FabSwingers.com forum: Would you arrange a long distance meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone done it??

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

One of my FWB lived 4 hours away so yes...current one lives about 2 hours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One of my FWB lived 4 hours away so yes...current one lives about 2 hours! "
how come so far??

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

My main FWB is 4 hrs away. we make it work.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Yes. Have driven long distances for meets. Also had a lovely lady fly in from N.Ireland to see me.

If you can make it work, then why not.

A regular thing twice a year is still regular.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not my preference, but I do occasionally make an exception. (I don't look for it)

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in the SE, one lady was in the far NE. We met one day about half way in the North Midlands.. Quick drink.. quick knee-trembler in the Travelodge .. home again.. in the equivalent of a working day…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely travel for a meet with the right person.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Nope.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I did once, before Fab. He cancelled and so I spent a few days in Edinburgh on my own.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I have ..a long time ago...met someone halfway between the two of us ...for a night at a hotel

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

We are currently just around 90 mins from each other I’m not sure if you class this as long distance or not but it never feels like a distance for us.

The Beard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did once, before Fab. He cancelled and so I spent a few days in Edinburgh on my own."
love Edinburgh, he obv wasnt thinking straight x

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By *lex199169Man
over a year ago

tamworth

I’d happily drive a couple of 3 hours for the right person. Quality is worth the petrol prices

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

No, not only because it never seems to happen plus because I may need to cancel last minute i wouldn’t like to waste the other persons time.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"One of my FWB lived 4 hours away so yes...current one lives about 2 hours! how come so far??"

Don't like them on the doorstep

...only joking. I liked them, we connect so distance isn't an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t want someone to travel to see me, it’s too much pressure.

I wouldn’t travel, I travel a lot already so don’t want to do it to meet

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By *rsonMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

I arranged a pretty long distance meet a couple of years ago. There was around 450 miles between our homes so we decided that instead of one of us going to visit the other’s fairly boring town, why not have a weekend away in Europe.

Spent a terrific 48 hours switching between bed, bars, sightseeing, nightclub, bed, shower, couch etc. It was one of the best weekends of my life. No expectations, take a chance, you-only-live-once kinda things.

Flew home and on the plane I found a pair of knickers in my pocket. I’d do it all again in a heartbeat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One of my FWB lived 4 hours away so yes...current one lives about 2 hours! how come so far??

Don't like them on the doorstep

...only joking. I liked them, we connect so distance isn't an issue."
ditto!!

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

Yup - have done a thousand mile round trip a couple of times now.

I usually fly, but drove the last one. Totally worth it - next one already planned!

Bob

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes within the UK.

If you drive and you have the resources to run it then why not make it work.

Then the time. It's precious and your willing to spend it on another person

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Have done and will continue to do long distance as long as the trust is there to turn up and of course it has to be someone worth it. Wouldn't do it after just a week or two of chatting.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Yes and we had a great time and we’re planning to do it again soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would for the right connection etc

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Yes i done and they have done same for me . Longest distance was almost 6 hours driving. If there's connection between both sides distance is not issue , most difficult is match the free time for that meeting

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Only if it was at a club so the journey wouldn't be wasted if it didn't work out.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

Yep... 7 hour train journey.

Was it worth it? Most definitely... doing it again over new year

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

Right person.. distance no object

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By *rsonMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

"Yep... 7 hour train journey.

Was it worth it? Most definitely... doing it again over new year

Love this! Anticipation isn’t everything but it’s great.

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry

Distance like other things is only a problem if you make it one

I once travelled 300 miles round trip

Flights trains drive it's not difficult

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Currently making tentative arrangements for just such a thing, with a married friend who fancies coming to play if my wife goes away for a few days...

....that bit's what everything will hinge on - the when, especially...

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We've travelled 150 miles for a meet, as did that lady to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No distance is too far for the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not as in my experience the further where person is the more likely they are to cancel. Also I don't know about the rest of Fabbers but I rarely make plans more than 2 days in advance.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Of course I would

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

no not a chance

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol

Yes. I've done it a few time

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

For the right person/people I would. I have done a 4 hour round trip to meet someone.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I do this once a month as a nice weekend away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone done it??"

No,I wouldn't trust someone enough to put myself out that much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t even get one within 5 miles…but yes I would….use it as a weekend away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done once sadly not what expected taught me to stay closer

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Would depend. I don't like arranging first meets where either of us have to travel a long distance as there is too much pressure on guaranteeing sex (in my mind, I get there probably isn't and that is not how others feel).

But if we've met at a social or club etc then yes, it can work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in southern France, and make regular visits to the UK. So for me it's a must. Trouble us finding woman and couples that are willing to give me a chance. Even though it's me that's doing all the traveling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep... 7 hour train journey.

Was it worth it? Most definitely... doing it again over new year

Great. I'll be over in a couple of weeks

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes, I have and yes I would again but not routinely, I would only do it under certain circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep if they are willing to travel then why not. Last one was 3 hours away so it works if you have a connection thats worth it.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Yes I've travelled, and have spent quality time both in and out of the bedroom together. By the time you get around to arranging to meet, you've invariably exchanged numbers, and spoken at length on the phone, so you know whether there's a connection or not. It's often also been the case that me having the advantage of living in a picturesque coastal location has meant that people have been comfortable travelling to me, and I've covered some of the expense for them.

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

FWB lives 4 hours away.. we make it work but sometimes its just a right pain in the arse. worth it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done before, and will be doing again.

Furthest I’ve travelled was to Aberdeen, a round trip of 800+ miles

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

If you have to travel hours just to find someone to meet? That’s a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could for the right person I would but I don't have enough hours to travel too far.

I've had someone travel for me, I would have done the same if I could have. The time together was always worth it

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"If you have to travel hours just to find someone to meet? That’s a problem "

If you don’t care who you meet, then local is fine

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I have traveled before and I would do again. Convenient is rarely the same thing as good.

It’s about connections for me, not distance

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I live in Italy but was in the U.K. for the last couple of weeks and had arranged a couple of meets while I was there, so yes, they were pretty long distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe as part of an adventure when I have some extra time on my hands, but not as a matter of course.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Connection as no distance x

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Yeah. Currently talking to someone from my hometown but they are 2500ish miles away... I'm hoping to go out to visit them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer not to, but seeing at 90% of this site is up north, as are socials and clubs. Kinda have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be local I'm afraid 2 hours to meet up Way to far

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Regretably No.

Age and health issues dictate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done, and would again.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I did once, before Fab. He cancelled and so I spent a few days in Edinburgh on my own."

This is why I wouldn’t go for a long distance meet unless I happened to be in the area - in which case I guess it isn’t long distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love going away for a couple of days to a hotel somewhere we have never been.

If we meet someone there as well it makes the trip perfect. If not we still have indulged in what we enjoy.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Have done, am doing and will do in the future.

Distance just requires planning, which we don’t mind.

But I suppose its all down to what you want to get out of your meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done. Had a few fwbs who have lived 2-3 hours away. I won’t when/if I start meeting again as I don’t want to be far from home due to childcare

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes. As long as they're reliable then it's fine to plan ahead and meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if there is connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a guy come over from Dublin to meet us

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I have in the past but wouldn't seek it out now. If the connection was strong and unique then maybe

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. Yes. Depends.

In what ever shape or form, sex with others is the main aim of site users.

I wouldn't travel a long distance or an hour to meet someone I didn't know just for sex.

If I already know them well and I like them then yes -maybe.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Have done but prefer to meet someone regularly so I don’t anymore.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I have taken advantage of being in the locality to meet up with long standing friends on here. So I guess the answer is yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 hour round trip

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

The furthest I've been (from London) is Cambridge.

However I've got a meet planned for Edinburgh early next year... I'll be going via ChooChoo train.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I have done but I’m not sure if I would again as the distance became a little too hard to manage when it developed into more. If I was going somewhere where someone I’m getting on with is, I’d probably ask to bone down but I wouldn’t travel for that sole reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past but these days I can’t even get women to show up from within 10 miles so I probably wouldn’t go further afield

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I have as a single for a couple of weekend meets, it was about 250 miles each way

As a couple I think the furthest we've travelled is 130 miles for a social with a Fab friend

LvM

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"The furthest I've been (from London) is Cambridge.

However I've got a meet planned for Edinburgh early next year... I'll be going via ChooChoo train.

Fly, save your energy and time for the fun.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"The furthest I've been (from London) is Cambridge.

However I've got a meet planned for Edinburgh early next year... I'll be going via ChooChoo train.

Fly, save your energy and time for the fun. "

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I'm booking the "Sleeper Class" carriage for the return journey...not that there will be much sleeping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’ve a FWB that we regularly travel to spend time with each other. We connect so it’s worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. But it makes regular meets difficult /expensive

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I travelled 3 hours for a nice social day out with a friend I'd made on here, and would happily do it again.

It's nice to explore areas I haven't been to and meet new people.

I wouldn't go that far just for a fuck though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I think it's reasonable. Says the guy who travelled four hours when in the US to meet someone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I built up a really good relationship with someone who I trusted and we were both 'available' then absolutely yes 100% I would travel for as long as I needed too. I wouldn't travel excessive miles for someone I didn't know

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I would travel for the right person.

I prefer a bit of distance between us.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Wife has a boyfriend in Kent.

Atleast 3hr drive for him.

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

For the right person I certainly wouldn’t see why not

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Sheffield to Ipswich is worth it for the best ever sex xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travel and be happy vs stay local and sit on your hands....

No case to answer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would and have done.

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

I regularly meet people who are down here on business and holidays and I have reciprocated when up in Manchester and Guildford

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No there is enough nearer to meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My furthest away meet is about 7 hours drive , my regular meet is an 1.5 hours away . Distance really isn’t a big deal . Can’t beat having a weekend away , combine that with filth and it’s a winning combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to travel up from ground floor to 2nd floor. Good job the lift was working.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Have done a couple of times before I was on Fab: one decided not to turn up, the other did and we had a fun time of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthest I have driven is 2 and a half hours for a couple.

Well worth it, we have a great friendship and connection.

If a good connection is there and you have done all your homework, then travelling long distance shouldn't come with any risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I know the person pretty well and we click and ha talked on the phone etc xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been stood up and generally fucked about locally we wouldn’t bother to risk much travel.

There’s plenty of local possibilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but with someone who I met while working away once. Made it work afterwards x

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Anyone done it??"

I live in the middle of nowhere… everything is far lol. So yeah I do it often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no point.

I cant get a local one never mind one further away

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Tried….failed…..was only 2.5hrs away.

So I wouldn’t push much more than an hour in the future.

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

Absolutely, as long as I could make a day of it and you really connect with the person, why not.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If the connection was there then we would.

A weekend away, a new place to explore is always appealing…throw in new people to explore and it’s a winning combination

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Not now I wouldn’t

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Not now I wouldn’t "

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Is that confounded car of yours still kaput, Rex??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not now I wouldn’t "

Tomorrow then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely I would. It's very rare I meet anyone who is less than an hour away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have, I am doing so and I will in the future probably. Some people are worth an adventure. Sometimes you just both happen to be visiting the same part of the country too. If they seem a great match and reliable, then why not..

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

There’s like a million people within 30 minutes of me

If I need to travel that far, I’m the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. I will again.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Yes if everything felt right

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"There’s like a million people within 30 minutes of me

If I need to travel that far, I’m the problem "

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There's no need to lament my friend, I'm sure you'll find someone soon enough.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes and yes have in the past. If you count socials as a 'meet'

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's not exactly conducive to a spur of the moment thing but if I built up the right rapport with a foxy lady then why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s like a million people within 30 minutes of me

If I need to travel that far, I’m the problem "

But you don't Need to. Or at least I don't. You might want to. Different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *awtybikerMan
over a year ago

Barnoldswick

In the past I have, once arranged to meet someone for a night in London at fairly short notice, which was fun.

And a previous FWB lived about 60 miles away, but we were having too much fun to worry about it.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I do, maybe a little less this time of year. The numbers are misleading , there’s thousands of people but 99.9% are not the right ones so unless you look far and wide you won’t meet them

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Not now I wouldn’t "

For the next hr only, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I won't travel.

I had a hotel meet arranged with someone I had been chatting to for 18 months (not off fab) 40 miles away I waited for over two hours for him to arrive but gave up as he kept messaging say nearly there won't be much longer etc etc so I left and blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People bullshit me all the time saying they're going to come and visit me but never bother, so I'm not going to go any distance either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t normally travel. I might meet somebody wonderful if they happened to be in the area, but wouldn’t fancy the pressure of them coming all that way in case we didn’t click.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"People bullshit me all the time saying they're going to come and visit me but never bother, so I'm not going to go any distance either. "
ditto had plenty of them..

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over a year ago

"I don’t normally travel. I might meet somebody wonderful if they happened to be in the area, but wouldn’t fancy the pressure of them coming all that way in case we didn’t click."
definitely empty of phone calls and video chat first

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By *r Cram-BetweenMan
over a year ago

York, your bedroom or a club near you!

I would travel far to meet someone who I'd met before and really wanted to see again, but for a new meet I'd be looking at 45mins drive tops I think.

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over a year ago

"I don’t normally travel. I might meet somebody wonderful if they happened to be in the area, but wouldn’t fancy the pressure of them coming all that way in case we didn’t click. definitely empty of phone calls and video chat first "
plenty of calls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything within couple of hours is reasonable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost everyone interested in meeting me are long distance, seems most of you are either up north or in the south and mostly 100+ miles.. IT SUCKS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, totally. And although those give you a really good idea of how you’re going to get on, real life chemistry can still be hit or miss!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Not now I wouldn’t

For the next hr only, yes. "

No I wouldn’t again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah I'd meet long distance. But they've got to be extra special and worth it.

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

For the right person distance isnt an issue but I would sooner go to them than have them come to me.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Most definitely. If we get along and everything is all good. Definitely would travel. And the buildup would be just marvellous

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've done it a few times. Depends on how well we get on via messages and calls: some people feel like good friends so I'd travel a considerable distance to meet up with them.

If it's purely about sex I'm unlikely to travel any great distance though.

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