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Does age really matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’m a young male and have a thing for older women, sometimes it seems that age really does matter but sometimes it doesn’t, tell me what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to some

It doesn’t matter to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age doesn't matter but maturity levels do for me.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Is extremely important to some

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By *P994Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Judging by age filters, it certainly matters to a lot of people

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It clearly matters to you op. Your upper age limit excludes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same ...maturity matters most !

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Age doesn't matter but maturity levels do for me. "

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Agreed.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It matters to me because I have a 30 year old daughter and won't meet anyone within 10 years of her age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It clearly matters to you op. Your upper age limit excludes me "

Didn’t realise it was set at the upper level have included you now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age doesn't matter but maturity levels do for me. "

100% agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyones different.

Matters to some, not to others

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I find it does matter. I am getting more outside the age range of others everybpassing year

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

To some it does, to others it doesn’t… best to take age filters with a pinch of salt, they’re mainly to stop the horny buggers on here who’ve just about hit puberty lol. When you meet people in person there’s no preconceptions of you simply because of your age, just how you conduct yourself. Although if you do look young (like I do) some will ask.

There’s people who’ve verified me and I’m not in their listed age range so go figure…

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I find it does matter. I am getting more outside the age range of others every passing year

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It clearly matters to you op. Your upper age limit excludes me

Didn’t realise it was set at the upper level have included you now "

I'm flattered but my point really was that nearly everyone has an age limit no matter how much they deny it. There are very, very few people of your age who'd consider a 95 year old as a sex partner. Damn it I'd be unlikely to consider someone of that age for casual sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It clearly matters to you op. Your upper age limit excludes me

Didn’t realise it was set at the upper level have included you now

I'm flattered but my point really was that nearly everyone has an age limit no matter how much they deny it. There are very, very few people of your age who'd consider a 95 year old as a sex partner. Damn it I'd be unlikely to consider someone of that age for casual sex "

Yeah I understand where your coming from, I suppose I really wanted to get a lady’s opinion on it thank you for replying

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It clearly matters to you op. Your upper age limit excludes me

Didn’t realise it was set at the upper level have included you now

I'm flattered but my point really was that nearly everyone has an age limit no matter how much they deny it. There are very, very few people of your age who'd consider a 95 year old as a sex partner. Damn it I'd be unlikely to consider someone of that age for casual sex

Yeah I understand where your coming from, I suppose I really wanted to get a lady’s opinion on it thank you for replying "

You're welcome I hope you get to meet loads of women of the perfect age for you

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

It matters to me...

I don't want to be with anyone:

Young enough to be my child,

Or as old as my parents

But my lower age is probably more strict, mostly because those that I've met who were younger, for me, weren't sexually aware or mature and needed instruction... And I don't wanna have to be teaching I just wanna enjoy it!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Of course it matters, although it really does depend on someone’s outlook in life too.

We want to connect with people and for them to be on a similar level to us…in mind and body.

K

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"It matters to me...

I don't want to be with anyone:

Young enough to be my child,

Or as old as my parents

But my lower age is probably more strict, mostly because those that I've met who were younger, for me, weren't sexually aware or mature and needed instruction... And I don't wanna have to be teaching I just wanna enjoy it! "

Do you find the lack of sexual awareness/maturity differs by gender or just across the board regardless in terms of you lower age limit and is that from personal experience?

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Yes it matters to us and how we both feel

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"It matters to me...

I don't want to be with anyone:

Young enough to be my child,

Or as old as my parents

But my lower age is probably more strict, mostly because those that I've met who were younger, for me, weren't sexually aware or mature and needed instruction... And I don't wanna have to be teaching I just wanna enjoy it! "

Exactly my thinking

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just a number. I like mature in their mind people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should fuck whoever asks. Meat is meat.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"So I’m a young male and have a thing for older women, sometimes it seems that age really does matter but sometimes it doesn’t, tell me what you think "

I think that you are a young man who has a thing for older women and that you are just beginning to realise that women are people and individuals and different.

Nothing more nothing less.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes. Matters to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *inateaseWoman
over a year ago

ANTRIM


"Age doesn't matter but maturity levels do for me. "

Absolutely!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It matters to me, yes

Miss

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

I think it’s less age and more a maturity, assertiveness thing for me. But I’ve always associated older men with those qualities .

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Age definitely matters to me as I don't want to fuck someone who is young enough to be my son (no matter how mature they claim to be)

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"Age definitely matters to me as I don't want to fuck someone who is young enough to be my son (no matter how mature they claim to be)"

Yeah I think it must be weirder for the older half of this. Like for me and I’m sure for OP it feels natural tho

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It does matter to me, to others it may or may not be important.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Age definitely matters to me as I don't want to fuck someone who is young enough to be my son (no matter how mature they claim to be)

Yeah I think it must be weirder for the older half of this. Like for me and I’m sure for OP it feels natural tho

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Seems age matters more to women than men...go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely matters for me. Don't think I could see myself meeting up with a twenty year old now days. I couldn't relate to them, I'd need some common ground to get the ball rolling.

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By *exOnLegsPlymCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

As long as you look after yourself and are well, age is just a number and some of us age better than others.

We're c60 but luckily can still shag like 20 yr olds !!

Some people are put off by age differences, some the exact opposite.

The age limit thing on Fab is a nuisance at times though as we've met people at events who've said "msg us" but of course we can't

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By *alfstallionOldMan
over a year ago

Richmond


"It clearly matters to you op. Your upper age limit excludes me

Didn’t realise it was set at the upper level have included you now

I'm flattered but my point really was that nearly everyone has an age limit no matter how much they deny it. There are very, very few people of your age who'd consider a 95 year old as a sex partner. Damn it I'd be unlikely to consider someone of that age for casual sex "

I'd fuck a 95 year old if I find her attractive love a gilf!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to me because I find a great many younger man treat older women like myself as a fetish. I will not be a fetish. And I find I get on best with the age bracket I have on my profile. If someone is outside that, but I think I might want to meet them, I will contact them.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Age definitely matters to me as I don't want to fuck someone who is young enough to be my son (no matter how mature they claim to be)

Yeah I think it must be weirder for the older half of this. Like for me and I’m sure for OP it feels natural tho

Seems age matters more to women than men...go figure "

Strangely enough I've said in numerous threads including this one that age is extremely important to me and on 3 seperate occasions I've been challenged by other men with an "Ah but, what if?" attitude.

Funnily enough they didn't challenge any of the women or couples who had said exactly the same.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes age matters to me I see anyone under 30 as kids x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Age definitely matters to me as I don't want to fuck someone who is young enough to be my son (no matter how mature they claim to be)

Yeah I think it must be weirder for the older half of this. Like for me and I’m sure for OP it feels natural tho

Seems age matters more to women than men...go figure

Strangely enough I've said in numerous threads including this one that age is extremely important to me and on 3 seperate occasions I've been challenged by other men with an "Ah but, what if?" attitude.

Funnily enough they didn't challenge any of the women or couples who had said exactly the same. "

I've noticed you have. Nice to see there are some men still on this site with morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s matters to the owners of Fab, strictly no over 99 year olds

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"I find it does matter. I am getting more outside the age range of others every passing year "

You can have a rapport with a young person who is mature where yiu have a lot in common or someone say my age where its ike talking to a child. So to me age looks matter a lot less than being able to get on with someone on diffremt levels.

With my hobbies I find that I mix with a wide range of people and find on some things I have more I'm common with them than my generation sometimes.

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