FabSwingers.com forum: What’s on your mind?

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s Thursday morning and I’m sat in bed contemplating coffee. I’ve been awake for a little while trying to organise my thoughts and to find the motivation to get out of bed.

Beyond the day to day noise, something is nibbling at my mind, I can’t quite put my finger on it yet though.

What’s on your mind dear fabbers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing substantial. And it's a relief. I don't want anything eating me. Just how not to miss an important parcel as I'm out and about in the time slot assigned (3h!). Hope Postman has sense to use my ring bell.. rather than taking it back to the sorting office.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee might clear the neuro pathways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sat on the edge of the bed contemplating a cuppa.

My mind is working in overdrive.. I'm still busy with work, taking Mr to see a surprise tonight, I'm not feeling too wonderful and the kids are sick again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sat on the edge of the bed contemplating a cuppa.

My mind is working in overdrive.. I'm still busy with work, taking Mr to see a surprise tonight, I'm not feeling too wonderful and the kids are sick again

Boo to lurgy. Hurray to surprise. Super woman you making it all happen - work/nursing/special treats.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Coffee might clear the neuro pathways. "

That’s very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skip all that..I just got a message from a dear friend I haven't seen in 3 years that she is passing by my town and wants to see me !! I'm crying happy tears..

ill get best hugs from ome of the wisest women i know. My sons birth doula and my life inspiration.

Have a blessed day all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I hope I’m feeling better by tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That Friday is on the horizon.. woop woop.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've been up silly o clock here, it's a mix of excitement, slight trepidation and happiness. My mind is whirring away as ever but my main thing is how difficult it is to attach pine cones to a wreath. And wrapping presents. And a hundred other things that are too personal and inane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mind is occupied with hoping for a continuing symptomless covid experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mind is full and going at a million miles per hour. Thinking about someone while trying not to over think and just trying to enjoy our friendship. I’m wondering if the baby will sleep today so I can get the wrapping and chores done. I then feel guilty that I want him to sleep rather than enjoying his new found personality. And I’m also thinking about what I need to pack as I’m away with the baby Friday night and then back to host a family party Sunday, which I need to also plan for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the engineer to fix boiler comes early and hoping he could be cute

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

So much to do today and have a poorly kid and work

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

How much longer can I get away with laying here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad. He's no longer with us but it's his birthday today. I hope he's having a drink in the pub in the sky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My health

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've been stressed the last couple of weeks and am just coming out the other side of it now which is great.

I watched a really sad film last night and it made me cry sooooo much. I'm not a big Cryer so I'm feeling a bit wiped out. I'd like to go back to bed once I've dropped the tiddler off, but that's not an option sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The world and where we are headed.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"My mind is full and going at a million miles per hour. Thinking about someone while trying not to over think and just trying to enjoy our friendship. I’m wondering if the baby will sleep today so I can get the wrapping and chores done. I then feel guilty that I want him to sleep rather than enjoying his new found personality. And I’m also thinking about what I need to pack as I’m away with the baby Friday night and then back to host a family party Sunday, which I need to also plan for

Don't feel guilty, they're time consuming little things and wanting some time to yourself is not a bad thing. You got this

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By *icknmix500Man
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

Thinking about my oil delivery the tanks getting low

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"It’s Thursday morning and I’m sat in bed contemplating coffee. I’ve been awake for a little while trying to organise my thoughts and to find the motivation to get out of bed.

Beyond the day to day noise, something is nibbling at my mind, I can’t quite put my finger on it yet though.

What’s on your mind dear fabbers? "

Is it your lumpy tummy?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"My dad. He's no longer with us but it's his birthday today. I hope he's having a drink in the pub in the sky. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did my wife surprise me with a hotel booking for tomorrow, what has she got planned...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot stop thinking about how the mind works and especially neuro-diversity. Sounds pretentious I know. But it's important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I said what’s on my mind we could be here all day OP.

I am contemplating many things about my life and the direction it’s taking.

I am questioning where I am investing myself and if that investment is actually worth the effort, I won’t let anyone devalue my worth but the effort to keep fighting is taking its toll

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Anal..... I know shocking revelation. Course you will have all jumped the gun and think that I feel like anal sex but ........... nope.

I've just read through two threads about anal and they've left me feeling uncomfortable....

Think i'll make a mini list of things to do ..... in the right order.... in nice handwriting ...... on pretty paper.

Or watch some extreme anal porn....

Okay I lied about the last part.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If I said what’s on my mind we could be here all day OP.

I am contemplating many things about my life and the direction it’s taking.

I am questioning where I am investing myself and if that investment is actually worth the effort, I won’t let anyone devalue my worth but the effort to keep fighting is taking its toll"

New nickname for you ........ Lorry Al.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I cannot stop thinking about how the mind works and especially neuro-diversity. Sounds pretentious I know. But it's important to me. "

It doesn't sound pretentious in the slightest. Neuro-diversity is fascinating, challenging at times and so many other things. No two NDs are alike, it's such a broad spectrum that we're only beginning to understand now. So yes, far from pretentious.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I cannot stop thinking about how the mind works and especially neuro-diversity. Sounds pretentious I know. But it's important to me. "

Doesn't sound pretentious at all. Sounds like a group of street dance psychologists.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’m thinking of last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I said what’s on my mind we could be here all day OP.

I am contemplating many things about my life and the direction it’s taking.

I am questioning where I am investing myself and if that investment is actually worth the effort, I won’t let anyone devalue my worth but the effort to keep fighting is taking its toll

New nickname for you ........ Lorry Al. "

I had to read that out loud for it to make sense. I’m not David Ginola

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wondering where my passion lies and how I've just been sailing through life not making real decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am thinking roll on Saturday night to I see DP get smashed and no you (dirty lot ) not that DP

dustin poirier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about the Manchester social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot stop thinking about how the mind works and especially neuro-diversity. Sounds pretentious I know. But it's important to me. "

We need to talk about this. It’s something that completely fascinates me.

I gave a talk this year to a global conference on the subconscious mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My dad. He's no longer with us but it's his birthday today. I hope he's having a drink in the pub in the sky. "

More likely he has hopped for a ride on the wind so when you go out he's wrapping himself round you all for a lovely birthday hug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My health

Oh dear, doesn't sound reet good xx

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

That I set my alarm on a rare day off so I would be up and ready for an early morning rendezvous to get let down again

At least I got a txt I suppose I'll just go back to sleep for an hour

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The drive ahead but the kisses and cuddles that await at the end x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I said what’s on my mind we could be here all day OP.

I am contemplating many things about my life and the direction it’s taking.

I am questioning where I am investing myself and if that investment is actually worth the effort, I won’t let anyone devalue my worth but the effort to keep fighting is taking its toll"

Those are important questions, BG. Good to mull over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh volly , today is my last chance to do any christmas shopping.

This chaps mind will be fillee with oh blimey what to get every one ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot stop thinking about how the mind works and especially neuro-diversity. Sounds pretentious I know. But it's important to me.

Doesn't sound pretentious at all. Sounds like a group of street dance psychologists. "

Sticking my tongue out at you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee... Fuck.. Forgot to make my coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot stop thinking about how the mind works and especially neuro-diversity. Sounds pretentious I know. But it's important to me.

I live with it so normally it's just part of life but sometimes more things come up and I get deep in the detail.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Can’t help but wonder … does the perfect sex exist with multiple partners?? As in can you have mind blowing sex with more than 3 partners??

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

If I could define what it was I was thinking I'd be in a better place. Bit tired and overwhelmed means a brain that won't switch off at the moment grr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot stop thinking about how the mind works and especially neuro-diversity. Sounds pretentious I know. But it's important to me.

We need to talk about this. It’s something that completely fascinates me.

I gave a talk this year to a global conference on the subconscious mind"

I was thinking of starting a thread. I started one elsewhere on autism that was really good discussion.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

My mind is a whirlwind of emotions right now. Life really can test you in the most unexpected ways at all the wrong times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it is too long until term ends and that I need to be back in Edinburgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s on my mind?

That I’m pathetically pleased with myself for deleting TikTok app last night (well, early hours of this morning lol)

… yes I had it

Got teens though so wanted to see what all the hype about. Felt bad for wasted time though

And now … that I don’t know what neuro-diversity is … and feel bad again about the wasted TikTok time lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coffee... Fuck.. Forgot to make my coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoping the dog groomer won't sheer too close to my dog's tinky winky as she always find it difficult to sit for days afterwards!

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Woke up this morning to a barrage of alert emails.

My first thought “Welp, who’s arse am I whooping today for setting this off”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contemplating my career after a terrible call with a client who basically slated weeks worth of my work

Also contemplating opening a wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot stop thinking about how the mind works and especially neuro-diversity. Sounds pretentious I know. But it's important to me.

We need to talk about this. It’s something that completely fascinates me.

I gave a talk this year to a global conference on the subconscious mind

I was thinking of starting a thread. I started one elsewhere on autism that was really good discussion. "

You know I would be all over that thread

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I cannot stop thinking about how the mind works and especially neuro-diversity. Sounds pretentious I know. But it's important to me.

We need to talk about this. It’s something that completely fascinates me.

I gave a talk this year to a global conference on the subconscious mind

I was thinking of starting a thread. I started one elsewhere on autism that was really good discussion. "

There have been threads on neuro diversity on here before and they have been really informative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot stop thinking about how the mind works and especially neuro-diversity. Sounds pretentious I know. But it's important to me.

We need to talk about this. It’s something that completely fascinates me.

I gave a talk this year to a global conference on the subconscious mind

I was thinking of starting a thread. I started one elsewhere on autism that was really good discussion.

You know I would be all over that thread

I will start one at the weekend

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"If I could define what it was I was thinking I'd be in a better place. Bit tired and overwhelmed means a brain that won't switch off at the moment grr"

I know what you mean. That’s kind of how I felt/feel.

I usually take a few days out and unpick but life is happening right now and I’m having to do it on the run.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Thank you everyone for posting. I can’t respond to everyone as I’m at work but I have read every response.

For those of you that are struggling or in the midst of the we*ds, just remember to be gentle with yourself and take it one step at a time, it will become clear

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