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By *ackagain!! OP Woman
over a year ago

There

Why are people so rude??

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By *poppins78Man
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Sadly some people just have no respect for people or their preferences,likes etc. Chin up x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because they can be due in part to there being no consequences for their behaviour. The other part being they are just dicks.

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By *ackagain!! OP Woman
over a year ago

There

But,don't these awful people realise they're doing themselves no favours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re in fab, most people are ‘rude’ one way or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’re in fab, most people are ‘rude’ one way or another.

^ what this gent says

Easy for people to do and behind a keyboard. Just rise above it and consider their behaviour an indicator of someone you really wouldn't like if you had met them in real life....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’re in fab, most people are ‘rude’ one way or another.

Haha, love it.

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By *ackagain!! OP Woman
over a year ago

There

"You’re in fab, most people are ‘rude’ one way or another.

How true. It isn't a very nice place is it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’re in fab, most people are ‘rude’ one way or another.

How true. It isn't a very nice place is it!!"

The place or the people?

I could go to the most wonderful place on earth (disneyworld) I am not affiliated

and still find a couple of f’kers that would annoy my me and cause problems for others trying to have a good time.

It’s not the place, it’s people that can be rude. Your just focusing on the wrong people.

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By *ackagain!! OP Woman
over a year ago

There

"You’re in fab, most people are ‘rude’ one way or another.

How true. It isn't a very nice place is it!!

The place or the people?

I could go to the most wonderful place on earth (disneyworld) I am not affiliated

and still find a couple of f’kers that would annoy my me and cause problems for others trying to have a good time.

It’s not the place, it’s people that can be rude. Your just focusing on the wrong people.

The site is awful, because of many yuk people. They spoil it for the ok ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’re in fab, most people are ‘rude’ one way or another.

How true. It isn't a very nice place is it!!

The place or the people?

I could go to the most wonderful place on earth (disneyworld) I am not affiliated

and still find a couple of f’kers that would annoy my me and cause problems for others trying to have a good time.

It’s not the place, it’s people that can be rude. Your just focusing on the wrong people.

The site is awful, because of many yuk people. They spoil it for the ok ones

No. The okay ones make the site worthwhile.

It’s all about outlook I guess

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I smell at rat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree, I find that Fab is a cracking place. Yes there’s some unsavoury characters about. But, once you’ve established who they are, they’re a piece of piss to avoid. No more problem, happy days.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If you focus on seeking out the people who match your ethos then you’ll find them.

Create negativity and you’ll attract likeminded people. The same goes for positivity. It’s YOU that has the power to attract the right people.

If people are rude then maybe look at ways you can change that - be it your profile, your responses, your forum posts - they all help in defining how people see you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. The okay ones make the site worthwhile.

It’s all about outlook I guess

^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are people so rude??"

What do you mean rude? In what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is forcing to stay here if it is so awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m typing this with my mouth full

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"I’m typing this with my mouth full"

Urgh the worst!

p.s. is it tasty?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why are people so rude??"

They are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m typing this with my mouth full

Urgh the worst!

p.s. is it tasty?"

I’ll let you know when I’ve finished chewing with my mouth open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wonderful world of fab unfortunately. Not for the faint hearted or for people that are easily offended or can't take rejection well. Other than that it's bloody fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m typing this with my mouth full"

Of boobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe you get back what you project out...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I’m typing this with my mouth full"

Of ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m typing this with my mouth full

Of boobs? "

Not quite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m typing this with my mouth full

Of ?"

Penises

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I believe you get back what you project out..."

So does like attract like ?

Or Do opposites attract ?

Birds of a feather ?

Or is there a sweet sweet spot ?

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By *ackagain!! OP Woman
over a year ago

There

"I smell at rat...

Ummmm,sardines or tuna?!!

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

Honestly op, your biog isn't very friendly so maybe that's the reason? Of course it's your biog and one can chose to display whatever one wants but I've found a friendly biog attracts friendly people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are people so rude??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that is expected in a setting - like any social media - where it is possible to be entirely anonymous and there are very few consequences for one's actions. Unfortunately that has many consequences - views that would normally get lost in the corner of the day centre get amplified into gospel, individuals feel a need for validation and instant gratification and one can pretty much be as rude as one likes.....

All we can do is stick to the standards we would hope from others and hope that others do too.

Oh, and we get to look at naked people while doing it.

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By *ackagain!! OP Woman
over a year ago

There

"Honestly op, your biog isn't very friendly so maybe that's the reason? Of course it's your biog and one can chose to display whatever one wants but I've found a friendly biog attracts friendly people!

I actually did not ask why are people rude to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are SOME people so rude??"

Fixed that for you.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Most are idiots. Some people are cool though.

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By *oredRichMan
over a year ago

royston

People everywhere are rude.

I guess if they're rude, it's often because they've often had people who don't understand a simple "not interested", but that's a poor excuse.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People everywhere are rude.

I guess if they're rude, it's often because they've often had people who don't understand a simple "not interested", but that's a poor excuse."

If you got hundreds of rude messages when you said a polite no thanks, or unsolicited disgusting messages/ pics, you'd probably be fed up too.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

There’s rude people on and off of fab, I think sometimes it’s easy to think that the majority rather than the minority are rude on here, as it’s such a small bubble that you’re focusing on! I don’t entertain toxic people in everyday life, and have no time for them on here either, I’d rather focus on the positives

Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The wonderful world of fab unfortunately. Not for the faint hearted or for people that are easily offended or can't take rejection well. Other than that it's bloody fabulous

Sounds just about right

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Unfortunately there are a few neanderthals on here, but at least there are plenty of decent people too.

(Cough cough).

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Op. Your profile is not really the definition of polite and open-minded.

All the forumites who have never seen you before just encounter a pretty hostile persona and wonder how bad does someone have to be for YOU to complain.

A bit more Op explanation would be handy or it becomes all individual rants without context and no help to woman nor (Fab) beast.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

To be fair, the OP didn't even specify that she was talking about Fab users.

I took it to mean people in general.

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By *ackagain!! OP Woman
over a year ago

There

Bloody hell!

I WAS NOT COMPLAINING,NOR WAS I ASKING FOR ADVICE ABOUT MY PROFILE.

This place REALLY is as hostile as they say!

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By *ackagain!! OP Woman
over a year ago

There

"To be fair, the OP didn't even specify that she was talking about Fab users.

I took it to mean people in general."

Thank you

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

"Bloody hell!

I WAS NOT COMPLAINING,NOR WAS I ASKING FOR ADVICE ABOUT MY PROFILE.

This place REALLY is as hostile as they say!"

How rude!

In the absence of context to Op thread we naturally either fill out with our own agendas (and thereby ignore Op problem) or look to inform by what you publically state on profile

Yours says

"I have no intention of meeting any of you fuckwits,so please fuck off!Only INTERESTING messages will be answered. So I imagine that'll leave me craving conversation!

I DO NOT MEET,EVER!"

No advice was offered, only trying to establish what background to "rude" you might have been considering after you have been on here for 4+ weeks. Clearly you have an agenda and experience that conforms to what "they" (sic) say. Sharing that context makes fora more productive and helpful and a bit less... shouty

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By *ackagain!! OP Woman
over a year ago

There

I'm assuming,as seems to be ok,the We you refer to is the Royal Fab We. The famous CLIQUE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody hell!

I WAS NOT COMPLAINING,NOR WAS I ASKING FOR ADVICE ABOUT MY PROFILE.

This place REALLY is as hostile as they say!"

Ok.

The answer to your question is….

Because they can hide behind their keyboards, or in real life, there is no real recourse from acting rude.

You’re welcome.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

"I'm assuming,as seems to be ok,the We you refer to is the Royal Fab We. The famous CLIQUE"

Lol oh bless to be in a clique.

Your assumption would again seem driven by some hostility around the "they" agenda but ignores the simple "we" of a couple on Fab.

Perhaps if you experienced things for yourself rather than pre-judging through others opinions you might get more out of Fab? Being open about an issue gets a more useful response. There are fuckwits but also a lot of smart funny open-minded SEXY people (capitals as that is the only thing to shout about

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm assuming,as seems to be ok,the We you refer to is the Royal Fab We. The famous CLIQUE"

Im almost sure you were part of one last time you were here.

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By *ackagain!! OP Woman
over a year ago

There

You're hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality deficiency

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

"You're hilarious."

Quick tip: use the Reply+Quote button to link your comments to a specific target. Otherwise they are considered to the Op and general forum.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

Why are some people so rude OP?

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Why are some people so rude OP?

Because they are not nice people in the real world either.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"If you focus on seeking out the people who match your ethos then you’ll find them.

Create negativity and you’ll attract likeminded people. The same goes for positivity. It’s YOU that has the power to attract the right people.

If people are rude then maybe look at ways you can change that - be it your profile, your responses, your forum posts - they all help in defining how people see you.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I actually did not ask why are people rude to me. "

So if they're not being rude to you why take it so personally?

Just ignore them and be glad they're nothing to do with you!

Maybe put a little positivity in yourself and things won't seem so awful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are people so rude??"

I know what you mean. Manners cost nothing yet people seem to either loos them or are too selfish to share. Nor just here, I think in general people have just lost their manners.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just ignore rude people and don't rise to it. Best way.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Why are people so rude??

I know what you mean. Manners cost nothing yet people seem to either loos them or are too selfish to share. Nor just here, I think in general people have just lost their manners."

Increasingly common behaviour unfortunately. Earlier today I got a message from someone whilst I was on and before I could even read the message I was blocked. I did find that weird. Even if it had been sent by mistake, that's all that needed to say. Anyway as you said, it's just how it is these days

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