FabSwingers.com forum: To delete or not?

By *heKinkExplorer OP Man
over a year ago

leicester

Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

What Would Brian Boitano Do?

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By *heKinkExplorer OP Man
over a year ago

leicester

Im sure he would kick an ass or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe move to a new area and try there??

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Im sure he would kick an ass or two"

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yeah do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Flip a coin maybe.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?"

Serious question, if every answer said delete would you, even if you felt otherwise?

Surely only you know whether being on fab is a positive or negative use of your time and energy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?"

Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.

Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Do it.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?"

No stay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t … you’ll lose your verifications when/if you come back.

I’m sure it’s not stale and even if it does go quiet it’s usually just for a brief period over the festive time.

You could always try something new like clubs for example.

If you did feel like going I’d recommend hiding your profile and coming back after Christmas. I’m sure it will feel different again then

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Stay and suffer it out,it's not a great time to be meeting anyway is it.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Just hide profile for a bit.

You can always unhide

You can’t undelete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just hide profile for a bit.

You can always unhide

You can’t undelete "

wait and see what the new year brings

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By *heKinkExplorer OP Man
over a year ago

leicester

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?

Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.

Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that

When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Also if you were going to delete your profile

You would have

Why ask about it

The big announcement

I have seen you on here before

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Remember the female of the species goes in to hibernation in the winter ...

...always more activity in the spring

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?

Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.

Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that

When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months"

There's still a lot of people hesitant about meeting, and Xmas is coming up.

As others have said, maybe just hide your profile for a bit and see what it's like next year.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...continue to club and find connections there.

Leave this profile active - people from clubs are usually connected to this site anyway....

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

The whole swinging scene always goes quiet in the run up to Christmas/New Year. It will perk up again around mid January.

Nothing new about this, it's been happening in all the years that I have been swinging.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Also if your thinking about leaving because your not getting the meets you want consider maybe going to club

Women on here gets like 100s of messages a day. Most go unopened. In a club setting your personality can shine through better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just hide profile for a bit.

You can always unhide

You can’t undelete "

This

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?

Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.

Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that

When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months"

So then don’t message and just have fun in the forums. There are some wonderful people who aren’t meeting but are happy with chatting and banter

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?

Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.

Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that

When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months

So then don’t message and just have fun in the forums. There are some wonderful people who aren’t meeting but are happy with chatting and banter"

But maybe he wants to meet xx

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

if you went you might miss it, and maybe miss potential meets?

It is the pandemic changing things, we are sure of it... so many people saying the same thing.

Patience might pay off, but if you go, you will never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?"

If it’s stale for you just hide your profile for a nice break then come back re jiggered!!!

When our site supporter runs out I’m closing ours as we have run our course now which is a shame but that’s life I suppose.

Best of luck op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?

Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.

Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that

When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months

So then don’t message and just have fun in the forums. There are some wonderful people who aren’t meeting but are happy with chatting and banter

But maybe he wants to meet xx"

I want to knock a wall down but I’m not going to constantly bang my head against it until I give up. I will find another way instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same idea but for different reasons. I gave it a couple of weeks and I'm glad I didn't delete it. Persevere!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?

Yes. Your bio states that you keeping returning. You obviously leave for a reason and the reason is still there.

Doing the same thing and expecting different results and all that

When i left before it was because of relationships etc but as of now its getting very tedious messaging people and gettin no reply at all for the past few months

So then don’t message and just have fun in the forums. There are some wonderful people who aren’t meeting but are happy with chatting and banter

But maybe he wants to meet xx

I want to knock a wall down but I’m not going to constantly bang my head against it until I give up. I will find another way instead "

Why

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By *ake and ScribbleCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

You've been to a Lick and Bicker social, why not go again?

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Why not take a break instead of deleting your profile?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Only you can answer. Search your feelings. If you are to leave, you'll know it to be true.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

As I’m in a new relationship I won’t delete my profile but I will hide it. I don’t fancy starting afresh if it doesn’t work out.

So that’s the more pragmatic rather than extreme approach to deleting your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe take a break from the site? Or focus on the social element rather than just meets?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?"

Yep, go for it.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Fab is getting pretty stale around leicester area as no one seems to be meeting anymore so do i delete this once and for all?"

Did you change your mind ...?! See you're still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know you'll only return as BoomerangBadger so just hide it until your ready to come back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah! Take a break, have a kitkat

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Do it, do it, do it, do it !!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Unf it’s how it is atm. Not many people want to meet. Why don’t you just hide your profile and come back in a cpl months or go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone in the history of Fab had a noticeable uptick in traffic following announcement of imminent departure.

I can see how on one level one might think ‘well if nobody wants to play I’m taking my ball home’

On the other hand. If a shop announces it is closing down - would you bother going in to place an order?

Either way. Good luck OP.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Simply widen your horizons, the UK has quite a few other towns. Cities and counties.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Has anyone in the history of Fab had a noticeable uptick in traffic following announcement of imminent departure.

I can see how on one level one might think ‘well if nobody wants to play I’m taking my ball home’

On the other hand. If a shop announces it is closing down - would you bother going in to place an order?

Either way. Good luck OP.

Heck, don't some go mad for closing down sales??!!

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Simply widen your horizons, the UK has quite a few other towns. Cities and counties. "

^ this!

Travel a bit... make a mini break out of it!

Bob

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

"Simply widen your horizons, the UK has quite a few other towns. Cities and counties.

^ this!

Travel a bit... make a mini break out of it!

Bob

Mini break or mini vacation is my preferred term for a meet as I see it as a getaway from the norm. Travelling to a meet has a sense of adventure to it that just adds to the experience too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want a break, hide your profile and have a break. Saves you losing everything (including verifications) if you decide to come back.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"If you want a break, hide your profile and have a break. Saves you losing everything (including verifications) if you decide to come back."

Totally agree, we all go through phases of feeling it’s all a bit blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crack on, why ask the masses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you want a break, hide your profile and have a break. Saves you losing everything (including verifications) if you decide to come back.

Totally agree, we all go through phases of feeling it’s all a bit blah

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