FabSwingers.com forum: What's the first thing you look at on a profile??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whats your eye catcher??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His penis

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Humour in the bio. Wins every time

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures

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By *ordo320Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

Pictures draw me in, but then I’m interested in the profile. See how approachable you are and if our interests align. Both are important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people message us the first thing we look at is if they match what we’re looking for. Usually check if they’re verified first, then age, then if they can accommodate

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Photos. What can I say; I am a visual creature

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pictures

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so its a profile pic would be full face though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling and grammar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The username. Some can put me off instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures

so its a profile pic would be full face though?"

Would be nice! Buts usually a teasing one that grabs me and says grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Spelling and grammar."
just checking mine now ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body shape.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The username. Some can put me off instantly."
I can agree with you on that one.. from a bloke some have put me off!!

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

If they are straight

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"Humour in the bio. Wins every time

I have to agree…

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Photos and a decent bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos, 100%.

Which is kind of ironic considering I only have one public.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On couples, I always look at who they're looking to meet followed by pics. If there's none of the male, then I don't look further than that.

If there's a selection of both of them, I'd check the profile txt and verifications.

Miss

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Age and location

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Height. Age. Sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Height. Age. Sexuality. "
were all the same height lying down haha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Height. Age. Sexuality. were all the same height lying down haha"

If I had a pound for every time I heard that I’d be typing this from my yacht.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height. Age. Sexuality. were all the same height lying down haha

If I had a pound for every time I heard that I’d be typing this from my yacht. "

You’re so vain

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Key words I dislike

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Height. Age. Sexuality. were all the same height lying down haha

If I had a pound for every time I heard that I’d be typing this from my yacht.

You’re so vain"

You think this about you don’t you?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Veris

I like to see how he speaks about other people first

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By *uxuriantCouple
over a year ago

Sometimes Here, Sometimes There

1) Photos

2) Description (couple/male/woman etc)

3) Location

4) Verifications

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Veris

I like to see how he speaks about other people first"

Oh yeah and that. Even though I don’t show mine I like to see other people’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height. Age. Sexuality. were all the same height lying down haha

If I had a pound for every time I heard that I’d be typing this from my yacht.

You’re so vain

You think this about you don’t you?"

*Probably *

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Humour in the bio. Wins every time

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures, they tell more about the person than any bio can convey. And bios are an awful way to judge someones character so while ill read them, there mostly irrelevant to me. Ill form my initial judgement of the person by their pictures, and let an actual conversation between us allow me to form a better idea what kind of person they are.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Height. Age. Sexuality. were all the same height lying down haha

If I had a pound for every time I heard that I’d be typing this from my yacht.

You’re so vain

You think this about you don’t you?

*Probably *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether they are verified. What and who they are looking for.

What they chose to include in their bio. Is there any compatibility.

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I always look for the verifications on all of my times on here.

As a genuine I look for women that are active, then at the pics to see if they are to my taste.

Then the battle to try to have a conversation begins hahaha

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Height

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Height

Going by the thread title "What's the first thing you look at on a profile??" and not listing everything I do in order.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Distance

An interesting bio

To see if compatible then pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality

Location

Pics

Bio

No point reading a great bio if the other things don't tick my boxes

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By *bcnotskyMan
over a year ago

essex

Read the bio to see if compatible

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The headline. Not many words but so many choose "fun xxx looking for fun with xxx". I wouldn't go further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height

Name

Torso pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on if the profile

Is men woman or couples or tv/ts

Men it’s if they looking for tv/ts

Woman emmm pics

Couples emmm pics

Tv/ts emmm pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Signs of a sense of humour

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

The first thing? A nice pair of boobs always catches the eye. In fact, I have messaged women on the strength of their chest alone.

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By *age500Woman
over a year ago

ashton-under-lyne

Height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile name and face pic (if there isn't one I don't bother with the rest)

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

nice pictures, especially nice eyes, nice smiles, plump bums and larger boobs...

tastefully written profiles

not a million miles away locations

messages we can understand and work with... chats that tell us what we need to know before meets

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Intriguing profile pic draws us in…then a decent profile bio, then pics and interests to see if we match…

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Truro

Top three for me are:

Location

Then Profile pic

Then age

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"Pictures

Easily pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile picture draws the attention.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Do they meet people who are 99 years old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile name - I tend to be drawn in by the funny ones or ones with a sexual pun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do they meet people who are 99 years old

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going for the more mature haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The words cum dump or sub slut

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Have they got nice teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bio.. if that's boring I go no further

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"Bio.. if that's boring I go no further

Mine must be boring then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age they want to meet

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Username, pics, status, location, willy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Username, pics, status, location, willy. "
willy haha

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Username, pics, status, location, willy. "

That's me knackered then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a sapiophile it's eloquence and articulation in the bio....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bio.. if that's boring I go no further

Mine must be boring then

Nope just your penis is too small

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I look for freckles

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I look for blue underwear.

(Surprise, Surprise)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bio.. if that's boring I go no further

Mine must be boring then

Nope just your penis is too small

Brutal.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures, bio, distance and peen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the mobile version mostly so I usually notice the stuff next to the profile pic first, such as age and location, then the page title bit.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Do they meet people who are 99 years old

...are you planning on reaching that criteria any time soon

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Username- that can be offputting, if graphic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic

Username

Location

Then their pics

Then their bio

If they pass all those I may open the message.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Height, Location and some substance in their profile description.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Height, Location and some substance in their profile description."

...you're heightist?!

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"Whats your eye catcher??"

Face pic, then dick pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whats your eye catcher??

Face pic, then dick pic

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haha love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort and imagination on the profile..

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By *ayarMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Age range.. when you pass 50 you fall off so many radars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they bisexual? If not there’s no point in looking at anything else.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Pictures first then age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pictures first then age"
nice pics

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Height, Location and some substance in their profile description.

...you're heightist?!

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No, I'm not "heightist" at all.

However, I've come across numerous profiles where women have stated a (minimum) height preference. And their preference is usually above my height. I respect their preference and refrain from contacting them.

(My due diligence is simply to check their height in conjunction with whatever they've stipulated in their profile)

I'm not offended by your question but may I ask why you disregarded the five women above my post who all replied "height"?...and yet you asked *me*??

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

A decent bio - if it says something along the lines of fill this in later or looking for fun and nothing else I'll bypass them

Secondly I look at their arms in photos - I gave a thing for good, toned arms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location location location then the profile and finally their pictures. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the bio first, if they have been a member for a year and it says 'will fill in later' then I move on

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

The age settings first, as there is no point in flogging a dead horse if they are not interested in mature guys, then the verifications as they say more about someone than people could ever say about themselves. Then cross reference them with what others have to say about those verifications. That way you can generally eliminate the fakes, the daydreamers and wannabes straight away. With the photos bringing up the rear so to speak, as personality is as important to me as looks.

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By *rucking-HellMan
over a year ago

Northampton

The tone in which it's written.

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Height.

Bio.

Photos.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

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"Height, Location and some substance in their profile description.

...you're heightist?!

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No, I'm not "heightist" at all.

I'm not offended by your question but may I ask why you disregarded the five women above my post who all replied "height"?...and yet you asked *me*??

Curious as to why a man put height, but now makes complete sense with your explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When people message us the first thing we look at is if they match what we’re looking for. Usually check if they’re verified first, then age, then if they can accommodate "

Definitely yours beautiful boobs.. So attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bio.. if that's boring I go no further

Mine must be boring then

Nope just your penis is too small

How can you talk like that..Omg you are so naughty...

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will admit it's peek at the boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures to get my attention...a well written and interesting profile which matches some of my likes to keep my attention.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

I had no idea the height of a man is so important to a woman

...no wait, hold on, I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-Do they bake cake?

-Will they bring cake?

-If not, are they happy to meet in an establishment that serves cake?

-Cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile text, I try to establish if there’s a chance that person/s would be looking to meet me.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

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"-Do they bake cake?

-Will they bring cake?

-If not, are they happy to meet in an establishment that serves cake?

-Cake. "

If there was such a

orientated profile we'd all be fighting over them ...for the love of cake

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I'll be honest. The pictures

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

- Bum

- Boobs

- Bum

- Boobs

- Bum

- Skim profile text for key phrases like "love it up the bum"

- Face

LvM

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