for a long time?

Thank you

A tip?

Write a decent profile.

it’s a great point when I come to meet and I know the profile is currently lacking. I will be expanding it in the new year when looking to meet. At the moment I’m just looking to enjoy the forums in the run up to Christmas but I do appreciate the advice and agree with it "

Very well put.

If you are looking to create and keep an interest a profile will help immensely.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Welcome to the Fabland forum OP.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Just be you OP, dont be afraid to post, think we are all a friendly bunch

Unless you can be Batman…"

Or a dragon.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Wide range of topics o/p. Don't be afraid we are all friends here. Be polite and have a good sense of humour. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do you, don't take things personally, have a good sense of humour and most importantly enjoy

Welcome to the mad house OP!

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