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My Posts (just to clarify a few things)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My Posts are basically questions I'm curious as to whether there's a consensus on the topic one way or the other, or if opinions are split down the middle.

My Posts aren't always a reflection of what I'm going through atm

If I post about race, I don't want sympathy etc. I post about it because that's the reality we're living in. Not talking about race doesn't make the problem go away.

Also I don't like drama on my posts, just want people's opinions one way or the other.

And as I always ask please be respectful with your comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that is seen or can possibly be read as controversy which always get strong opinions and often from people that won’t want to hear another perspective.

Then you have the ones that will comment to impress other people.

Basically don’t worry about it OP just keep posting

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP, you can't enforce how people will perceive or respond to anything you post.

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

You want peoples opinions as long as they don't cause drama by being different from your own? That's what this thread seems to be saying.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Are you writing a book as well?

Seems lots of people who want opinions are writing a book or work for a university!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m writing a book, it’s got dragons in it .

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I’m writing a book, it’s got dragons in it ."

Swinging dragons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m writing a book, it’s got dragons in it .

Swinging dragons?"

That’s probably just the fanfic…

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"You want peoples opinions as long as they don't cause drama by being different from your own? That's what this thread seems to be saying."

OP never said he didn't want diferring opinions, just that he didn't want drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m writing a book, it’s got dragons in it .

Swinging dragons?

That’s probably just the fanfic…"

Bad dragons!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything that is seen or can possibly be read as controversy which always get strong opinions and often from people that won’t want to hear another perspective.

Then you have the ones that will comment to impress other people.

Basically don’t worry about it OP just keep posting "

Calm bruv thanks

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

local


"I’m writing a book, it’s got dragons in it ."

Hope his names not “puff “that could be homophobic

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield


"You want peoples opinions as long as they don't cause drama by being different from your own? That's what this thread seems to be saying.

OP never said he didn't want diferring opinions, just that he didn't want drama."

He said he wants opinions, he said he doesn't want drama, the only opinions that would cause "drama" are ones different than his own, it stands to reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m writing a book, it’s got dragons in it .

Hope his names not “puff “that could be homophobic "

You’re assuming it’s a male, everyday sexism…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You want peoples opinions as long as they don't cause drama by being different from your own? That's what this thread seems to be saying."

Absolutely not, literally saying I want diverse opinions on amy subject matter as long as there aren't personal attacks and drama. I always like to hear the reasoning behind an opinion that may differ to mines.

For example on my previous profile I posted about bringing flowers on a first date and even though I'm not necessarily looking for sex on the first date, women told me sometimes they felt pressured by guys when that happens despite the guy's intentions, this was not something I had perceived before and even though that post got out of control etc I still tried to remember the points.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Keep doing you OP if that's what you want to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You want peoples opinions as long as they don't cause drama by being different from your own? That's what this thread seems to be saying.

OP never said he didn't want diferring opinions, just that he didn't want drama.

He said he wants opinions, he said he doesn't want drama, the only opinions that would cause "drama" are ones different than his own, it stands to reason."

I have no idea how you can draw such a conclude, but I'm not going to debate this more tbh

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