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By *atty Coram OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

When I think of all of the well oiled phrases which include the word 'pounding':

*pounding headache

*pounding techno beats

*pound(ing) land...

*quarter pound-er with cheese

*the rate of the pound against the euro

...they are never positive

so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?

For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.

Stop it.

The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.

(Unless it's pounded yam)

(I love pounded yam.)

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

You’ve obviously never been taken to pound town

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

On a serious note, the speaking for all women and all men thaf it’s never enjoyable is laughable

Everyone likes different things. Some women absolutely do like being “pounded”, some don’t. Some men like to pound, some don’t

Stop trying to project your preferences on everyone and shaming them while you at it

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Cover me with flour and pound me on the kitchen worktop.

Oh that's dough. Yeah, I'm not dough just fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never pounded.

I may speed up when im about to cum.

But as to use the term pounding away...yep,never been me.

Basically how i enjoy sex is not by fucking,i like it slow,intimate i make love.

Its the connection.

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By *elvety CurvesWoman
over a year ago

london

Personally, I enjoy it as part of an encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about perception and preference I guess.

There are times when I love a good pounding, and times when I prefer it more gently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never pounded.

I may speed up when im about to cum.

But as to use the term pounding away...yep,never been me.

Basically how i enjoy sex is not by fucking,i like it slow,intimate i make love.

Its the connection."

You can still have a connection, even when you’re being pounded, it’s all different shades of connection.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The only pounding I do is with my fists or clubs on a willing participant’s buttocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since when did quarter pounder with cheese become a negative thing?

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Love sensual and a good pounding. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By a bizzare coincidence I was asked this question last night in an opening message no less. But it was accompanied with "deep" and "hard".

It was not endearing in any way and in my opinion implies a lack of experience and imagination. For me, I consider pounding to be (like most things on fab) for the man's benefit/ego only.

Things like that need to be discussed and simply not given as red or taken for granted it's what women want because a man has watched it in a porn film and thinks all women love it!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"On a serious note, the speaking for all women and all men thaf it’s never enjoyable is laughable

Everyone likes different things. Some women absolutely do like being “pounded”, some don’t. Some men like to pound, some don’t

Stop trying to project your preferences on everyone and shaming them while you at it "

Eh?

The OP clearly stated it was her personal take on it.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I think of all of the well oiled phrases which include the word 'pounding':

*pounding headache

*pounding techno beats

*pound(ing) land...

*quarter pound-er with cheese

*the rate of the pound against the euro

...they are never positive

so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?

For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.

Stop it.

The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.

(Unless it's pounded yam)

(I love pounded yam.)

"

I do agree, it is so aggressive. I don't know why it is seen as acceptable to use violent terms in sexual references....'Destroyed' 'ruin' 'pounding' are horrible, and anyone using those terms or similar won't get anywhere with me.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"You’ve obviously never been taken to pound town "

Is this a budget highstreet shop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I think of all of the well oiled phrases which include the word 'pounding':

*pounding headache

*pounding techno beats

*pound(ing) land...

*quarter pound-er with cheese

*the rate of the pound against the euro

...they are never positive

so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?

For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.

Stop it.

The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.

(Unless it's pounded yam)

(I love pounded yam.)

I do agree, it is so aggressive. I don't know why it is seen as acceptable to use violent terms in sexual references....'Destroyed' 'ruin' 'pounding' are horrible, and anyone using those terms or similar won't get anywhere with me.

"

You have actually just mentioned words I was going to that I find aggressive too and would never use.

Though pounding does sound like something you would say at school trying to sound mature

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Its not offensive. Its horny when theres a surge of lust and you get deep thrusts and you are in the zone.

Having a cock rammed into you like a bad dom porn film is offensive to me.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Its not offensive. Its horny when theres a surge of lust and you get deep thrusts and you are in the zone.

Having a cock rammed into you like a bad dom porn film is offensive to me. "

True ramming it in isn't something i'd like! But most guys don't i'm sure, It's probably little boys would do not men.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"On a serious note, the speaking for all women and all men thaf it’s never enjoyable is laughable

Everyone likes different things. Some women absolutely do like being “pounded”, some don’t. Some men like to pound, some don’t

Stop trying to project your preferences on everyone and shaming them while you at it

Eh?

The OP clearly stated it was her personal take on it.

Nita"

“ so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?”

“Stop it”

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Personally, I enjoy it as part of an encounter "

Part is fine... but if that's all that's on offer it's far from enticing.

I agree that the violent sounding sexual description are unpleasant, at least to me. Smash seems to be popular at the moment

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"On a serious note, the speaking for all women and all men thaf it’s never enjoyable is laughable

Everyone likes different things. Some women absolutely do like being “pounded”, some don’t. Some men like to pound, some don’t

Stop trying to project your preferences on everyone and shaming them while you at it

Eh?

The OP clearly stated it was her personal take on it.

Nita

“ so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?”

“Stop it” "

It was generic... some people do, andbporn is particularly responsible for promoting it.

However, it was very clear to me from the post, that it was her personal thoughts on the matter.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"On a serious note, the speaking for all women and all men thaf it’s never enjoyable is laughable

Everyone likes different things. Some women absolutely do like being “pounded”, some don’t. Some men like to pound, some don’t

Stop trying to project your preferences on everyone and shaming them while you at it

Eh?

The OP clearly stated it was her personal take on it.

Nita

“ so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?”

“Stop it”

It was generic... some people do, andbporn is particularly responsible for promoting it.

However, it was very clear to me from the post, that it was her personal thoughts on the matter."

Doesn’t seem very generic to suggest it’s unattractive and unacceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres 2 women on my local updates that quote 'pounding'

one reads-

'could do with a sunday morning pounding'

Who really gives a flying fuck in all honesty , if someone wants to use the term then whats the issue.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I love giving a woman a good pounding. Something very raw and intense about roughly taking what you want (consentually).

It's a fantastic form of exercise too, the best you can get. Works the muscles, gets the heart rate up and makes you cum. It's great for the mind and body.

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By *ullseye100Man
over a year ago

Ireland

It all depends like everything else.

Your partner, the mood the place sometimes I like nothing better than to pound away, sometimes I might like to take a different approach.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

As bad as ruined!

"Let's ruin her"

...No thanks

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

There are women who do want and enjoy a high energy hard fucking. I aim to please so I tend to establish preferences well in advance of any physical activity

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’d pound your tartars into next week OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dog pound

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I don't like it for long because it hurts, passionate rough quick sex is fine but my foof does not like being pounded for ages

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

don't mind the odd pounding thankyou

each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"god I'd 'wallop' that!.." is the term a colleague uses whenever he's perving, which is constantly!

Has me in stitches.. he's a very dirty boy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not all poundings are negative....

I enjoy the rhythm of pounding waves.... the pounding of feet on a wooden floor ..

The pounding of my heart at the end of a run .... fists pounding a table demonstrating passionate beliefs..... the pounding of dough on a kitchen surface... I've not pounded the washing for many years but it was good exercise back then

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips


"

so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?

For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.

Stop it.

The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.

"

Completely agree. Prefer a man that can fuck with finesse.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Hey hey hey. I love a good... Quarter pounder.

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By *atty Coram OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

so to clarify... I'm the only fan of pounded yam on here?

disappointing

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"When I think of all of the well oiled phrases which include the word 'pounding':

*pounding headache

*pounding techno beats

*pound(ing) land...

*quarter pound-er with cheese

*the rate of the pound against the euro

...they are never positive

so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?

For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.

Stop it.

The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.

(Unless it's pounded yam)

(I love pounded yam.)

I do agree, it is so aggressive. I don't know why it is seen as acceptable to use violent terms in sexual references....'Destroyed' 'ruin' 'pounding' are horrible, and anyone using those terms or similar won't get anywhere with me.

"

Completely agree.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"so to clarify... I'm the only fan of pounded yam on here?

disappointing"

I've never had pounded yam. Or any yam.

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By *atty Coram OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


"so to clarify... I'm the only fan of pounded yam on here?

disappointing

I've never had pounded yam. Or any yam. "

It is what it is...

You are what you are..

I yam what I yam...

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Since when did quarter pounder with cheese become a negative thing? "

Ooh yes. Gotta love a quarter pounder with cheese

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By *atty Coram OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


"Since when did quarter pounder with cheese become a negative thing?

Ooh yes. Gotta love a quarter pounder with cheese "

I prefer to call it a 'royale with cheese'

semantics and metrics innit

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Since when did quarter pounder with cheese become a negative thing?

Ooh yes. Gotta love a quarter pounder with cheese

I prefer to call it a 'royale with cheese'

semantics and metrics innit

"

As long as it has a burger, bap, cheese and ketchup.....I'm on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but each to their own, as I love a good hard pounding. It's so hard to find guys that will give me a good pounding. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cover me with flour and pound me on the kitchen worktop.

Oh that's dough. Yeah, I'm not dough just fat "

People call me do but I don't want a pounding tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to be pounded and also a quarter pounder with cheese. Preferably at the same time, but I'm not overly greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly love pounding when the moment is right.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Pounding is great I don’t care what you say

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By *atty Coram OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


"Sorry but each to their own, as I love a good hard pounding. It's so hard to find guys that will give me a good pounding. X"

No apologies needed..

pound away

If you find your..proper pounder on this thread, I'll feel just like Cilla.

Win win.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"It’s all about perception and preference I guess.

There are times when I love a good pounding, and times when I prefer it more gently."

Yes , variety makes for great sex xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is pounding techno a negative? Os there mild peaceful techno?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sometimes it can be good at the culmination of really good sex with lots of build up. However the majority of my experiences with men who have tried to "pound" me have been bad, usually painful. Smashing away at my cervix isn't fun. I would probably avoid men who expressed a keen interest in this because its not something I would regularly enjoy. Its also a bit of a sore spot for me because an ex used me not wanting him to fuck me in that way as justification for why he cheated on me.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

It's not always a bad thing. K has asked me to pound her on occasion when she's feeling in the mood for something a bit rougher. So I suppose as with everything, different strokes for different folks

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I think of all of the well oiled phrases which include the word 'pounding':

*pounding headache

*pounding techno beats

*pound(ing) land...

*quarter pound-er with cheese

*the rate of the pound against the euro

...they are never positive

so why do people think it's acceptable or even attractive to promote endless 'pounding' during sex?

For me personally, being 'pounded' isn't enjoyable it demonstrates a lack of technique.. and variety... and perceptiveness.

Stop it.

The word... the idea... is an Instant turn off.

(Unless it's pounded yam)

(I love pounded yam.)

"

What's negative about techno beats, Poundland and burgers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pounding by Doves , great tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a pound for everytime I've heard this

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By *atty Coram OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


" So I suppose as with everything, different strokes for different folks

LvM"

Like...literally.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


" So I suppose as with everything, different strokes for different folks

LvM

Like...literally.

"

I'm here all week

LvM

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By *rsonMan
over a year ago

Hounslow


"I love to be pounded and also a quarter pounder with cheese. Preferably at the same time, but I'm not overly greedy "

I dunno. I’m a big QP+C fan but I had one last night for the first time in ages and it was a bit shit. Dry or something. Maybe I liked them better in the 90s when they were dripping with grease and in orange polystyrene.

Like my women.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

With my back OP?? A pounding?? I could maybe give you a good 35 pencing… call me!!

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