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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need the power of all the fabs, especially y couples and females. It seems I attract the wrong crowd. Is it something wrong with my profile? Any tips and feedbacks are appreciated

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Nothing wrong but the spiv look I can see attracting the wrong type…

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op get rid of the Sydney University bit, it's meaningless and maybe a few more public pics.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong but the spiv look I can see attracting the wrong type… "

The what? Spiv?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not your target market but I’ll pop my 2p in if I may OP as you’ve asked. Only my views of course and may not be consistent with what your target market will think.

Your profile is a bit contradictory: in it you say “sorry no pics whatsoever but privacy is extremely important”. Then you have a clear face pic as your avatar. So is privacy important or not? If you tell a prospective meet their privacy is important can they trust you?

First line is a whinge. That’s not really the killer opening you want as first impression imho.

And on first reading the profile is a bit demanding. And ending on “Just be educated” might turn a few off. I don’t even know if understand what you mean by that (mind you I’m just a simple country boy)

The Sydney university bobbins is just that - bobbins. I know that turns some people off.

On the plus side, you’re clear about what you want which is good. But you don’t necessarily say what you can offer.

I guess the question to ask yourself is this: if you were your target market up against a lot of competition, would you choose you over other people based on what you can see.

If the answer is yes, then keep your profile as it is.

If the answer is no, then change it to reflect the profile you’d want to see

Good luck my friend!

Oh and while I’ve tried to be constructive above, so it might seem a bit negative, it’s still a million times better than my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi op get rid of the Sydney University bit, it's meaningless and maybe a few more public pics.

Miss"

Thank you. I was just coming the rest of the profile I’ve seen around

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's a minor point but I'd find the 'just be educated' line a little sanctimonious and ironic given how poorly written your profile is.

And people think being open to anything will help them because it gives rhem broad appeal, when in reality it makes it hard for people to form any kind of impression of what you're about and what you're interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not your target market but I’ll pop my 2p in if I may OP as you’ve asked. Only my views of course and may not be consistent with what your target market will think.

Your profile is a bit contradictory: in it you say “sorry no pics whatsoever but privacy is extremely important”. Then you have a clear face pic as your avatar. So is privacy important or not? If you tell a prospective meet their privacy is important can they trust you?

First line is a whinge. That’s not really the killer opening you want as first impression imho.

And on first reading the profile is a bit demanding. And ending on “Just be educated” might turn a few off. I don’t even know if understand what you mean by that (mind you I’m just a simple country boy)

The Sydney university bobbins is just that - bobbins. I know that turns some people off.

On the plus side, you’re clear about what you want which is good. But you don’t necessarily say what you can offer.

I guess the question to ask yourself is this: if you were your target market up against a lot of competition, would you choose you over other people based on what you can see.

If the answer is yes, then keep your profile as it is.

If the answer is no, then change it to reflect the profile you’d want to see

Good luck my friend!

Oh and while I’ve tried to be constructive above, so it might seem a bit negative, it’s still a million times better than my profile "

I was going to refer to the same points... thank you for saving me time

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not your target market but I’ll pop my 2p in if I may OP as you’ve asked. Only my views of course and may not be consistent with what your target market will think.

Your profile is a bit contradictory: in it you say “sorry no pics whatsoever but privacy is extremely important”. Then you have a clear face pic as your avatar. So is privacy important or not? If you tell a prospective meet their privacy is important can they trust you?

First line is a whinge. That’s not really the killer opening you want as first impression imho.

And on first reading the profile is a bit demanding. And ending on “Just be educated” might turn a few off. I don’t even know if understand what you mean by that (mind you I’m just a simple country boy)

The Sydney university bobbins is just that - bobbins. I know that turns some people off.

On the plus side, you’re clear about what you want which is good. But you don’t necessarily say what you can offer.

I guess the question to ask yourself is this: if you were your target market up against a lot of competition, would you choose you over other people based on what you can see.

If the answer is yes, then keep your profile as it is.

If the answer is no, then change it to reflect the profile you’d want to see

Good luck my friend!

Oh and while I’ve tried to be constructive above, so it might seem a bit negative, it’s still a million times better than my profile "

Thanks for taking the time to write down tips. My profile pic comes and go. I thought to leave it on just for today

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I understand it's lovely to see whom people may be chatting with.but if you only saw part of a body would you still chat with someone if you liked the look of it. Whilst it is important as an attraction seeing a face would the rest of the body be a disappointment.attraction has more than one feature and their words are one the rest grows connection chemistry.so figure out what is important to you, getting to know someone then leading to seeing what they may look like which can be very surprising.but choice is yours how you decide.

Good luck pal

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The obvious one would be more pictures, but I wouldn't switch it to no pictures at all as there's nothing worse than a pictureless Profile.

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham


"Nothing wrong but the spiv look I can see attracting the wrong type…

The what? Spiv? "

Sorry mate. It was the pencil moustache. Goes with the old image of a spiv (wide boy peddling things that fell off of lorries).

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