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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, I don't need the bottle opener. I got my own thanks

That opening message, what does it need to say to you for it to receive a reply ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can manage more than 3 words you are already winning but humour is always a winner

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

You need to say why you have chose to contact us. If it's no more than "every hole's a goal" then that won't get you anywhere. If it's because you have good reason to think we'd get on and articulate why then the chances are we'll respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything beyond 'hi' stands out on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you can manage more than 3 words you are already winning but humour is always a winner "

Only more than 3 words. I should be ok then

Do you set a maximum limit of words, when you think I can't be bothered to read this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that start.."Hey Baby" or "Hi "Babe" etc = Instant delete. We always send a polite and open message to those we like, and also answer a nice reply to most others unless they are the obvious single cell dick brains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to receive one and then I’ll let you know haha!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Polite, reasonably sane and shows they read my profile and they aren't testing my resolve in their introduction.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

Something engaging or shows that you’ve chosen us for a specific reason…not a copy and paste message you send everyone!

We’ll also check profile pics, and profile wording (to get a sense of you). If there’s nothing there to grab us or feel we aren’t on the same page then it’ll be a polite no thanks.

That’s why it’s not just important to have a good message, it’s making sure when you invite people into your FAB shop, you are well stocked so they’ll stay and browse

We straight delete dick pics, one liners, vulgar messages.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only need 3 letters FAF

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Something engaging or shows that you’ve chosen us for a specific reason…not a copy and paste message you send everyone!

We’ll also check profile pics, and profile wording (to get a sense of you). If there’s nothing there to grab us or feel we aren’t on the same page then it’ll be a polite no thanks.

That’s why it’s not just important to have a good message, it’s making sure when you invite people into your FAB shop, you are well stocked so they’ll stay and browse

We straight delete dick pics, one liners, vulgar messages.

K"

Exactly this and a dose of humour Always....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the message, its who it has come from that makes me reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not the message, its who it has come from that makes me reply. "

That's interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You only need 3 letters FAF "

That's way too easy, I don't believe that for a second

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good responses already.

It would be interesting get some more of your views.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I send out the first message ... have everything crossed when I do that I get a reply

... I'll be picking up tips from this thread

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

If its mainly humorous messages then I should up to my armpits in blowjobs by now!!! . Or…. Do people except me think it has to be funny? That’s tricky…..

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Something that shows the person has read my profile is good, otherwise the guy could have sent the same message to all the ladies in the area.

A good set of varied photos on their profile and some text about themselves means I'm more likely to reply. No point in sending identical photos, as on the profile, as I always look at the profile before replying.

Sending a dick pic is not good.. Sending a face pic is good.

A bit of humour is always welcome.

Crude language nope.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘Salutations fine maiden; Pray tell, might I inveigle thou to part thy luscious thighs for my licentious pleasure?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Salutations fine maiden; Pray tell, might I inveigle thou to part thy luscious thighs for my licentious pleasure?’"

Works for me and I’m not a maiden and that wasn’t a PM..

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"No, I don't need the bottle opener. I got my own thanks

That opening message, what does it need to say to you for it to receive a reply ? "

How would you approach someone if you met them in a bar or club or anywhere else if you have no idea then how bad could it be further down the line if not able to strike up a starting roll to a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is should start with. FAF

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"‘Salutations fine maiden; Pray tell, might I inveigle thou to part thy luscious thighs for my licentious pleasure?’

Works for me and I’m not a maiden and that wasn’t a PM.. "

My silver tongue is in hot demand; Why only earlier today, I received a phone call from a certain Mr Boris Johnson who proceeded to beg me to give an official speech, exonerating and excusing him from some Christmas party misdemeanour that is presently troubling him….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really couldnt tell you, which is no help at all I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"‘Salutations fine maiden; Pray tell, might I inveigle thou to part thy luscious thighs for my licentious pleasure?’"

I like it

Not using it though, its hard enough understanding modern English

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By *007ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

More than just Hello or Hi. I like a chat!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

A message that is warm and friendly and perhaps even references something either in my profile or photographs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something tailored specifically to the profile and why you like it...

I find I'm more responsive if it's a little bit cheeky too and there are a few photos attached.

Hope that helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More that hi, what you up too, can I see a picture,etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something tailored specifically to the profile and why you like it...

I find I'm more responsive if it's a little bit cheeky too and there are a few photos attached.

Hope that helps x"

It really does thanks

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