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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let’s see what your opinions are and if any changes are needed ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got out of shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read it. It doesn't say much really. Nothing attention drawing.. making you stand out of the sea of similar profiles. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You used the wrong colour, it's green screen.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I've read pretty much the same profile hundreds of times, same wording, same claims etc

The second pic is a bit of a turn off for me tbh, looks like you share a room with your messy brother or something.. Also the name Mr duracell makes me roll my eyes. Sorry x it's not the worst I've seen tho if that makes it any better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve got a messy bed and bedside table

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read it. It doesn't say much really. Nothing attention drawing.. making you stand out of the sea of similar profiles. Sorry."

Thanks for the reply, well I do want to separate my self from the rest on here and not just be a boring profile... any hints

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've read pretty much the same profile hundreds of times, same wording, same claims etc

The second pic is a bit of a turn off for me tbh, looks like you share a room with your messy brother or something.. Also the name Mr duracell makes me roll my eyes. Sorry x it's not the worst I've seen tho if that makes it any better"

Aha Yh I get people tend to look into the background of pictures and abit messy it is lol

Tell me what would make it stand out better x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You used the wrong colour, it's green screen."

lol green screen for special effects eh

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

That your heritage is important to you.

That you probably have very little experience in the world of kink, but think you either know it all or reckon using dom in your username makes you sound cool.

That you don't look at the bigger picture, or have the ability to pre-empt how it may be received, or possibly don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why put Dom in your username? And then not mention that side at all in the profile? Do you know anything about the lifestyle - if not, don't mention it.

Having 18-99 for women you'd meet sounds as though you'd fuck anyone. I'm sure you wouldn't!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That your heritage is important to you.

That you probably have very little experience in the world of kink, but think you either know it all or reckon using dom in your username makes you sound cool.

That you don't look at the bigger picture, or have the ability to pre-empt how it may be received, or possibly don't care.

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Not at all proud of who I am but haven’t just put the name their to seem abit kool it’s generally how I’m like and I do care quite a lot actually how my profile comes across hence the reason for this forum x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"That your heritage is important to you.

That you probably have very little experience in the world of kink, but think you either know it all or reckon using dom in your username makes you sound cool.

That you don't look at the bigger picture, or have the ability to pre-empt how it may be received, or possibly don't care.

Not at all proud of who I am but haven’t just put the name their to seem abit kool it’s generally how I’m like and I do care quite a lot actually how my profile comes across hence the reason for this forum x"

What makes you a dom then?

If you saw the bigger picture, why would you have that messy photo? That's what I'm saying about not caring/not noticing.

It's OK to have the messy picture if that's what people are to expect when they're with you, there's no issue with that other than it'll put a lot of folks off, but it'll mean those that do agree to meet won't mind the mess, it won't matter to them.

Why do you care how it comes across if it's an accurate representation of you? Surely that would lead you to meet those who are into that accurate representation rather than changing things into a vision of what others *may* want, rather than who you ARE.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That your heritage is important to you.

That you probably have very little experience in the world of kink, but think you either know it all or reckon using dom in your username makes you sound cool.

That you don't look at the bigger picture, or have the ability to pre-empt how it may be received, or possibly don't care.

Not at all proud of who I am but haven’t just put the name their to seem abit kool it’s generally how I’m like and I do care quite a lot actually how my profile comes across hence the reason for this forum x

What makes you a dom then?

If you saw the bigger picture, why would you have that messy photo? That's what I'm saying about not caring/not noticing.

It's OK to have the messy picture if that's what people are to expect when they're with you, there's no issue with that other than it'll put a lot of folks off, but it'll mean those that do agree to meet won't mind the mess, it won't matter to them.

Why do you care how it comes across if it's an accurate representation of you? Surely that would lead you to meet those who are into that accurate representation rather than changing things into a vision of what others *may* want, rather than who you ARE."
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Course I care, and no I wouldn’t let anyone define a representation off myself purely based on one picture of my body not even my face.

Appreciate the time u took to reply back I love openness n honestly so thank You

Need to clear my profile up abit I know but was wondering where exactly

And Yh I love being a dominant guy with all the previous experiences I’ve had

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"That your heritage is important to you.

That you probably have very little experience in the world of kink, but think you either know it all or reckon using dom in your username makes you sound cool.

That you don't look at the bigger picture, or have the ability to pre-empt how it may be received, or possibly don't care.

Not at all proud of who I am but haven’t just put the name their to seem abit kool it’s generally how I’m like and I do care quite a lot actually how my profile comes across hence the reason for this forum x

What makes you a dom then?

If you saw the bigger picture, why would you have that messy photo? That's what I'm saying about not caring/not noticing.

It's OK to have the messy picture if that's what people are to expect when they're with you, there's no issue with that other than it'll put a lot of folks off, but it'll mean those that do agree to meet won't mind the mess, it won't matter to them.

Why do you care how it comes across if it's an accurate representation of you? Surely that would lead you to meet those who are into that accurate representation rather than changing things into a vision of what others *may* want, rather than who you ARE..

Course I care, and no I wouldn’t let anyone define a representation off myself purely based on one picture of my body not even my face.

Appreciate the time u took to reply back I love openness n honestly so thank You

Need to clear my profile up abit I know but was wondering where exactly

And Yh I love being a dominant guy with all the previous experiences I’ve had "

What makes you a dominant guy?

I'm not being arsey, I'm giving you the opportunity to put things into words. A bit like when a teacher asks questions, not because they want to correct you per se, but because they want to know what something means to you, and to lead you to your own answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say being the sommnat guy makes you a Dom. Others can correct me here, but that's my take.

Having amlooked at your profile, is there anything there you'd say most men couldn't say. Or to take a different tack, how many people would write the opposite?

I have no sense of who I'd be meeting from this. And no real incentive to meet.

(Also, the whole message me, or wonk me bit, does not feel dominant to me.)

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

You have a hard on?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Your profile is your shop window…do you reckon it’s above others?

Putting Dom in your name and not displaying it in your profile is a red flag that you are just putting Dom in your name to think it’s giving you a better status with women.

Someone who’s a Dom wouldn’t need to say they were a Dom…it would be evident from their pics or profile.

You have a standard pic in the mirror whilst holding your phone pose and 2 dick pics. That’s not standing out, that’s just like 20,000 guys profiles.

Your profile wording is pretty much like 20,000 guys profiles…nothing that shows you are being different.

How to improve? Take intriguing pics, sell yourself.

You can’t ask people to sell you…only you can be you, so what do you offer that’s different.

Good luck

K

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Your profile says........

You think others will do the running

They won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say being the sommnat guy makes you a Dom. Others can correct me here, but that's my take.

Having amlooked at your profile, is there anything there you'd say most men couldn't say. Or to take a different tack, how many people would write the opposite?

I have no sense of who I'd be meeting from this. And no real incentive to meet.

(Also, the whole message me, or wonk me bit, does not feel dominant to me.)"

dominant is different from Dominant, yes. And subs are pretty good at spotting those who say Dom but...aren't!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Let’s see what your opinions are and if any changes are needed ..."

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It's a beautiful profile.

But it's also a beautiful day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re looking for men, hence the cock on display.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'd say your avatar suggests you have somewhere to hang some Christmas decorations.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

A little purple devil follows you around haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’re looking for men, hence the cock on display. "

lol ?? ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say your avatar suggests you have somewhere to hang some Christmas decorations. "

Haha got me howling lol feel free to hang what u want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is your shop window…do you reckon it’s above others?

Putting Dom in your name and not displaying it in your profile is a red flag that you are just putting Dom in your name to think it’s giving you a better status with women.

Someone who’s a Dom wouldn’t need to say they were a Dom…it would be evident from their pics or profile.

You have a standard pic in the mirror whilst holding your phone pose and 2 dick pics. That’s not standing out, that’s just like 20,000 guys profiles.

Your profile wording is pretty much like 20,000 guys profiles…nothing that shows you are being different.

How to improve? Take intriguing pics, sell yourself.

You can’t ask people to sell you…only you can be you, so what do you offer that’s different.

Good luck

K "

Cheers for the reply now what is classed as intriguing pics...new to this whole scene so I’m looking on gaining experience and tryna differ myself from the rest on here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A little purple devil follows you around haha "

Actually quiet like the colour purple

Purple devil is my shadow. Lol

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

To be honest, profile looks OK. Do agree with others about the dom thing though. I don't claim to know a lot about the whole dom/sub scenario so perhaps if you're knowledgeable, perhaps give your view on it on your profile just to give an indication. Great pic with the suit though. I can't pull of a suit so I'm sure the ladies would appreciate a good suit pic

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

What is classed as intriguing pics?

What do you think?

What do you want your pictures to tell people about you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest, profile looks OK. Do agree with others about the dom thing though. I don't claim to know a lot about the whole dom/sub scenario so perhaps if you're knowledgeable, perhaps give your view on it on your profile just to give an indication. Great pic with the suit though. I can't pull of a suit so I'm sure the ladies would appreciate a good suit pic "

Cheers pal much appreciated and Yh I’m same as u would love to get more knowledge in the whole field of dom/sub just put it as my name because through previous meets I’ve had they tend to say Im a dominant guy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is classed as intriguing pics?

What do you think?

What do you want your pictures to tell people about you?"

I don’t know seeing as I’m very private I wouldn’t want anyone just seeing face pictures of me so as my body is only included in public pictures i have no idea to make them more intriguing that’s why am genuinely asking x

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

your profile doesnt say alot about you, but the fact you started this thread speaks spades sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"your profile doesnt say alot about you, but the fact you started this thread speaks spades sorry"

Lol it can speak “spades” all it want, just wanted honest opinions

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"What is classed as intriguing pics?

What do you think?

What do you want your pictures to tell people about you?

I don’t know seeing as I’m very private I wouldn’t want anyone just seeing face pictures of me so as my body is only included in public pictures i have no idea to make them more intriguing that’s why am genuinely asking x"

There's an infinite list of things you could do.

The effort, thought and imagination has to come from you I'm afraid. Coz honestly, all they say about you is "has penis"

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Let’s see what your opinions are and if any changes are needed ..."

Well you've put that you deffo know what you're looking for so would it matter what anyone else thought because you know what it is

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

No I'm not going to give you ideas, no I don't want you to send me pics to give them my input.

I've already told you that they should represent you, and how you wish to present yourself, coming from your own imagination etc.

If you can't be arsed to learn about yourself that's on you.

Keep it on the thread please,

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Your profile is your shop window…do you reckon it’s above others?

Putting Dom in your name and not displaying it in your profile is a red flag that you are just putting Dom in your name to think it’s giving you a better status with women.

Someone who’s a Dom wouldn’t need to say they were a Dom…it would be evident from their pics or profile.

You have a standard pic in the mirror whilst holding your phone pose and 2 dick pics. That’s not standing out, that’s just like 20,000 guys profiles.

Your profile wording is pretty much like 20,000 guys profiles…nothing that shows you are being different.

How to improve? Take intriguing pics, sell yourself.

You can’t ask people to sell you…only you can be you, so what do you offer that’s different.

Good luck

K

Cheers for the reply now what is classed as intriguing pics...new to this whole scene so I’m looking on gaining experience and tryna differ myself from the rest on here x"

Have a look at profiles and see what pics you can do. There’s a lot of intriguing pics you can take instead of having dick pics. Your phone will have a self timer on it and so you can take a lot of pics without the need to hold your phone.

Currently you have a selfie of you trying a suit on in a shop …with random people in the background.

YOU have to think for yourself as to what is the best way to sell you.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, profile looks OK. Do agree with others about the dom thing though. I don't claim to know a lot about the whole dom/sub scenario so perhaps if you're knowledgeable, perhaps give your view on it on your profile just to give an indication. Great pic with the suit though. I can't pull of a suit so I'm sure the ladies would appreciate a good suit pic

Cheers pal much appreciated and Yh I’m same as u would love to get more knowledge in the whole field of dom/sub just put it as my name because through previous meets I’ve had they tend to say Im a dominant guy..."

That's great you want to learn more about d/s but don't say you're Dom in your username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re looking for men, hence the cock on display.

lol ?? ok"

I’m serious. Cock on display attracts men not women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, profile looks OK. Do agree with others about the dom thing though. I don't claim to know a lot about the whole dom/sub scenario so perhaps if you're knowledgeable, perhaps give your view on it on your profile just to give an indication. Great pic with the suit though. I can't pull of a suit so I'm sure the ladies would appreciate a good suit pic "

You look great in a shirt and jeans so I’m sure you’d look great in a suit.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"To be honest, profile looks OK. Do agree with others about the dom thing though. I don't claim to know a lot about the whole dom/sub scenario so perhaps if you're knowledgeable, perhaps give your view on it on your profile just to give an indication. Great pic with the suit though. I can't pull of a suit so I'm sure the ladies would appreciate a good suit pic "

Just flop ya dick out chuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re looking for men, hence the cock on display.

lol ?? ok

I’m serious. Cock on display attracts men not women. "
it also says "I don't understand women" as you are doing what a guy wants, not a gal. Again, imo. (tictactoe mansplaining)

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

We have seen a lot worse. Nothing inspiring but you are trying to improve your hit rate. Think of the 'you' you would like to be, put that into your pics and out there. Being other people just sets up disappointment.

On that note - from our perspective

Dom with no background suggests wannabee

'420' will lose a chunk of audience but get a smaller group interested. Us deffo not

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

420 instant turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a wicked response better then what I was hoping for actually so thank to all who commented... going to have a go at taking some different type of pictures will see how it goes and with the whole 420 thing it’s just something I enjoy and like to do on days off from work oh wel each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a wicked response better then what I was hoping for actually so thank to all who commented... going to have a go at taking some different type of pictures will see how it goes and with the whole 420 thing it’s just something I enjoy and like to do on days off from work oh wel each to their own x"

If 420 is your thing then you shouldn’t hide it. There are lots of girls who like it too so maybe you’ll attract them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a wicked response better then what I was hoping for actually so thank to all who commented... going to have a go at taking some different type of pictures will see how it goes and with the whole 420 thing it’s just something I enjoy and like to do on days off from work oh wel each to their own x

If 420 is your thing then you shouldn’t hide it. There are lots of girls who like it too so maybe you’ll attract them "
indeed. Be yourself. Let some of that come out... Fab isn't about appealing to everyone as you will fail. It's about really appealing to a select few you really want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a wicked response better then what I was hoping for actually so thank to all who commented... going to have a go at taking some different type of pictures will see how it goes and with the whole 420 thing it’s just something I enjoy and like to do on days off from work oh wel each to their own x

If 420 is your thing then you shouldn’t hide it. There are lots of girls who like it too so maybe you’ll attract them "

Definitely and with the comment you made before about a cock attracts male attention your so right it’s off putting ive had to block messages from males because of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a wicked response better then what I was hoping for actually so thank to all who commented... going to have a go at taking some different type of pictures will see how it goes and with the whole 420 thing it’s just something I enjoy and like to do on days off from work oh wel each to their own x

If 420 is your thing then you shouldn’t hide it. There are lots of girls who like it too so maybe you’ll attract them

Definitely and with the comment you made before about a cock attracts male attention your so right it’s off putting ive had to block messages from males because of that"
I'd add BJ vids to that list.

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