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By *Honey OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Ever heard of that term? How do you deal with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever heard of that term? How do you deal with it?"

What is this?

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hansel and Gretel?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

In my area of field we use that term for GPS tracking. However, I'm also intrigued about this 'new' term.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Calling them out can help. See if they're interested in any kind of relationship/friendship. If they're not, best to avoid them.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Sounds like another made up term for some rubbish

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

There was a thread a few weeks back

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1221553

Its essentially people leading others on, in a non committal way, keeping a potential interest engaged.

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By *Honey OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Ahh I didn’t see that. Cheers


"There was a thread a few weeks back

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1221553

Its essentially people leading others on, in a non committal way, keeping a potential interest engaged."

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By *Honey OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Haha no quite the opposite


"Hansel and Gretel?"

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Ever heard of that term? How do you deal with it?"

Honestly, if someone wont commit to a thing, I have no time for them.

I have enough self respect to not let someone mess me about, and at most will give them the level of engagement they give me.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Happens a bit on here. I just get bored in the end and block them once I realise they’re not actually going to meet up, even just for a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people , it’s just the world we live in. It can be annoying and frustrating when you don’t spot it early.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I don't have any tolerance for

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Now it all makes sense!

I've been perceptive to this kind of 'behaviour' but wasn't aware there was a term for it. Hence (one of) the reasons I have a section at the bottom of my profile called "My Limits".

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Haha no quite the opposite

Hansel and Gretel?"

No one ever speaks to me for long enough!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Some I walk away from immediately, some It takes me a while to recognise before I walk away, a few can lead me on for a long long time before I realise what they are doing as they ultimately hide behind the distance.

I am getting better at it but slowly

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By *Honey OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Your on point with what you’ve written. It only takes a few seconds to reply to a message


"Now it all makes sense!

I've been perceptive to this kind of 'behaviour' but wasn't aware there was a term for it. Hence (one of) the reasons I have a section at the bottom of my profile called "My Limits". "

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By *Honey OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

It’s hard to walk away, when you’re extremely attracted to someone especially.


"Some I walk away from immediately, some It takes me a while to recognise before I walk away, a few can lead me on for a long long time before I realise what they are doing as they ultimately hide behind the distance.

I am getting better at it but slowly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"leading you down the wrong path"

Whatever happened to the old fashioned terminologies

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


""leading you down the wrong path"

Whatever happened to the old fashioned terminologies "

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""leading you down the wrong path"

Whatever happened to the old fashioned terminologies "

Well it isn’t really that though I don’t think?

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By *adbod7519Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Ever heard of that term? How do you deal with it?"

You recognise it for what it is and remain in a state of No Contact. Make your life toxic/narcissist free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever heard of that term? How do you deal with it?"

Never heard of it until now, still not sure what it actually means xx

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


""leading you down the wrong path"

Whatever happened to the old fashioned terminologies

Well it isn’t really that though I don’t think? "

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Not explicitly so, but it's still a 'form' of that. I would classify that term as a neologism.

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