FabSwingers.com forum: Taking a break

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thinking of taking a fab hiatus. Not gonna delete coz I’d loose all the fabs friends etc etc.

But I’m honestly not sure I’m getting what I want from this anymore.

Persuade me to stay? Or otherwise tbh.

Feeling really shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the same as you tbh.

Not enjoying it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get Christmas over and done with. Come back in the new year.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I take fab breaks every half term, it's nice to concentrate on real life for a bit and not much changes on here so the urge to log on is easily resisted

Hope you work out what you need to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d take a break, I take mini breaks and it does me good to focus on other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the guys on here are getting worse. Ive lost count the amount of tool bags i block now on a daily basis. Still some nice ones about just takes a while to find them sadly

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Take a break and hide. Know I'm not as active at the moment as I usually am. Don't think you're the only one feeling this way, if that's any help at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a break is what you need go for it!

You have my other communication links should you need a chat or a dirty picture

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I’m sorry it’s making you feel rubbish, that’s not good. I’m just hanging around for the forums, although having ‘not meeting’ on your profile doesn’t make any difference to people asking you to apparently!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m the same as you tbh.

Not enjoying it at all. "

It’s so shit isn’t it. I’m fed up. Just feels a bit like all the loved up ones are everywhere and us singles have to deal with idiots.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the guys on here are getting worse. Ive lost count the amount of tool bags i block now on a daily basis. Still some nice ones about just takes a while to find them sadly"

Tell me about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m the same as you tbh.

Not enjoying it at all. "

You dare go. If you go, I go.

*a certain laugh each day is from your updates.

and your a pleasure to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. You can go.

*It’s a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of taking a fab hiatus. Not gonna delete coz I’d loose all the fabs friends etc etc.

But I’m honestly not sure I’m getting what I want from this anymore.

Persuade me to stay? Or otherwise tbh.

Feeling really shit

Just hide your profile. You can still peruse or interact on the forums that way.

I feel the same way as well, covid has played a big part in it for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a break is what you need go for it!

You have my other communication links should you need a chat or a dirty picture

Always!

I’ll message you on telegram beautiful, you’re one of the good ones. Not giving you up x

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By *esi_Dingg_DonggCouple
over a year ago

london

It’s best to leave this filthy sinful shameful lifestyle !!!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Fab is always going to be here. The cycles and trends will continue.

Take that break. It will easily give you a couple of hours of your day back if you’re active on the site generally.

Come back when you think it might be a good idea again.

Whatever you decide, look after yourself!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab is always going to be here. The cycles and trends will continue.

Take that break. It will easily give you a couple of hours of your day back if you’re active on the site generally.

Come back when you think it might be a good idea again.

Whatever you decide, look after yourself! "

This is so true I’m spending far too much time on here and not giving real life enough. It’s a little vacuum. I’ll come back. I always do. But I just feel like this time I really need a break.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thinking of taking a fab hiatus. Not gonna delete coz I’d loose all the fabs friends etc etc.

But I’m honestly not sure I’m getting what I want from this anymore.

Persuade me to stay? Or otherwise tbh.

Feeling really shit

Just hide your profile. You can still peruse or interact on the forums that way.

I feel the same way as well, covid has played a big part in it for me. "

Not so much covid for me just sick of the same shit you know? I actually wanna make meaningful connections not even sexually but apparently that’s too much to ask for sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of taking a fab hiatus. Not gonna delete coz I’d loose all the fabs friends etc etc.

But I’m honestly not sure I’m getting what I want from this anymore.

Persuade me to stay? Or otherwise tbh.

Feeling really shit

No. If you’re feeling shitty and not getting what you need here this can, from personal experience, be one of the worst places to be.

I hope you are in a better place soon and do return at some time, but until that time I wish you a speedy recovery. x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If you do decide to hide for a while I hope you enjoy the break and look forward to your return once you feel you're ready

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Take a break and breathe. There are good humans here. There are also numpties. Don’t force it if it’s not happening naturally. You will find your people when it’s right for you both.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Thinking of taking a fab hiatus. Not gonna delete coz I’d loose all the fabs friends etc etc.

But I’m honestly not sure I’m getting what I want from this anymore.

Persuade me to stay? Or otherwise tbh.

Feeling really shit

I fully support which ever decision you make...I'll miss ya.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you lovely people.

you’ve all given great advice. Time for a week or so off me thinks. I’ll pop back for my birthday at the end of the month. Speak soon xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably gonna delete in the new year x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think anyone can persuade you one way or the other. Only you’ll know how you’re feeling. We don’t really know what you’re experiencing from others here. Given what little knowledge I have, I’m aware that most long term members almost inevitably come back.

Go and enjoy Christmas, if that’s your thing. Hide from here, and maybe just unplug for a couple of weeks. Or maybe just layer the filters right up to avoid having any messages of any sort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not enjoying this place at the moment give yourself a little break and hide your profile. There is nothing wrong with taking a step back. You can come back all refreshed.

Hope you're ok, your happiness has to come first and foremost above all of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of taking a fab hiatus. Not gonna delete coz I’d loose all the fabs friends etc etc.

But I’m honestly not sure I’m getting what I want from this anymore.

Persuade me to stay? Or otherwise tbh.

Feeling really shit

Just hide your profile. You can still peruse or interact on the forums that way.

I feel the same way as well, covid has played a big part in it for me.

Not so much covid for me just sick of the same shit you know? I actually wanna make meaningful connections not even sexually but apparently that’s too much to ask for sometimes. "

Yes I know what you mean. I found I only made meaningful connections via organised group socials rather than on here. Have you been to any?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thinking of taking a fab hiatus. Not gonna delete coz I’d loose all the fabs friends etc etc.

But I’m honestly not sure I’m getting what I want from this anymore.

Persuade me to stay? Or otherwise tbh.

Feeling really shit

Just hide your profile. You can still peruse or interact on the forums that way.

I feel the same way as well, covid has played a big part in it for me.

Not so much covid for me just sick of the same shit you know? I actually wanna make meaningful connections not even sexually but apparently that’s too much to ask for sometimes.

Yes I know what you mean. I found I only made meaningful connections via organised group socials rather than on here. Have you been to any? "

No. I live in the arse end of nowhere unfortunately. Doesn’t help. I’d travel though for the right one x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Filters up to the max and gone inactive. See you soon lovely peoples. Xx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Always good to take a break from here to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heya. Look I know you’ve probably had loads of messages already, but I just wanted to say if you did want to talk feel free to drop me a message.

I know you said you’re headed for gastric surgery. My other half has had that this year and more than happy to put you in touch with her.

She’s lost 10 stone (63 kg) since June.

Did try and drop you a message privately, but you’ve got all guys blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are not feeling it at the moment give yourself a nice wee break and focus on you and what you enjoy outside of fab. Always other ways to keep in touch with the good people you have met. What ever you decide do what's best for you and I hope it helps and you feel better soon. Take care

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Will miss your breasticles. Enjoy your break.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

What is it you are wanting to get out of fab, and what is it you feel you are not getting?

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Take a break my lovely x listen to your head for a while x take care x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you take a break you’ll miss me.

Here is a picture of my bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think taking a break can help if you feel like you need it, just hide your account dip in and out of the forum or have a complete switch off and come back fresh in the new year but don’t delete…

I hope things improve

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I take regular breaks at it gets so monotonous at times. Same people on the forums commenting to each other almost daily so even they have lost their appeal. I don't use the site half as much as I did now.

Maybe one day it will go back to how it was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're spending time on here to the detriment of real life, then maybe deleting your profile is the best option.

Your friends will still be here when you come back with hopefully a new perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well more to life than fab but can be addictive if your single i get that but you do you hope your well and you be welcomed back with open arms when your ready to come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all need a little break sometimes. I took two months away and feel refreshed now. Just take a breather and come back when your ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm probably gonna delete in the new year x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of taking a fab hiatus. Not gonna delete coz I’d loose all the fabs friends etc etc.

But I’m honestly not sure I’m getting what I want from this anymore.

Persuade me to stay? Or otherwise tbh.

Feeling really shit

Just hide your profile. You can still peruse or interact on the forums that way.

I feel the same way as well, covid has played a big part in it for me.

Not so much covid for me just sick of the same shit you know? I actually wanna make meaningful connections not even sexually but apparently that’s too much to ask for sometimes.

Yes I know what you mean. I found I only made meaningful connections via organised group socials rather than on here. Have you been to any?

No. I live in the arse end of nowhere unfortunately. Doesn’t help. I’d travel though for the right one x x"

Snap. I've driven 1.5hours to the few I went to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take regular breaks at it gets so monotonous at times. Same people on the forums commenting to each other almost daily so even they have lost their appeal. I don't use the site half as much as I did now.

Maybe one day it will go back to how it was! "

Monotony is a pain in the ass for me. I understand exactly what you just wrote.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you people I can honestly say your words have touched me. No not in that way you creeps.

I also realised I haven’t been taking my meds for a while as I’ve been so poorly so no wonder my mental health has dipped. Anyway still taking a break but I’ll be back.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"Just get Christmas over and done with. Come back in the new year."

^^^ This with bells on... this time of year can be really stressful for many individuals and can really fuck up a person's mojo...

Take the break.

Get the festive shite out of the way. Come back refreshed ready to mingle. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just get Christmas over and done with. Come back in the new year.

^^^ This with bells on... this time of year can be really stressful for many individuals and can really fuck up a person's mojo...

Take the break.

Get the festive shite out of the way. Come back refreshed ready to mingle. xx"

Defo! It’s my bday slap bang in the middle of Christmas and new year too. Annoyingly. X

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"Thinking of taking a fab hiatus. Not gonna delete coz I’d loose all the fabs friends etc etc.

But I’m honestly not sure I’m getting what I want from this anymore.

Persuade me to stay? Or otherwise tbh.

Feeling really shit

I had a one month break away from the site and just came back a few weeks ago. I believe a break is necessary every now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Thank you people I can honestly say your words have touched me. No not in that way you creeps.

I also realised I haven’t been taking my meds for a while as I’ve been so poorly so no wonder my mental health has dipped. Anyway still taking a break but I’ll be back.

Xx"

Come back soon but only when you’re feeling refreshed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As they say 'it's the most wonderful time of the year'... But it's also the most stressful. Plans, work, pressure, family or loneliness.

This place can do wonders for your self-esteem and can also floor it. If it doesn't feel like an escape anymore then do what's right for you!

I like to take breaks and it does help a lot!

I'm here if you ever need to talk and that goes for everyone and anyone! Enjoy your break lovely, come back sparkly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread and the replies to the OP has actually warmed my heart a little and reminded me how supportive you all can be. Bless you all for that. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Thinking of taking a fab hiatus. Not gonna delete coz I’d loose all the fabs friends etc etc.

But I’m honestly not sure I’m getting what I want from this anymore.

Persuade me to stay? Or otherwise tbh.

Feeling really shit

•

Heal your mind. Mend your soul. Fab will be a poorer place without you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been using this site since March 2020. I have had three coffee meets in that time and it progressed no further. I have been given positive verifications. I have come to the conclusion that this site promises much but delivers little. I also believe that there are a lot of fake profiles based upon the many messages that never even got read, let alone replied on to! My messages are always polite and I never respond nastily if I get a response saying no thank you/turned down. I do not pester people. It's just a sea of yellow on my screen. With this in mind, my new year's resolution will be to delete and leave this site on the 31st of December.

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