FabSwingers.com forum: How to break up with someone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've been together a year....she's funny and hot but I'm not feeling it.

Any help ?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just b honest tell her straight best way x

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

I AM GAY

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By *orteMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Decide what you definitely want to do.

Be honest

Be clear.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Be honest.

Be fair.

Be considerate.

Appreciate she'll probably be upset.

But for crying out loud do it and don't string her along. Allow her to grieve and move on.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Show her your profile.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

You have a mouth tell her! Not point being unhappy life is too short.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"We've been together a year....she's funny and hot but I'm not feeling it.

Any help ?"

There's no particular way other than being very honest.

Be kind, don't beat about the bush and be very clear.

You never know, she may feel the same but it's going to be upsetting, however you say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest.

Be fair.

Be considerate.

Appreciate she'll probably be upset.

But for crying out loud do it and don't string her along. Allow her to grieve and move on."

Yup

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"You have a mouth tell her! Not point being unhappy life is too short.

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*No

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Leave your unlocked phone in the living room with your Fab profile open

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren’t there 50 ways to leave a lover?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Aren’t there 50 ways to leave a lover?"

I thought it was variations on the colour grey?

LvM

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Fake your own death. Move abroad, cut off all connections to your current life. Come back in 20 years with a new identity and claim to be your long lost twin and see if she’s still hot and funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just Ghost her..

They love that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren’t there 50 ways to leave a lover?

I thought it was variations on the colour grey?

LvM"

No, you can slip out the back Jack

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"I AM GAY"

Stupid sexy girlfriend.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren’t there 50 ways to leave a lover?

I thought it was variations on the colour grey?

LvM

No, you can slip out the back Jack"

Make a new plan Sam

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Tell her directly, give her time to process it, be patient if she has questions then move on and leave her alone. Treat her with respect and compassion.

Having just been on the receiving end of a breakup of sorts I can honestly say that the respect and compassion is key. I didn’t get that and so I’m still dealing with the way it ended, I haven’t even begun to start processing the fact that I won’t see him again. How it ends is important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say to her 'tell me if you can hear this" get into car boot and yell/scream a bit

Complain to her you didn't die in your sleep.

Write her name on a roll of duct tape, leave it somewhere she'll find it.

Move to Luton.

Ask her why, if her mum/sister/best mate likes x sex act with you why doesn't she?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest, be kind and remember she has feelings as well, clearly communicate your feelings to her, wish her the very best and know for sure this is what you want and let it be that you break up with her then messaging her for sex or that you've made a mistake etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have sex with her, then in the after glow break up. Girls love that right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send a text....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them the last year didn’t mean a thing ( 6 year )

Tell them you never loved them you only there for the money

Tell them they will be single for the rest off they life’s because they ugly and no one will want them

Tell them your going to go shag 300-400 people

And then come back ones everyone had a go

Tell them they take you back because they know they love you and no matter what they do they always take you back

Tell them they going to make shour no one else wants you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fake your own death. Move abroad, cut off all connections to your current life. Come back in 20 years with a new identity and claim to be your long lost twin and see if she’s still hot and funny. "

Brilliant option.please use this

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Tell her directly, give her time to process it, be patient if she has questions then move on and leave her alone. Treat her with respect and compassion.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her to the cemetery, when she asks who died say our relationship. Walk away and leave her to grieve.

You're welcome

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Don't warn her thay you're going to jizz in her mouth knowing that she doesn't like it.

LvM

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"Take her to the cemetery, when she asks who died say our relationship. Walk away and leave her to grieve.

You're welcome

Sounds like you have done this before

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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

What is it you are not feeling?

Is this something that if you talk about - it can be fixed?

Maybe she is feeling the same way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny comments aside. She is human ( I hope)

Treat her with respect, explain your concerns. She might be feeling the same or it might be something your doing wrong.

If you end it badly you will only kick yourself if you realise months down the line that you shouldn't have ended it.

You might get lucky and she wants you as fab.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Tell her honestly and unambiguously that for you there's no future in your relationship. You like her a lot she's sexy and funny but the chemistry isn't there. If she asks any questions answer them as honestly as possible. Wish her well and leave her to get on with her life

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Be honest and straightforward.

With luck she may turn around and say

"Oh Thank God I thought it was just me - I'll have the cat, you keep the sex toys - Ta-Ta"

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Tell her you're on Fab. That would probably do the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice line used on me several years ago was: We are just not on the same wavelength.

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"I AM GAY

Stupid sexy girlfriend....."

Welcome to dumpsville. Population, YOU

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"We've been together a year....she's funny and hot but I'm not feeling it.

Any help ?"

Make a pot of tea

Sit her down hold her hand

And tell her the truth

Say how you feel xx

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

"We've been together a year....she's funny and hot but I'm not feeling it.

Any help ?"

Not an easy issue but however you do it, just be nice to her

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"Tell her you're on Fab. That would probably do the trick. "

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

As others have said, be honest, be nice and be firm.

Don't even hint at the possibility of it being temporary, in the first few days of a breakup acceptance and logic can be a bit wayward so be honest and leave her to deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been together a year....she's funny and hot but I'm not feeling it.

Any help ?"

What are you not feeling?

She's funny and hot. That's rare enough.. stick it out til Christmas anyway see what she gets you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send her a text meant for the girl you are seeing behind her back . That ends a 32 year long marriage nice and quick so im sure it will work on a 1 year long relationship

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Honestly and face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call her by her mum's name as fucking her ends it quickly

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"I AM GAY

Stupid sexy girlfriend.....

Welcome to dumpsville. Population, YOU"

My god!! It’s like you’ve known me all my life!!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Do it asap o/p. Tell it to her face.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I hope she hasn't already bought your xmas present,plop time to break up with someone but no time is good I know. This makes me feel sad.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"Do it asap o/p. Tell it to her face. "

Yes, forgot those bit in my post. Tell her to her face. A text or phone call shows complete lack of respect.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

You just skip out the back Jack

Make a new plan Stan

You don’t need to be coy, Roy

Just get yourself free

Hop on the bus Gus

You don’t need to discuss much

Just drop off the key, Lee

And get yourself free.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Do it by text. “you are dumped “.

Open for more relationship advice where needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been together a year....she's funny and hot but I'm not feeling it.

Any help ?

What are you not feeling?

She's funny and hot. That's rare enough.. stick it out til Christmas anyway see what she gets you.

I actually wanna know too. Like she’s funny and hot. So what is that you dont seem to enjoy?

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