FabSwingers.com forum: not replying to messages

By *r and Mrs 81 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

How hard is it for people to reply to a message even if it's just to say sorry ur not what am looking for we have sent so many messages to females and they just block us it gives the rest of the females a bad name It makes us want to leave the site are we doing anything wrong or are some females just to stuck up and think they are better than everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your message is as hrd to read as that then no real surprise. That is if people read your message, or even your profile, I suspect a status slagging off the very people you are messaging doesn't do you a lot of favours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and how does it give anyone a bad name?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you read the hints and tips it does tell you that not replying is not rude.

Single guys raise this issue and get hammered for it.

Consider it like junk mail - do you reply to every bit of bumf from companies you never heard of who want your money? There are couples and females on here (prolly some guys too) who get far more mail then they can handle.

If you aren't what they're looking for surely they'd rather spend their time arranging things with people who are instead of saying no thanks to people who aren't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does it give females a bad name? Where does it say " all messages must be answered?"

Why worry about it? Just move on to the next !!

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

It's a difficult one to answer tbh without infuriating ppl who don't use the forum that often..... But yes.... Some ppl are ignorant on here for sure

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well, I do find it funny/refreshing coming from a couple lol

So single guys, it's not just you so take a deep breath and relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does it give females a bad name? Where does it say " all messages must be answered?"

Why worry about it? Just move on to the next !! "

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

And the blocking is just to ensure that you don't show in their further searches - reinforcing that you're not their type.

If I sound frustrated it's cos I have been out of the country for two weeks, my profile has said that and yet I still get "wanna meet tonight?".

From people who are the opposite of what I'm looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few female friends on here, they can easily get in excess of 100 messages a day, would you answer them all ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the blocking is just to ensure that you don't show in their further searches - reinforcing that you're not their type.

If I sound frustrated it's cos I have been out of the country for two weeks, my profile has said that and yet I still get "wanna meet tonight?".

From people who are the opposite of what I'm looking for

That's why you never replied to my messages....... I had ya down for another time waster ignoramus lol

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

1000s of threads on this already. Site policy is that no reply is not move, it just means "not interested". Move on...

Have a search through the forums.

Admin x

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